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Anyone due to get BFP/AF at Xmas?

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madeleine85 · 15/12/2021 05:10

The pressure is on... in the TWW and AF is due right around Xmas. Spending the holidays with my in laws, and both wanting to drink through the holidays/not drink as in the TWW. I’m also dreading a little bit of feeling down if I get AF right at Xmas. If anyone is looking for a TWW companion/obsessor here I am ☺️. Good luck, and hope you all get your Xmas present 🎁 BFP from Santa 🎅🏻. Xx

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MrsLeclerc · 24/12/2021 12:03

@kitty1993 that’s so lovely! Congratulations to you both and Merry Christmas ❤️

kitty1993 · 24/12/2021 12:14

Thanks @Shortmamashortcycles and @MrsLeclerc I don't think I've had any symptoms so far other than my usual pre AF stuff. My rhr was up slightly this morning. I just hope it sticks and all works out ok 🤞🤞🤞🤞

Good luck to anyone testing today and tomorrow xx

AmberRH1993 · 24/12/2021 12:50

Sorry.. I've been so busy with my sons birthday yesterday and Xmas eve today that I haven't caught up! Congratulations to all the Christmas BFPs 🎉🎅🏼 and baby. Dust to those still waiting to test 🤞🏻
CD28.. DPO WHO KNOWS?! and a BFN on my morning FRER - feeling like the grinch 😩
Sticking to my mantra that it's not over until AF shows her face and I'm thinking that will be around 28th Dec if I go by last month.
Anyone still waiting to test this weekend?

Anyone due to get BFP/AF at Xmas?
ali2021 · 24/12/2021 13:41

Oh wow.... Can't believe how many BFP there are! Congrats to all 🥰 What a lovely surprise! @kitty1993, did you have any symptoms? I'm still planning on testing tomorrow morning at 10dpo, but am not feeling overly optimistic! Only symptoms per se are really sore boobs which have gotten progressively worse since about 5dpo.. I've symptom spotted like crazy before and sworn month in and month out that I'm pregnant so not holding my breath!! Baby dust to everyone yet to test 🥰

kitty1993 · 24/12/2021 13:49

@ali2021 I was literally saying to DP last night that I didn't feel any different and didn't think I had any symptoms but now I look back at the last few days I realise yesterday I started needing a wee more and also got a bit light headed which I haven't had for years! I've got sore boobs but I always get that around this time of the month
Good luck testing 🤞🤞

madeleine85 · 24/12/2021 15:32

OMG the positives today!!! So much great news, congratulations to all, i'm so happy for you!! @TheBirdintheCave keep testing over the next few days, I hope it gets darker/pinker, what DPO are you? @Chasingrainbows1518 wow wow wow, that is such a line, I didn't even have to open it lol. @kitty1993 yessssss, that is amazing and very clear, also so early!

@LittleMrsMama and @oldermam the cheapie tests can be so rubbish, hope tomorrow is better. I once did a clearblue and got the error message, which was so frustrating at that price!

To everyone who hasn't tested positive but still no AF I am crossing everything for you that we are just a bit too early still, best of luck!

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TheBirdintheCave · 24/12/2021 15:47

@madeleine85 I thought I was 12/13dpo but honestly if I ovulated later than I thought I could be as early as 10dpo. I normally feel it but this cycle I had ovulation pains three days in a row the worst being the last day. I counted O from the middle day but it was just a guess really.

Theres also the fact that that test was taken at 7am but I had to get up to pee at 5am so it was only a two hour hold.

madeleine85 · 24/12/2021 15:56

@TheBirdintheCave ahhh that makes so much sense if it’s a 2 hour hold! This must be the best Xmas present. Did you tell your Other half? I was going to hold off till Xmas day but then the day I first tested he saw the one I thought I put out of sight in the bathroom 😂. Glad to have shared though now.

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thosethreewords · 24/12/2021 16:35

Congratulations to all the BFPs! What wonderfully sober Christmases you will all have 🥰
AF due tomorrow... the anticipation is unreal

oldermam · 24/12/2021 17:47

Merry Christmas ladies!

I'm cramping like a gooden. I think AF is on its way. I shall be pouring a glass of wine soon.

