Bus 5-ttc for what feels like an eternity, so well and truly in the donkey club. No judgement here, just well wishes and advice on endo/ivf/MFI etc.

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Our regular riders on the donkey train 🚂
@Annny27 29, no1 since June 19
@RobinRose 27, no1 since Oct 2019
@Motherofkittens28 39 no 1 since aug19
@Yutes 34 no1 since aug19
@Crazydoglady123 32 pregnant 🥳
@Marvellouslymadmum 42 no3 since April 18
@Tofu35 35 no1 since sep19
@Hayley19835 38 no1 oct18
@Narwhal88 32, no1 since jun19
@Theawkwardblonde pregnant 🥳
@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker 15 months ttc ivf in June, ov 8th April
@2020mission pregnant 🥳
@Sjhigs 37 no1 since sep18 ivf consult mid April
@crazycatlady1981 39 no1 since Oct18, ivf in May
@PeanutButterBrownies
@Juno231 33 no1 since jan20
@clolo 31 no1 since jun19
@Aimzie 28 no1 4 years NTNP 22 months ttc
@VenusStarr 37 no 1 since nov17 ivf started in May!
@paintfairy ttc no 1
@polejunkie
@MIW0

@Sjhigs it’s alere 25, so quite sensitive supposedly? Why is nothing clear cut lol, will try another test in a bit, either way right now I have a bfp to report on OTD 😬

@polejunkie I seen that after I text just found this online maybe settle you a bit xx

@polejunkie your line isn't a squinter if it was it would still be picking up at least 25 hcg so that's a good sign pick up a frer and another that that's sensitivity is around 100 that's a great line for drinking and peeing through the night so happy for you x

@Sjhigs bless you, thank you! 💫

@polejunkie tested this morning just for you so you can see 😂 my control line on the frer blared straight away but look at the cheapie ant they're supposed to be sensitive this was 3 mins don't stress there's a line xx

@Sjhigs that’s a string line on the left!! X

Strong 😂

@polejunkie that's me finished with the tests my test line is finally darker I feel like I'm out of the first stage of the woods now and il get my bloods results today now bear in mind that was a 9 hour hold I didn't have to get up last night for some reason. This is my final progression... And breathe 😂 xx

@Sjhigs amazing - big congratulations!! X

Thankyou 💕 il be getting a telling off this morning told hubby I was done with testing il be like I had to do it for polejunkie 😂😂 get some bloods booked with your docs xx

@polejunkie im considering booking a 6 week scan for both the excitement side and the anxious I waited so long for this I don't want to miss out on anything I can lol x

@polejunkie yay!!!! 🎉🎉🎉 that’s amazing!! So excited for you!! Yeah I would defo get a few frers for peace of mind!!
I had a dream last night that one of my friends used up all my frers and I didn’t have any left for my testing tomorrow!! 🤣🤣 I was so angry!!

@Sjhigs loving that progression!!! Amazing! 😊

@Annny27 I’m testing tomorrow! 11dp5dt so should be far enough along to get a result. Not feeling particularly hopeful as the signs haven’t been good this week, but I just want to get it over and done with so I can move on!

@crazycatlady1981 so much luck for tomo 💕💕🙏

@crazycatlady1981 thanks! I’m really rooting for you tomorrow, no matter how you feel, you are still in the running right now xxx

Spoke to the clinic and a positive is a positive as far as they are concerned so I’m booked in for a scan at week 7. Meanwhile I carry on waiting and hoping nothing changes 😬 x

@polejunkie congratulations lovely! Deffo get a frer test to see if you get a good line :D

@sjhigs deffo time to stop testing hahaha

@crazycatlady1981 I guess with all the hormones you are on it will be really hard to tell so theres still every bit of hope for the morning!

@sunbird24 thanks lovely! Yes I guess that's right

P.s has @motherofkittens28 got married yet

@Sjhigs cracking line progression-congrats lovely! Don't worry about testing too much-I'm 16 weeks and STILL pee on sticks. Legit think I'm addicted after doing it for so long 😂

@polejunkie congrats lovely! Excellent you've had it confirmed at the clinic!

Oh that's definitely a line @polejunkie !

Thanks for checking in @Sjhigs @becarefuloutthere @Annny27 so sorry its all so tough. I'm really f*ed off woth it all right now tbh

So on top of all this I am now officially unemployed to boot. I'm appealing and raising grievance. I'm now too ill to work so submitting my claims. To say I am not particularly enjoying life at all atm is the understatement of the year.

We also calculated that the 1st round of IVF, if the egg collection and fertilisation is successful, the transfer may end up falling when we're due to go to Longleat Center Parcs in September! 🙈

@MIW01 sorry to hear about your job I hope you get sorted really soon. I had to cancel 2 of my holidays this year due to ivf aswell I just pushed them both on to next year xxx

Thanks @Sjhigs this is a family holiday so unfortunately won't be able to cancel, we'll just have to work around it. Don't think in-laws too happy as they've not responded to my message! The situation with work is diabolical. And I'm now too unwell to work which puts us in a precarious situation financially. So far been the worst 2 years of my life!

@crazycatlady1981 Really keeping everything crossed for you for tomorrow!

All taken in different light which isn’t terribly helpful, but it’s progression at least. Had an upset few minutes this morning because I know the lines were stronger at this point on the previous two goes, but then reminded myself how they ended up so trying to convince myself comparison isn’t a particularly good idea.

@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker mine have been £1230 with Care, plus any drugs.