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Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

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Skl2021 · 13/01/2022 10:53

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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Shortmamashortcycles · 14/01/2022 11:07

@Cruz86, don't worry too much about your LP - if you ovulate later than usual your cycle will just get longer as your LP usually stays pretty stable. Unlike frigging ovulation!

Cruz86 · 14/01/2022 11:10

Good luck with your TWW @Shortmamashortcycles! I always tell myself I won't symptom spot, but I always do!

Unfortunately af never holds off, even when I ovulate later. So at the moment my lp is about 10-11 days 😩 x

Skl2021 · 14/01/2022 13:19

Yes ladies 🙌 happy Friday 🙌🎉 finally what I have been waiting for no peak!! Get me in that tww 🤣🙊💃

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Cruz86 · 14/01/2022 13:34

Yayyy!! So happy for you @Skl2021 😂😂 here comes the dreaded TWW now xx

Skl2021 · 14/01/2022 13:36

@Cruz86 no more DTD 🎉🙌 woo woo 🤣 I'm so relieved! First week won't be too bad it's when I get to around 7dpo! I start to get test crazy! Haha hopefully u will be joining me soon 💃🤞 xx

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Bridgey8 · 14/01/2022 13:41

Hi ladies can I join?

Had a missed miscarriage end of oct/beginning of nov and first cycle ttc since (allowed one period over Xmas without trying). I'm 4dpo now and off on honeymoon Sunday so hopefully that will take mind of 2ww xxx

Shortmamashortcycles · 14/01/2022 14:08

@Cruz86 - 10/11 days is ok, don't panic. That's my luteal phase too. A good sticky bean will stick in that timeframe, try not to worry. (Easier said than done, I know.)

Skl2021 · 14/01/2022 14:28

@Bridgey8 welcome 💐 good luck with the tww 🤞 and have an amazing time on honeymoon ❤️ that will definitely take your mind off! Are you going anywhere nice 🏖️ xx

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chasingtherainbow1 · 14/01/2022 14:36

Hi everyone. Didn't realise a new thread had been made and didn't get the tag notification!

Congrats all the BFP's! I also got my bfp 3 days ago at 9DPO.

I'm also very anxious about everything but I'm trying to forget that I'm even pregnant. It's sad how all the excitement has gone after the first mc. Told my partner and it just felt like it was more anxious than exciting.

Been to the EPU and have been given blood thinning injections and I'm also taking an aspirin a day. Got a scan booked with them on 28th Jan. looking forward to it but dreading it at the same time. It's just never been good news whenever I've been before so feels like it will be the same again. Feel like I've waited for this BFP since last June and now it's here it's an anticlimax because of the worry.

Good luck to everyone still TTC. Fingers crossed we all get out miracles in our arms soon!

arianasky · 14/01/2022 15:12

So I just took my first ever OPK I have only ever used clearblue digital but thought I'd try this way aswell, it was a easy@home one and when I scanned it on the app it said 0 is this incorrect. Has anyone ever tested and had a 0? I know I'm only CD9 so wasn't expecting high or peak I knew it would be low but a full on 0 is that normal? I ovulated at CD13 last month

Sparklesurprise29 · 14/01/2022 16:20

Good idea @skl2021! Definitely better to use cheapies then confirm with a FRER😀 glad you've got your peak too😀

Welcome @bridgey8, hope you have a good honeymoon!!

@chasingtherainbow1 thats good you've been seen by EPU and have a scan booked, won't make it any less nerve wracking but glad theres some support there.

Used an OPK and got a slightly darker line compared to yesterday so hoping that I'm gearing up for ovulation 😅

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Skl2021 · 14/01/2022 16:27

@chasingtherainbow1 take it a day at a time it will be scary but u will get there 💕 I'm glad epu are helping you out! Good luck with your scan ✨
@arianasky how long did u wait before putting it in the app? Did u try more than once? Sometimes my app doesn't get a decent picture and says 0. Is there a line? I would say u should say something even if low 🤔 x
@Sparklesurprise29 yes I would say your getting there 🤞it's definitely darker maybe a few more days 🙌 get busy 🤣 x

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Tofu35 · 14/01/2022 16:42

Yay @skl2021 happy tww! Remember the motto of the tww though- you shalt not test early.

Skl2021 · 14/01/2022 16:45

@Tofu35 Woaah were did that motto come from 👀 I did not sign upto that 🤣 I can't help myself I will cave and test early!!! 🙈 Xx

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arianasky · 14/01/2022 16:57

@Skl2021 there is a line yes maybe it's the app? I'll try again tomorrow 😂

Cruz86 · 14/01/2022 17:53

How funny that we get sick and tired of sex while TTC @Skl2021 😂 this is where we're going wrong! It should be fun, not a chore 😂

Hi @Bridgey8, sorry for your loss. How lovely that you have your honeymoon to keep you busy. Are you going anywhere nice?

Thank you for the reassurance @Shortmamashortcycles. I definitely had the same worries with the cycle we conceived too 🤦🏼‍♀️

Congratulations on your bfp @chasingtherainbow1. Hope this is a healthy pregnancy for you. This is what I'm more scared of - the worry and anxiety must be so much worse after having a mc. I don't know how I'll cope 😞

Cruz86 · 14/01/2022 17:55

My opk this evening is darker again 🙌🏻 is it worth doing another one in a few hours to see if it gets even darker? I'm worried my peak will be overnight and I won't catch it and will wonder if I'm still waiting for ovulation! X

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Skl2021 · 14/01/2022 18:15

@Cruz86 I started taking mine more often when it was nearly peak! So I would say so just incase it is a quick peak 🤞 your not far now! X

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Cruz86 · 14/01/2022 18:18

Ahhh I hope so @Skl2021!! Suppose I should dtd tonight even though I'm shattered 😂 x

Skl2021 · 14/01/2022 18:21

@Cruz86 hope it does go peak for you 🙌 haha I know how that feels. I should really do it tonight as I should be ovulating today 🤞 but I just can't bring myself to do it 🤣 I'm resting now 👀 hope for the best 🤞 x

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Cruz86 · 14/01/2022 18:26

Is it acceptable to inseminate with a pipette if you're married with no fertility issues and a child already? Asking for a friend 😂 x

Shortmamashortcycles · 14/01/2022 18:48

@Cruz86

Is it acceptable to inseminate with a pipette if you're married with no fertility issues and a child already? Asking for a friend 😂 x
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I feel your pain. But just think of the embarrassment you'd cause any ultimate child, "honey, do you know how much sex we had to have for you to be here? I was so over it, but we kept going. Be grateful that we kept shagging even when we were knackered."

That is parental gold, right there...

Skl2021 · 14/01/2022 19:03

@Cruz86 I say anything is acceptable at this stage 🤣 🙌 🦃 baster?! X

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arianasky · 14/01/2022 19:19

@Cruz86 😂😂😂😂😂

Cruz86 · 14/01/2022 19:21

Oh yes, what a story @Shortmamashortcycles! I LOVE it 🙌🏻

Haha @Skl2021, it's all fun and games. In all honesty, if I don't laugh right now I'll just cry constantly so this is good 😂 x