OH's dad is really poorly and probably not going to last the weekend. He had a phone call today. He's allowed to go in to see him tomorrow but there is also Covid on the ward x

madeleine85 · 24/12/2021 19:14

@oldermam I’m so sorry for everything your family is going through. Sending all my best wishes your way x

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ali2021 · 24/12/2021 20:00

Well I caved and tested... stark white BFN once again. Another month down 😔 Honestly such a killer every month! Does anyone else do as I do and mentally calculate when your baby will be due, when you'll be able to tell ppl etc... why do I do it to myself, so crushing 🙈

ali2021 · 24/12/2021 20:01

@oldermam so sorry to hear that awful news. It is such a hard and difficult time of year for some. Hope you are all doing ok ❤❤

TheBirdintheCave · 24/12/2021 20:03

I was going to keep it a surprise but I was too excited and wanted to see if he could see the line too. He said he could but was sceptical cos it was so faint. We’re at my parents now for Christmas so I don’t have access to any more tests for a few days. I’ll just have to see if AF arrives or not :)

@Chasingrainbows1518 @kitty1993 Congratulations to you both! :)

madeleine85 · 25/12/2021 02:20

I just wanted to say a massive merry Xmas to you all. I hope that you are all having a lovely day with some great company. 🌲🌲🌲🎁🎁🎁🍾🍾🍾🎉🎉🎉☺️🎅🏻

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kitty1993 · 25/12/2021 04:46

Merry Christmas everyone!

@oldermam I'm so sorry to hear about your family. My thoughts are with you ❤️

Good luck to anyone testing today and over the next couple of days xx

Chasingrainbows1518 · 25/12/2021 05:34

@oldermam sending love to you and your family. Such a difficult time.

Good luck to everyone testing today. I did another test this morning, I think it’s got a little darker but still seems very light to me which has me feeling nervous about another chemical preg 😩 so I’ll probably keep testing daily to see if the lines darken and try to make me feel a bit more at ease.

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madeleine85 · 25/12/2021 05:40

@Chasingrainbows1518 it looks progressing to me 🤞. I can definitely see the 2nd clearer. How many dpo are you?

I’m away and didn’t pack many tests as I didn’t want to jinx myself. I’ve now ran out of frer and easy at home. I have one clear blue which just says pregnant/not, and one box of cheap supermarket brand + sign ones. Stressing as I can’t check progression with using all the different varieties 🤦‍♀️. Clearly did not plan well lol. Hope you’re all doing better on that front!

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Chasingrainbows1518 · 25/12/2021 05:50

@madeleine85 thank you, according to my app I’m 14 dpo now. I was hoping to get a much darker line today with FMU…will try not to worry and see how things go. It’s easier said than done though isn’t it!!

Ahh I can imagine that is stressful not having access to more tests lol keeping my fingers crossed for you!

Merry Christmas everyone, have a lovely day and keep us all posted how you are getting on x

madeleine85 · 25/12/2021 06:25

@Chasingrainbows1518 I know how hard it is to not test daily as i am incapable, but I think hcg doubles every 48 hours normally. Some people always have lower levels though and totally healthy pregnancies. I’m hoping when you test tomorrow you’ll get a clear swing upwards from the first one. When I had dd, I first tested in week 5/6 and it was so strong, it’s hard looking at faint lines this time around and really thinking they are going somewhere. Urghhh. Anyway, I hope you are having a slightly sober but amazing Xmas day, so much to be happy for ❤️. Keep me updated how it goes!

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i123i · 25/12/2021 07:10

Merry Christmas all!

Sorry to hear about what’s going on with your family @oldermam , sending ❤️

Another BFN for me this morning, I feel your frustration @ali2021!

Have a great day all!

pennysays · 25/12/2021 07:54

Hi All,

A BF - Xmas - N for me this morning. But predictable, I'm only 8dpo. No symptoms whatsoever. So I will test again in two days.

Merry Christmas. For those of you without the result you want right now, remember that 90% of you will be pregnant or have a baby by the end of 2022!

xxxx

oldermam · 25/12/2021 08:32

I haven't tested yet, too busy atm, OH is leaving for the hospital soon so I'll do it once he's gone. Hoping with all my heart I can give him this today it would mean the world. I have had af cramps all night though. So I'm not hopefully xx

TheBirdintheCave · 25/12/2021 11:32

Woke up to brown spotting so I think I’m having a chemical :( I can still see the faint pink line on yesterday’s test (though I can’t photograph it no matter how hard I try) and it came up within a minute so I don’t think it’s an indent or a false positive (the other one from this pack showed its negative very clearly) :/ I’m so disappointed but I suppose I can have a cider later on now :)

WTFUterus · 25/12/2021 12:19

Merry Christmas All xx

I was gifted with AF just before bed last night. Heartbreaking but at least I can have some Baileys and wine today.

@oldermam I am so sorry that your family is going through this