Trying for baby number 3

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Hi mummies

I'm in month two now of ttc my baby number 3, I know it's not been long but I'm nearly 30 and I'm worried that i won't be able to get pregnant again ☹️ did anyone else feel like this? I went through the whole tww last month and this month I'm trying to be a bit more casual about it as I STRESSED last month ridiculously. I hated trying to track ovulation and dpo it was alstreful absolutely expensive with pregnancy tests I got a bit obbsesed! Any support would be lovely

I'm a housewife who currently has my two children already 7 year old girl and 9 year old boy, I am so desperate now for a baby though it's giving me anxiety the thought of not being able to have another xxx

Right girls, I’ve done something dramatic 🙈🙈 I need to step the fuck away from ttc before I go mad 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Anyways @Nats7504 how’s the tests looking?
@Skl2021 thank you for helping keep me sane!! Will it really be 3 weeks till you ovulate???? When do you start testing?? Xx

@Springflower3 What have you done?! 🤣

I’m going to start testing and the shaggathon today. I’ve not taken a test yet but doubt it will be dark as I’m only CD11 but I’ll let you know! Xx

@nats7504 @Springflower3 what have u done 🙊🙊🙊. Well I usually start around day 11 12 just incase it comes on time. Last month was cd 27 so who knows 🤣 that's why I'm using so many ovulation tests IV gone back to the cheap ones now 🙈🤦 xx

I may have made an appointment for august to see a private fertility consultant and I may have order the clear blue ovulation Sticks 🤣🤣🤣 fml!!!

Ooooo are you still using the preseed? Did you dtd over the weekend and be quiet 🙈🙈 xx

@Skl2021 were you using the clue blue previously??? Xx

@Springflower3 omg 🤣🙈 your only on your 3rd month arnt you? I'm sure u will be fine it just takes time!! 🙊 haha the clear blue are good tho I used them in my first pregnancy. No I was using femometer ones with my app. Just got some cheapies of eBay for now as I'm using so many each month xx

@Springflower3 What are you like! 🤣 It will happen and as @Skl2021 mentioned you’re only in your 3rd cycle. But I understand wanting to get checked out.

Just took a test and there was a faint line so not peaked yet. So haven’t left it too late. No we didn’t DTD while away which is why I squeezed one in between meetings 🤣 We did use the lube as I wasn’t really in the mood for a full shabang 🙈 he didn’t care and happily obliged! XX

I suppose my concern is, when I was 24 I was told I had polycystic ovaries and yes I have had 2 kids but I defo notice the symptoms of it coming through more since I stopped the pill…. More facial hair… like I’m the bearded lady…. Increase in headaches and weight gain so i just wanna know is that gonna cause issues. It’s not till august so I can cancel or see what happens between now and then! The clear blue I think will work better for me as I can hold my urine in for long so throughout day it’s a pain trying to dehydrate myself!!

When day do you normally get a peak @Nats7504?
@Skl2021 fingers crossed you get a peak sooner!! 40 in one month would be costly enough xx

@Nats7504 look at you fitting in a shag between meetings go girl 😂🙌🎉 and the lube made an appearance 🙊
@Springflower3 well if u can afford it and want some answers then go for it not going to do any harm and might put u at ease!! Yes I see what u mean hope it won't cause u any problems... I often question if I have it too. I get lots of facial hair and weight gain and can't loose it no matter what I do. And the irregular periods. 🤦 And guess what girlies my vitamins have just come 🎉🎉 woop woop party time 😂🙌 Monday has gone to my head xx

@Skl2021 yea those do sound like symptoms? Have you spoken to your gp about it??
It is 150 for the first appointment which I don’t think is too bad! I’m not gonna mention it to DP just yet to see what they say! I will just use the clear blue once they arrive and see what happens. I defo don’t think I have missed my peak this month so fingers crossed it will happen 🤷‍♀️

When are you gonna start the vitamins?? Xx

@Springflower3 no I haven't. Don't know if I can face that diagnosis aswell 🤦 if it doesn't happen then obviously I will have to go and see one. Have u found anything good for facial hair? I was thinking about dermaplaning but I'm scared it will come back worse 🤣🙊 bit reluctant to try new things on my face incase it all comes back thick and black 🙈 have u had ewcm yet? Maybe go of that instead! Erm going to take one now 🤣 ain't got time to waste wasn't expecting them until Friday! Xx

@Skl2021 I know! I had a half hour break which coincided with his calendar. Literally walked into his office and said ‘we need to shag’ and he jumped out of his chair. If a man said that to a women we’d tell them to piss off 🤣

@Springflower3 Ahh, bless you. Having that hanging over you must be horrible. Get checked, put your mind at rest. 😘 Fingers crossed you’ll be cancelling it as you’ll have got your BFP!!

