The nurse impregnated me when DH wasn’t there 🤞🏻😱TTC bus 39

[Minster2012]

Well that was an ovulation tea party to remember! 💃🏼🥑🍍🥗🌮

Thanks for turning up you lovely lot and so Welcome back on board the bus where our route now takes us through the POAS early corner of shame to the “I’m gonna wait until AF is late this time” and then stopping at the fertility clinic to drop off a bunch of giggling girls going to get their foof felt up by a load of nurses and hopefully get impregnated by them! 🤞🏻

This bus is the one where TTC happens in many different forms, shagging conventionally, unconventionally, with the help of scientific intervention, IUI/ICSI/Clomid/IVF & even just watching from the top of the bus 👀. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been trying for days, weeks, months or like some of us we’ve been around each other for so long we can’t bear to leave, nothing is TMI and there’s never a silly question...

Hell we KNOW TTC is tough, lots of us have had heart ache & are chasing 🌈so we are there for each other, as well as trying to have laughs along the way 🥰☺️

Oh and we like an embarrassing story to get your ticket for entry please!

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

minstermusings.co.uk for the blog that’s where the full stuff happens
& minstermusings on insta - some of our ladies have made special anonymous accounts so we can link up via me 🥰
If you want to sign up & get updates please do, please note your username if you comment shows up to others so maybe make it anonymous I won’t be offended 😂🤣(unless you are mean)

Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
jan 7 BFPs
February 8 BFPs
March 5 BFPs

April Easter eggs! 3 BFPs so far ...
3 @Minster2012, @Asthenia @2020mission
There’s plenty of time for more

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Welcome newbies! I hope you're not here long, in the nicest way possible!

Sending hugs with those who have had af emerge, she sucks balls 💕

Sounds like lots of ladies are in fw so get on it and enjoy 🍆🍆🍆

We did our "announcement". I promised myself a long time ago it would be honest, I've already had people message me about their struggle which is exactly what I wanted! I hope it gets people talking about ttc and the reality of it more amongst my circles. Also cheeky shout out to you lot of amazing women 💛

Have a good day! I've got bloody parents evening tonight so I'll be crawling tomorrow 😂

@Haiyaa I'm afraid it sounds like you have ovulated! Jump on OH ASAP today in case the egg is still waiting? Temping has made me realise that I tend to ovulate same day as my peak usually 😬

@Justanothercyster I've seen your announcement and LOVED it! Thank you for doing that - if I ever get lucky enough to do my own announcement I'll be doing the same xxx

@Juno231I managed to get him last night and he is now comatose so no hope of further 🍆 until tonight 😢 hopefully some of Sunday’s crew survived and were waiting to pounce. Will go again tonight and tomorrow though just in case but I guess I am officially in another 2ww!

I think it is still a good lesson even if I don’t get a BFP, it would appear that I am a shoot from the hip kind of ovulator! And on the plus it appears that I have at least ovulated. Still a bit gutted though!

@Justanothercyster love the announcement, it’s just perfect

@Haiyaa "a shoot from the hip kinda lady!" Isn't that what DH is meant to do?? 💦sounds like you have ovulated but it still lasts a bit & if you DTD Sunday & yesterday that's still good, yesterday's are surely PRIME position for egg catching!

@Justanothercyster beautiful announcement, perfect

@Juno231 are you back in the land of the living now? That's interesting it's taught you that you OV ON the peak day.

How is everyone else? Haven't heard from @Michellescarn, @meredithgrey1 @Katiekattty for a while? You guys alright?

@justanothercyster I second @minster2012.. that was a beautiful announcement xx

@minster2012 im so glad you liked it.. as soon as I saw it I just had to get it you xx

Oh @Justanothercyster I want to see your announcement now! Can you post a screenshot? I don’t follow you on Insta.

So lovely that you have been able to support others in the same boat.

@paintfairy and people wonder why they get fears of needles! They shouldn't employ incapable people to take blood. My veins have got so good the last few years. I used to be that awkward patient whose veins collapsed as soon as a needle went in 😅 Are you having any good signs in your TWW?

@Haiyaa I checked yesterday and collection is counted as day 0 and so transfer will be next Sat so in just over a weeks time I'll be PUPO!

@Minster2012 I would love to test every day from after the transfer but my OH obv hasn't had a lot of input in the process and this is something he wants to do so I'm going to try and hold out. How's the house sale going and how are you feeling?

