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2WW anyone? Af due Friday

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rita83 · 20/09/2021 11:14

Hya all

I am new to mums net. I am currently in my tww and losing hope again for this month. My af is due Friday the 24th. I have no symptoms really! Slight bruised feeling in sides of my boobs, and yesterday and sharp stabbing pains in my pelvic area. That's about it really. Just feel like af will show again and it's not happened again. This was my chart for this month as well and when we dtd

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rita83 · 17/10/2021 10:45

Awww no that sounds awful!! I hope you feel better soon @Cruz86 . Yes I was in bed for a whole day my sinuses were really blocked as well. Yes I am just going to wait and see. Every time I have been getting up in the night for a wee my boobs really hurt. My nipples are ok it's just round the sides. Normally they don't hurt for this long so I don't know. I am just gonna see if af shows I guess. X

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Cruz86 · 17/10/2021 11:05

Thank you @rita83. Turns out it's Covid 😩 hope my symptoms don't last all week! I think that's a good idea, just wait and see what happens xx

rita83 · 17/10/2021 14:09

Oh no really!!! This isn't good @Cruz86 I really
Hope you get well soon. I still think I had it but all my test that I done were negative so I haven't a clue I am still bunged up now and this is going into the second week x

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 18/10/2021 10:26

@Cruz86 sorry to read this!!! Hope you feel better soon.

How are you both feeling about conceiving this month? I am 8/9 DPO I think and no real symptoms here.

rita83 · 18/10/2021 10:43

Hello @FlyOnTheWall89 I am not confident at all either tbh!!! I am around the same and don't feel nothing apart from my boobs have been sore every day practically now hasn't disappeared at all x

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Cruz86 · 18/10/2021 10:45

Thank you both! I'm not confident, started spotting as normal at 6dpo which is always the start 😩😩 what a shit week this has ended up being!

FlyOnTheWall89 · 18/10/2021 10:57

Okay guys @Cruz86 @rita83 so we are all in the same camp (minus nasty covid for you Cruz86). Anyone had urges for testing or are you both waiting until AF is due? I have done some analysis on my app and I am pretty much like clockwork - 14 days after the highest peak dot on my calendar therefore I am due on 31st October.

Leibee87 · 18/10/2021 10:59

@Cruz86 how are you feeling today? Sorry to hear your spotting.

@rita83 are you feeling any better today?

I'm 4/5dpo boobs hurt but my temp dipped today so not feeling confident either apparently it can dip at implantation but this would be to early for that I think (though Google tells me not impossible)
11 days to wait for AF though. Bloody hate the waiting, I don't think it's waiting for my bfp more waiting to be able to try again that I find hard and it's only c2 for me
😩😅. I know it's probably a long road ahead still.

Cruz86 · 18/10/2021 11:15

I'm feeling better today thank you @Leibee87, just a bit chesty and have a constant headache!

I have already tested even though I'm 7dpo @FlyOnTheWall89 😂😂 but I won't be testing anymore because I know af will be here like clockwork by Friday! Are you going to?

FlyOnTheWall89 · 18/10/2021 11:28

@Cruz86 I am going to wait until at least the weekend. I am seeing so many people getting very faint BFP on day 8 so it is tempting.

rita83 · 18/10/2021 12:48

I am. It going to rest at all. Af due this Saturday. I had a sharp twinges earlier hahaha in my left side of my pelvis. Probably nothing though. I didn't start to feel the aching last month til 10dpo though. I have a headache atm!! And yesterday a bad head . Weirdly though my boobs are still sore and that normally goes away! I am feeling a bit better now still full of mucus etc but a lot better than I was. I just don't feel confident this month. We brought a puppy on Saturday as well and me and my husband said to each other wld just be out luck now wldnt it haha!!

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Cruz86 · 18/10/2021 13:13

I did get a faint line at 9dpo with my son! It just depends if you can deal with seeing a negative @FlyOnTheWall89 or if that will make you feel worse.

Those symptoms sound really promising @rita83!! What puppy did you get? That's like having another child in itself 😂

rita83 · 18/10/2021 13:17

@ Cruz 😂 I know we brought a Labrador he is so cute!! Believe me it's like having a baby. I just don't feel confident at all. Just nothing saying yes you are you know! But didn't have anything last month apart from the period type pain. But I haven't really had that. Had it the other day a little bit but not like last month. Boobs are probably sore cos of af showing at some point or maybe where I had a chemical last month I just don't know what to think. Hate the tww!!!

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Cruz86 · 18/10/2021 13:34

Aww so cute!! What's his name? We got a puppy last year and I made my husband take charge of getting up in the night etc because I breastfed our son for 2 years. God, I got some sympathy from him after that 😂😂 I've read lots of people say they haven't really had symptoms when they normally have something and it ends up being a bfp!! Not too long for us to wait now. At least you've got puppy to keep you busy!

rita83 · 18/10/2021 13:58

Hahaha!! @cruz made me laugh!! His called Jackson. Yes he does keep me on my toes i work from home as well so I am constantly checking to see what he's doing etc and trying to do work. I just haven't had anything what's so ever. I had the creamy cm last week for a few days but don't know if this is where ovulation was over!! Got a headache that's the only thing really. I hope your feeling better as well or a little bit better. I really dread waiting for af to show as well!!!!

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Cruz86 · 18/10/2021 14:45

Ahh good name! Yeah you're constantly checking up on them aren't you 😂 well my light brown spotting has turned to bright red so think af will be in full flow by tonight/tomorrow - 4 days early!!

FlyOnTheWall89 · 18/10/2021 15:12

@Cruz86 cant this be a sign of pregnancy? 4 days early is quite early if you're regular?

Cruz86 · 18/10/2021 15:21

I really don't know what to think @FlyOnTheWall89! I do normally spot about 4/5 days before af is due but it's not normally bright red! And I'm dubious to say it's my first cd because that's normally really heavy and very painful!

rita83 · 18/10/2021 15:29

This is odd @Cruz86 and @FlyOnTheWall89 I do agree with you there with having implantation bleeding as well 4 days before af. Saying that I never had ib at all last month some people do some don't. You will have to let us know @Cruz86 if it's full af!!!!! What a nightmare Sad

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Cruz86 · 18/10/2021 15:35

Yes I'll definitely let you know. Only time will tell 😩

rita83 · 18/10/2021 15:55

😞 don't give up hope @Cruz86 I haven't been as obsessive this month as I was all the other times. I just try and tell myself now that it will happen when it happens. Keep us posted xx

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Oliver5 · 18/10/2021 17:27

Hi 👋 hope you don't mind if I join in, I'm around 6/7 dpo.. I think with af due on the 27th 🙈my birthday. I'm going to try and hold off testing until at least the weekend. Few symptoms sore breasts which I don't normally have even when due af and very tired but maybe just reading to much into it. I'm only on 1st month ttc so not holding out much hope to get caught 1st cycle.

rita83 · 18/10/2021 18:17

Period type pain girls now come on about an hour ago. Aching again!!! Don't know what to think

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rita83 · 19/10/2021 08:09

Stil feeling this today!! Sadgot a feeling af is gonna arrive this month!!

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Cruz86 · 19/10/2021 09:43

Hi @Oliver5, welcome! It's so hard waiting to test isn't it 🥱

Oh no @rita83, don't say that! You could just be getting strong cramps as everything gets ready for implantation!