I usually peak CD13/14 and I’m only CD11 today so didn’t expect much to be fair xx

@Skl2021 I was actually going to get laser treatment 🙈🙈 but apparently if you get pregnant it can make the hair grow back!! What does the dermaplaning involve? Sounds scary!!! I’m just plucking daily! I am so embarrassed 😞 I hide it from DP as much as I can 🤣🤣 I had ewcm at like cd 8 🤷‍♀️ That’s why I started testing that early but it wasn’t peak so fuck knows!
How many pills will you popping every day??? Fingers crossed it helps, it will all be worth it!

@Nats7504 omfg I love this!!! Shagging on the desk just!! Did you have to be on camera after 🤣🤣 looking a bit flushed!! Xx

@Skl2021 What vitamins are you taking now? I’ve been shit with mine lately, always forget to take them.

@Springflower3 it wasn’t that sexy 🙈 we took it to the bedroom and luckily I didn’t go on camera for the next one. My hair 🤣 XX

@nats7504 haha I never really DTD through the day never get chance maybe that's were am going wrong it's always at night!! Haha bet he couldn't believe his luck 🤣🙈
@springflower3 it's like a knife that scrapes all the hair and dead skin off your face makes your skin likes a baby's bum 😂 yes IV been using like facial cream but never gets it all properly so have to resort to tweezers 🙈🤦 hate it! Haha I will pop as many as I can all for the cause!! Need to try everything 🤞🤞 xx

@Nats7504 u should of done it over the desk like @Springflower3 said 😂 spice it up 🤣 I'm taking vitamin d,b12 high strength folic acid. And then this b complex with them all in 🤦 xx

Hope so!!🥰

@Skl2021 I hate day time sex, I get sleepy after! Haha. Plus having a preteen and a teenager around makes it harder. 🙄
Sounds a good vitamin combo 👍 it makes you feel better when you take control of the things you can.
@Springflower3 I still have faith that you ovulated this month and you missed it with the OPKs. Are you still temping? That’s meant to be better xx

@Skl2021 well if nothing else your skin and hair will be amazing!!! What about that conceive plus stuff? There is one for ovulation and fertility but I don’t know the difference…. Does that cover all your taking???

@Nats7504 you aren’t doing so bad getting the shagging done!! Will you do it again tonight or is once enough 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I have attached a pic of my tests this month…. I don’t think I have missed it as I have had no ewcm either xx

@Nats7504 yes it helps me sleep 🙊🤣 well it probably won't do anything but won't harm me at the same time anything worth a shot. Trying to eat a bit better and hopefully try and loose weight aswell 🤔
@springflower3 yes IV looked at them conceive plus but there hit and miss on the reviews. They have chiro and myoinsotol in which is basically what I'm taking now in that b complex. The conceive plus ones might be a higher level of it tho. Going from your pics your cd 12 and cd14 look quite close to me? Even tho the app isn't saying so 🤔 but they all are quite dark so I'm not sure bit like mine last month just kept coming and coming 🤣 xx

@Springflower3 I think the same as @Skl2021 day 12,13 and 14 are dark. I would’ve taken them as a peak but I go by eye and don’t use an app. Xx

@Springflower3 I’m planning on DTD every night or every other, as I think I’ve been leaving it too late. This mornings was for last night 🤣 I need to make sure I have plenty of swimmers waiting 🙌 DP has his blood test tomorrow and his sample next Monday. Fingers crossed there are some active swimmers in there 🙈 xx

@nats7504 @springflower3 how we all getting on today xxx

Well ladies it is hump day!!!

I have a positive and negative to report 🤣🤣🤣 positive - see attached photo…. Negative we haven’t had sex in 3 days so I’m prob out this month by default!!

Where are you guys at??? Xx

@springflower3 there's still a chance jump on that d now 🤣🙌 glad ur finally ovulating! What cd are you now? Must have just been stress pushing it back a bit! I'm just plodding along nothing to report. Itching to start testing 🤣🙈 can't wait for them to arrive!! Even though it's way too early 🤦😂 xx