Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

[Skl2021]

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

@Shortmamashortcycles cute name!Thanks, that helps to hear a story like that

Well....
I knew it!

@20viona, good old FRER! Congratulations... and I hope you're feeling good and not too anxious.

@20viona Huge congratulations 🎉 xxx

@20viona congratulations!! How are you feeling??

@handbagsandholidays my brothers are 10 and 7 years older than me, and we have a really good relationship. Less so when we were younger as we didn't have the same interests and were in different stages of our lives, but I think it was around when I turned 18 or so when we got closer and closer.

I feel like I'm already out for this month and I'm not even in my fertility window :) but we're having a friend staying with us until the end of the month, and there's just no way we will be able to sneak in DTD as much as we'd like to.

Also I'm in that weird state where I think maybe the last year is a sign we shouldn't have any children.... waited too long, I feel like at the same time we're not ready, our apt is always messy and DH is always short on money. I feel like we're not "adults" enough if that makes sense, and it makes me feel depressed.

@calimc83 thanks!
@Bundaberg84 i feel fine! Surprisingly don't feel any more anxious than before; what will
Be will Be :)

@Shortmamashortcycles I feel fine!

@20viona, oh yay! I really hope if (when?) I get my line I feel good too. You're right to - all the stats suggest everything will be smooth sailing this time. Yay!

Ah congratulations @20viona! So nice to see a bfp in here already ☺️

I really have no idea what's going on with me. My temp has dropped even lower than usual and my opk from 1am this morning was barely there! What is happening 😩😩 Does anyone else in here temp? X

@20viona Yay well done you!

@calimc83 great news 🙌 sounds like your being really proactive! Send me some positivity 🙌😬 Well I haven't taken one today but I'm praying it's light When I do 🤞then I would say ovulation today and start tww tomorrow?! It's been peak for three days now so it better had gone 🙄🤦 x
@Cruz86 I have put my foot down and stopped now I can't keep doing it every day 🙈🤣 just get me in that tww! Any update on your tests? X

@20viona huge congratulations 🎉✨ lovely lines! 💕 X

@skl2021 yep let the symptom spotting commence!🤣 last time I had sore boobs and felt super emotional! But feel like that often before AF too🙈 how are you holding up?

@calimc83 oooh fertility reflexology sounds interesting! Might see if I can find something like that in my area💖 same here DTD yesterday and the day before, hoping DH's enthusiasm lasts for the next couple of days😂

Keeping my fingers crossed for your @cruz86 that you've not missed your peak! Have you done another opk this morning?💖

Congratulations @20viona!💖 lovely news😀

@Sparklesurprise29 have u ovulated yet? I'm scared to take a test today incase it's peak again 🙈🤣 just want to be in the tww now!!! Never thought I would say that 🙈 last time when I was pregnant I don't think I had any symptoms 🤔 will you be testing early? X

@20viona amazing to see! You knew! And so great to hear that anxiety isn't getting in the way. Wishing you all the best for a stress free journey x

@skl2021 I don't think so, I had quite a faint line yesterday around 2pm, then last night had loads of ewcm so figured we may as well DTD🤞 not sure if I'll use opks again this cycle though! What CD are you?
I'll try and resist but I do have a few FRERs kicking about😂

I don't blame you @Skl2021! You must be shattered 😂

I did another opk this morning and still faint. So if my peak was between a dark-ish test and a light test, it means I'm now 1-2dpo. But I'm not convinced because my temps have gone down, not up 🤷🏼‍♀️😩 x

@Sparklesurprise29 well ewcm seems like a good indication so 🤞 I'm cd 22 it's been a long month 🙈🤦 I have one frer but IL be using cheapies first as I definitely will be testing early 🤣 x

@Cruz86 yes I never want to do it again tbh 🤣🤦 I'm glad I don't temp the stress is too much now 🙈 yes I don't think u will have. I had days were it was dark then light! Get your hopes up for nothing! 🤞 It's soon for you! I suppose I better take a test today 😬 x

Argh it's so frustrating @Skl2021! I'm on cd16 of a regular 29 day cycle so I'm starting to get worried about a short luteal phase now 😩 x

@Skl2021, my blasted fertile cm FINALLY buggered off yesterday, after 8 days on and off, so I'm in my TWW too now. Best guess is that I ovulated Weds night, but counting today as 1DPO just in case.

It's so weird switching from being ultra focused on what my body is doing to trying to ignore everything for the next 10 days!

@Cruz86 hmm yes it is if your cycle is regular! Have u done anything different? Is you LP normally 14 days? Mines usually 12 I don't think it's a problem unless it's under 10? X

@Shortmamashortcycles I have had cm at random times throughout this cycle which made me think i was ovulating earlier than I thought 🤦 yes I don't usually want to be in the tww as it drags but after this month I want it over with now 🤣 might not be saying that next week!! Good luck 🤞 x

@20viona congratulations!