🎄Is your turkey 🦃moister than an oyster?💦TTC bus 51

[Minster2012]

Wow that last bus was an amazing bumper BFP filled bus where we were all crying and screaming for joy as lots of our lovely passengers got their BFPs…🙌🏻we are having an ADVENT CALENDAR of a BFP each day! 🥰❤️

There’s still some ppl lingering on this bus so that’s it, I’m calling time, all the rest of you are due off this bus with your 2 lines please 🤞🏻

This is the bus where we’ve got lots of things going on, bumps, rainbows 🌈, ivf, and now lots more miracle BFPs before ivf! Maybe we should issue passengers with an ivf referral on your way in too to help spur those eggs & sperm into action!

Whether you are TTC “normally”, IUI/ivf or anything we are a crew that cling together to the bitter end & always ready to help a sister out. We’ve had multiples, some losses so know two lines can be just as terrifying as none, and we’ve got ladies where those two lines are more illusive than a white Christmas 🎅🏻

It costs an embarrassing story for your ticket, doesn’t have to be TTC related as we know laughing when TTC is needed.

If you see mention of Instagram I have a public account where a lot of people are linked too:
Minstermusings, and a few people have created new anonymous accounts to record their TTC journey/life stupidities m/general annoyances on…just don’t mention TTC on a personal account.

@Franklydear quietly keeping everything crossed for a Christmas miracle for you 🤞 What's the latest CD you've went without spotting?

Oh I am here for that @Franklydear... 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 so hard

@Franklydear 🤞🤞🤞

Everyone is quietly rolling you on @Franklydear that's where they are, probs not sat BORED OUT OF THEIR minds at a hairdressers since 10am like me 😂getting pretty h'angry now 😬🤞🏻

Willing you on. Willing you on @Franklydear

@Minster2012 I did wonder where are you rolling me.... hope you get to eat soon
@DKDK123 cd31, 32 the longest cycle, a Xmas miracle on the last trying cycle sounds a bit too good to be true, and you know what they say about things that look too good ...
@becarefuloutthere testing plan is Boxing Day, if there’s a need, wanna bet this’ll be a 40 day cycle.... i can’t look at another blank test, or even
worst, indentation lines in a certain angle
@paintfairy @larrythelizard will see
Thank you all, I need my village

@Franklydear your village is here all holding your hand and with you all the way no matter which way the outcome goes 😘

@Franklydear crossing everything quietly over here for you too.

I could be rolling everywhere at the rate I'm eating chocolate @Franklydear but no I meant willing 😜🤞🏻

@Franklydear crossing fingers quietly xxxx

Spotting

@Franklydear big hugs

Sending love @Franklydear

@Franklydear aw so sorry! I hope you're ok, love n hugs 🫂

@Franklydear x x

Oh no I'm so sorry @Franklydear big hugs xxx

@Franklydear 💐💐💐

@Franklydear sorry to hear you're spotting 😞

My chart looks rubbish this month, I think I definitely have weak ovulation or progesterone issues. I do have a short luteal phase of 9-10 days but it looks like AF might be showing up at 6dpo, she normally does when my temp drops to 36.5ish

Time isn't on my side as I'm 37 with low AMH, low estrogen and my last FSH was 9.2 so my fertility is apparently that of a 43/44 year old, I also definitely have some symptoms of peri menopause. I'm thinking we might look into seeing a fertility clinic in February if I'm not pregnant by then. When we starting TTC in May I really thought I'd be pregnant by Christmas 😭

Cd 1, thank you all, I knew it, I didn’t feel it, now big decision to make, we are more likely stopping, it’s been over 2 years, I’ll be 45 at time of birth or more, looking at the whole, we have a good marriage, a fabulous son, a great extended family and dh career has taken 5 steps ahead in the last couple of years so, it’s all good

TMI, I just passed a little sack, about the size of a 20 p coin, clear form tissue that you could pick up, I did, I think this was a loss

I meant clearly evidently shape tissue, not transparent, I read it back and sounded off

I'm walking proof of short LP phase not being an issue @polkadotpixie - I rarely got beyond 9dpo. Also had my bloods done a couple of times and got a really rubbish progesterone result. (Should probably say I'm crossing my fingers, touching wood etc not jinxing myself!!)

No harm in getting the ball rolling with bloods and stuff @polkadotpixie

Oh that's more upsetting I think
@Franklydear. Only you can do the right thing for you, all my thinking the second half of this year has been how lucky I am with my life and all the benefits DS would get from being an only.

@polkadotpixie definitely worth investigating things, it may even lead to a BFP 🤪

@Franklydear I'm so sorry 😞Only you guys can make the decision to carry on or stop.

@larrythelizard I feel a bit numb to be honest, there are benefits to be an only and with such a big gap they would both be a bit like onlys I guess, I consider myself lucky, I have a husband that loves me more than anything else, a son that is doing great in school and friendship, plus he’s becoming a great human being, a decent life... I am not deprived in any way

In the next couple of days we’ll make a decision on the way forward