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2WW anyone? Af due Friday

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rita83 · 20/09/2021 11:14

Hya all

I am new to mums net. I am currently in my tww and losing hope again for this month. My af is due Friday the 24th. I have no symptoms really! Slight bruised feeling in sides of my boobs, and yesterday and sharp stabbing pains in my pelvic area. That's about it really. Just feel like af will show again and it's not happened again. This was my chart for this month as well and when we dtd

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 24/09/2021 16:03

@rita83 As I haven't been pregnant before, I don't feel I can help here. How many DPO are you? There is defo still a line - hard to tell if it is a little stronger. You could go and have your bloods done or at least call your doctor?

rita83 · 24/09/2021 16:13

@FlyOnTheWall89 my af is due today I tested at 12dpo with the top test. The bottom one is a bit darker now as well since I have left it. With my chemical last time I actually came on as normal and then tested cos I only bled for two days and then when I tested I had a line but a couple of days later I started spotting and then the hcg went down each day x

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Peauela · 24/09/2021 16:32

@rita83 I am no expert but I do see a line on both tests!

Btbt · 24/09/2021 17:06

Hi everyone , is this negative? AF one day late for me

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Cruz86 · 24/09/2021 20:05

Hi ladies, AF is well and truly here today. So I'm on cd1 with you @FlyOnTheWall89!

@rita83 the bottom line is definitely stronger. Have you done a test first thing in the morning yet?

@Btbt welcome. I do think I see a shadow but not sure if it has a colour to it?

rita83 · 24/09/2021 20:09

Hello @Cruz86 no I haven't done one in the Morning yet! I don't want to keep worrying myself. I feel ok though. Headache a bit at the moment. I have brought some week indicator ones as well so maybe do one of these and use the other at the end of next week to see if it's progressing. @Btbt I defo see a shadow there. When did u do the test. Try doing a frer cos that will defo show something if your one day late for af Wink

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Btbt · 24/09/2021 20:22

@rita83 @cruz86 bless you both. I took it this am. I will pick up an FRER !

beckybabyx · 25/09/2021 08:16

CD28 and still no sign of full AF and keep getting a sicky feeling in my throat but don’t want to test as sick of the disappointment of seeing negative Sad

Danani · 25/09/2021 08:36

@beckybabyx this sounds promising. And I understand the hesitation but maybe you should bite the bullet and test? Especially if this all out of the ordinary for you.
How many days “late” are you?

beckybabyx · 25/09/2021 09:40

@Danani well I’m not sure because in the months I’ve been off the pill, these have been my cycle lengths (30,29,26,26,27,28,23,21,31)
I’ve already been the toilet this morning now so wouldn’t be FMU, shall I wait till tomorrow morning you think? Or just hold my wee for a few hours?

Danani · 25/09/2021 10:23

@beckybabyx I’d suggest waiting till tomorrow. You’ve waited this long, might as well do it with FMU tomorrow for best result! I have my fingers crossed you get your BFP!

beckybabyx · 25/09/2021 21:28

I literally hate to be this person and I feel like it’s definitely line eyes but I did a test and I feel like I can see something vvvvvvvv faint 🤣

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Danani · 26/09/2021 13:27

Ahhh @beckybabyx I’m definitely very bad at seeing lines unless it’s an obvious one, so I’m not the best to give opinions. Maybe give it 2-3 more days and re-test? You should get a better reading by then if you see something!! X

Btbt · 26/09/2021 16:00

Ladies , I'm going crazy. I'm 17 DPO and my breasts are a cup size larger than usual, and achy as all hell, but all my tests are coming back barely visible / line eyes. 3 days late. I don't want to get a blood test... I haven't gotten an FRER yet ... Please send pixie dust my way, I'll be testing this aft and tomorrow morning with FRER.

rita83 · 26/09/2021 18:58

Hello ladies, I have had a chemical again this month! Started bleeding last night and today like a normal period. I wouldn't have known it was this but because I tested Wednesday I know it was. I am so devastated and feel hopeless in to keep on trying. I have had two now so we have said we are just gonna carry on and I'm not going to test anymore until I miss a period for over a week and this way I know that it has stuck! X

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Btbt · 26/09/2021 19:22

I'm really sorry @rita83 . I had one too, in July. Is there any pregnancy loss support in your area? I have found it to be really nourishing.

rita83 · 26/09/2021 19:24

I am not sure @bbt I am feeling a bit comforted to hear it's not only me that has suffered this. I don't know what causes it tbh!! Have u had one or more than one? I am 38 as well and wondered is it my age maybe but I just don't know really why it happens x

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 26/09/2021 19:53

@rita83 so sorry to read this! I thought of you today and wondered if you’d tested again. Big hugs.

rita83 · 26/09/2021 19:55

Thank you @FlyOnTheWall89 I know that I can conceive still by this and won't give up hope! I have fell in the third month of trying as well. Just worried it will keep on doing this 😞

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Btbt · 26/09/2021 21:00

@rita83 I wish i could give you an answer love. In my support group there are people at all ages, it happens to all kinds. I was worried that mine meant that I have an unviable womb , or because I had a glass of wine 3dpo. It doesn't make any sense. Sending love xx

rita83 · 26/09/2021 21:03

Thank you @Btbt I know it doesn't does it. I am going to keep in touch though on here and be back hopefully with some good news. I wish you all the luck and lucky dust xx

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Leibee87 · 27/09/2021 09:49

Sorry to hear this @rita83.

AF due today (due to flo) but don't really know if periods are regular yet. DH thinks I should take a test already but have zero symptoms of pregnancy now and the only sign of AF is painful boobs. Just hope it comes soon if I'm not pregnant (last did a test Thursday bfn) so I can start again with ttc

rita83 · 27/09/2021 10:05

@Leibee87 I'm with you as well don't worry I really thought this was my time but it wasn't Sadwe are going to carry on though and not give up hope. Nxt ov date for me is the 9th to the 11th so will soon come round ey!! I am still bleeding but it's just like a normal period l. If I didn't test in the week I wouldn't have even know. I was pregnant xx

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 27/09/2021 10:58

@rita83 were you late at all for AF? I am very streamlined with you. Next Ov should be between 8th and 10th :-). Fingers crossed for us xx ps. You are coping amazingly well with this disappoint!!!!

rita83 · 27/09/2021 11:01

@FlyOnTheWall89 my af was due Friday and I started bleeding Saturday evening so if I hadn't of tested on the Wednesday I wouldn't have even know I had a chemical and would have just thought af was a day late. We are the same then for our ovulation this time round. I was so sad yesterday I kept crying on and off all day!!! It's such a horrible thing to go through Sad

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