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Trying for baby number 3

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HeatherSmithxoxo · 27/04/2021 10:52

Hi mummies

I'm in month two now of ttc my baby number 3, I know it's not been long but I'm nearly 30 and I'm worried that i won't be able to get pregnant again ☹️ did anyone else feel like this? I went through the whole tww last month and this month I'm trying to be a bit more casual about it as I STRESSED last month ridiculously. I hated trying to track ovulation and dpo it was alstreful absolutely expensive with pregnancy tests I got a bit obbsesed! Any support would be lovely

I'm a housewife who currently has my two children already 7 year old girl and 9 year old boy, I am so desperate now for a baby though it's giving me anxiety the thought of not being able to have another xxx

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Springflower3 · 25/06/2021 08:36

Morning @Nats7504 😬😬 happy Friday!
I’m loving your positive attitude 🥰 I need it! Got another high on my opk this morning I’ve attached the pic… it is the bottom one! For my past cycles I’ve got my peak either yest or today 😞 but something different is defo occurring!
Awk no I’ve seen your test and the test line is defo darker then the control line so your ovulating!!
Awww ok, I thought he has the appointment already! How long does it take for the results???

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Skl2021 · 25/06/2021 08:59

@springflower3 yes usually get them for a good few days and it mainly is tummy and one thigh always the same leg 🤦 excruciating some days. Always had bad painful periods since I was younger. Probably doesn't help ttc! If you have been dtd then you will be covered and your latest opk looks positive to me today so I would say it's going to happen in the next day or so 🤞🤞 so frustrating when it's high and low constantly!
@nats7504 good morning! Ohh a positive would be lovely if only it would happen for one of us 🤦😂 oh wow having sex and not in fertile week?!?! What a treat for oh! The thought still makes me sick to go through that again 😂🙈 are you ready for your shaggathon not long now 😂🙌 I best get ordering opks again 🙈 full pack of 40 I used this month getting ridiculous. IV ordered b vitamins with inosytol let's see if they do anything won't get here until next week tho which I know is later than I hoped to start them xxx

Nats7504 · 25/06/2021 09:23

@Springflower3 I’ve had a few bad months where my cycle has been all over the place or like @Skl2021 DTD sooo much and it didn’t work. If I concentrated on that and let the negative take over i think I’d give up 🤣 We’re still relatively new into this TTC malarkey. One of us had to get out BPF now!! I’m on cycle 8, what are you guys on now?

We’re away this weekend with his mum and the boys (was cancelled last year) So we’ll have to discreetly start the shaggathon, should ovulate middle of next week. If I got my BFP this month the due date would be DPs birthday 🙈

He gets his results back in 2 weeks. Can’t believe how quick his surgery have sorted it. He has his blood test next week and like I said he couldn’t provided his sample Monday!!

Sorry I can’t tag people in so it’s all jumbled up!! Xx

Springflower3 · 26/06/2021 09:48

@Nats7504 aww that would be lovely if it happens this month!! Fingers crossed for you!! You will have to have quiet sex 🤣🤣🤣

What do those vitamins do? Is it make your cycle more regular??? @Skl2021

Well still no peak…. 😞 DP thinks it the strips im using 🤣🤣I’m like hardly! I’m honestly panicking because of what happened last month and now no ovulation that there is a more serious problem! Xx

Kt1111 · 26/06/2021 09:53

Thought I’d post my update. I posted her a while ago about being late and having negative tests. 31 days late today and think I’ve got my BFP. So even after being so certain I wasn’t pregnant and my cycle was messed up because of coming off the pill it’s actually happened.

Trying for baby number 3
Trying for baby number 3
Springflower3 · 26/06/2021 09:56

Wow @Kt1111 massive congratulations!!!!!
When did you come off the pill? Xx

Kt1111 · 26/06/2021 10:00

I finished the pill in March. Had withdrawal bleed in
March and period April. No period may but negative tests. June period didn’t arrive two days ago so tested again and bfp! I was convinced my periods were messed up because of the pill and was about to see the doctor if I missed two periods xx

Springflower3 · 26/06/2021 10:07

@Kt1111 were you tracking ovulation or taking a relaxed approach? Xx

Kt1111 · 26/06/2021 10:20

I didn’t track . I was thinking about tracking next cycle but was waiting for AF to show so I could start. Xx

Skl2021 · 26/06/2021 17:22

@Nats7504 I'm on cycle 6 now! Good luck with the weekend away 🥂 have fun! That would be so cool to have the same birthday will 🤞 for you!!
@Springflower3 well I think b6 helps lp and spotting and I don't know about the rest just thought they won't hurt 🤣🤦 worth a try. And I thought that myoinsotol thing is mentioned alot to help fertility? Or am I making all this up 🤣🙈 have u been dtd just incase to make sure your covered incase it has been? Don't worry to much about it im sure it will happen stressing won't get you anywhere 🤗 what's today's test saying xxx

Springflower3 · 26/06/2021 20:15

@Skl2021 lol I love the fact your just taking it all! Covering all bases! Is it not expensive though? We’re you working today?
Today’s test is just basically the same as every morning since cd 8 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ I haven’t tested again cause I only get disheartened when the line is barely there 🙄🙄 I don’t even have ewcm either but my cervix is riding higher than normal 🤣🤣 I’m just gonna have to wait it out…. If I miss more than one period I will see a private consultant xx

Skl2021 · 26/06/2021 20:24

@Springflower3 im willing to try anything now 🤦 getting impatient 😂 they cost 10 pound. Yes I was working. It was crap 🤣 treated myself to a Chinese 😋 wonder if it's all the stress you have been under? I'm sure it will happen just the waiting game is shit IV been there 😣 at least u can look out for ewcm to give u an idea. Don't let it get u down too much! Xxx

Springflower3 · 26/06/2021 20:28

@Skl2021 aww what did you get from the Chinese?? Was it busy today?
I thinking it must be? That stress to a certain degree has taken my mind off the ttc a bit 🤣🤣🤣 so hopefully with a relaxed approach it will happen!
10 quid for a months worth? That’s not bad? I would have expected a lot more?? Xx

Skl2021 · 26/06/2021 20:34

@Springflower3 we got a salt and pepper box some mini spring rolls and sweet and sour sauce 😋 no wasn't to busy I just hate it 😂🤦 but needs must! You going full relaxed this month then? Erm can't remember how many was in the bottle it's just vitamins tho so it's not to expensive. Probably won't do fuk all anyway I already take a shit load 😂🙈 xx

Springflower3 · 26/06/2021 20:51

@Skl2021 sounds spicy! I can not cope with spicy foods! Are you relaxing tonight then?? Is it a restaurant you work in?? No not going full relaxed…. I just have to wait it out 🤷‍♀️ We are just gonna make sure and have sex at least 3x weekly cause that’s enough to cover all basis until I ovulate!
Aww I really hope all the effort your putting in works out…. Your on cycle 6 so still early enough in the grand scheme of things 😬😬 we have to stay positive!! Xx

Skl2021 · 27/06/2021 09:34

@Springflower3 yes it is I love spicy food 🔥 yes u should be covered if u do that anyway so don't stress about it! How u feeling today? New day thinking positive 🤞 I'm expecting it to take ages now like my first so better get used to it 🤦🙈😂 xx

Lauevans2510 · 27/06/2021 22:54

8dpo.. surely not 🧐 I'm not going mad!!

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Trying for baby number 3
Trying for baby number 3
Skl2021 · 27/06/2021 23:01

@Lauevans2510 I can see it without zooming in 🤞🤞🎉 xx

Springflower3 · 28/06/2021 08:23

Monday again ladies 🤮🤮🤮🤮

Took an opk and the line is now getting lighter 😞😞 so I’m just gonna stop because this is soul destroying knowing I won’t ovulate and what’s the point wasting tests??

How was your weekend @Nats7504??

I wish I had your positivity @Skl2021! I am just a moan 🤣🤣 xx

Nats7504 · 28/06/2021 08:43

Morning ladies. I echo the Monday Morning blues! 😫 I slept rubbish too. Coffee will be my friend today. Weekend was fab but feeling it today. Too much food and booze!

@Springflower3 Are you sure you’ve not just missed the peak with OPK? We’re you testing twice a day?

@Skl2021 Has AF settled down now? hope it isn’t causing you shit!

I’m on CD11 and DTD at all over the weekend 🙈 best get on the D today and start the OPK fun and hope I’ve not left it too late!

Congrats on the BFP girls 🙌 @Lauevans2510 @Kt1111

Xx

Skl2021 · 28/06/2021 08:51

@Springflower3 don't give up! IV had months like that and ovulation was just a different time I wouldn't have known without testing! Or maybe u had your peak back when you thought it should be. Unless your still going to DTD regularly then u won't need to as you will be covered! Stress probably won't be helping you I know it's easier said than done! I have to try and be positive or I would be a crying mess Evey month 😂🤦 xxx

Skl2021 · 28/06/2021 08:53

@Nats7504 morning!! Yes af has packed her shit and fooked off 🎉🎊 wahoo! 😂 I'm on cd 6! Good luck with the shaggathon 😂 when u expecting ovulation? Xx

Nats7504 · 28/06/2021 09:06

@Skl2021 Yay! Few days peace and then back on it lady. One of us needs a BFP!!
I usually get my peak around CD13/14 so this is FW and I ain’t going to get up the duff just thinking about banging, I’m going to have to actually do it 🙈 XX

Skl2021 · 28/06/2021 09:09

@Nats7504 well if my month is like previous I have around 3 weeks to wait until ovulation 😂🤦 so I can rest for more than a few days 🙌🤣 are u testing this month? Yes u better get on that d! U only have a couple of days to go 🎉🤞 xx

Nats7504 · 28/06/2021 10:38

@Skl2021 hopefully last month was a one off and ovulation will be earlier this month 🤞 if it’s the same you defo don’t need to DTD as early as you did last month, you were a trooper!!

I just pounced DP as we should have DTD last night but I just wasn’t in the mood. I’m doing to test from this afternoon and wait for ovulation to happen. Xx

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