Thank you @bez91. Recurring sinusitis sounds awful. Have the docs said if there's anything they can do to prevent it? I went through a stage a few years ago of recurring tonsillitis but thankfully touch wood I've been okay for a year or two now. Hopefully it's something that your body just learns to fight off too.

@Franklydear meant to say, congrats on the school!

@Justanothercyster your announcement is beautiful ❤️

How are you feeling @Juno231?

Ouch @bez91 I've never had sinusitis and don't particularly want to!

Bigger ouch @paintfairy bet you'll get an impressive bruise!

@Haiyaa oh the natural cycles app it says you need 3 days rising in a row just to confirm so you might have. But I think someone said on here that ovulation and just after is a good time to 🍆🍆🍆 anyway so you're still in!

Omfg.... ☹🤬🤬 I'd a massive post wrote and it disappeared. Ffs this site needs serious updating.

Short version
Af arrived
I'm good. No spotting which is good as last few months I'd 2 days spotting.
Made contact with clinic for follicle tracking.
Suns shining so gona enjoy that

Happy Thursday 😘

Ah @2alreadywantanother it's a shitter even if you're ok with it. Good to have a plan though, I love a plan!

@DKDK123 are you ok? Been thinking about you?

Not sure which of you Irish ladies added me on insta yesterday..?!

@Dollybird89 you are a gorgeous kind lady thank you so much, how was your day with your dad?

@paintfairy omg I forgot about your blood problem! I'm awful to bleed so I'm used to it but that's ridiculous!! So many little pricks part of our TTC process 🤣😂

@Crazydoglady123 its photos today of the house so I spent yesterday primping and priming and I've got to take DS to MIL today to get rid of him, shortly...before he trashes everything I've done 🤣in the meantime he's "helping"

@Justanothercyster I don't think I'm friends with you as I've not seen anything. I've just added anyone that others look to have that I don't. But I'm not sure if you are one. 🤣
@Crazydoglady123 I don't think so. Nothing obvious anyway. I mean, yes I have lots going on, but it'll be the drugs, so you can't tell what's you!
@Haiyaa you can still catch it if you do it the same day. The temp jump is massive though, so I'd be surprised if it was totally correct.

Haha so many pricks, you're so right!

Love how helpful DS is @Minster2012...! Looks like he's doing more than DH does he (current low level row going on between us...!)

@minster2012 it was lovely thanks! I'm paying for it today... the 6 hours of driving always takes it's toll the st after

@Justanothercyster I saw your announcement this morning and loved it!! Good on you❤️

@2alreadywantanother so sorry af arrived for you x

@larrythelizard I added yesterday a couple of people, could have been me? Picture of rainbow gloves
@Minster2012 get him helping, in a few years will be hard to get him to lower the headphones so you don't have to repeat yourself 3 times
This is very cheesy, but it makes my day, after leaving ds in school, I go to the bus stop, about 10 minutes away, on the way, everyday I see this little boy going to the same school, he is in reception, with his mum, he always say hi and is happy to see me, today I was about 5 minutes late, so I found them much closer to the school, he had been looking for me, shouted hi from like 300 yards away, he was worried I'd be late for work,🥰

No I think I had you already. That's lovely with the little boy @Franklydear 🥰

I used to do quite a bit of driving @Dollybird89 but since covid not really been anywhere so the couple of longer drives I've done since restrictions eased have really taken it out of me!

Yes @paintfairy it was a big jump so wonder if I had fudged it somehow but nothing to do now but 🍆 and hope for the best!

@Crazydoglady123 so transfer will be 08/05? I MIGHT be peeing on sticks by then but maybe I will choose to be PUPO like you! Who am I kidding.... 😂

That is the cutest @Franklydear! What a little sweetheart! What’s on the playlist today?

@Minster2012, train them young that’s what I say! 😂 we have started getting dd to help with unloading the dishwasher, unpacking shopping and loading/unloading the washing machine. Am I a mean mum???

Thanks for checking in @larrythelizard I'm OK just haven't been in a good headspace regarding ttc so had to retreat for a bit. Had to deal with the heaviest af and worst cramps ever yesterday which means I was most likely correct with another cp (I couldn't face testing to confirm it just waited for the inevitable starting.) We're heading up north to a caravan for a few days just to get away some much needed rest and family time then I'm sure I'll swing back from I can't do this anymore, I'm 100% stopping ttc forever to I dont care about the consequences I'm back in the game give me some sausage again 😂 Shall catch up and check in with everyone's news next week. Big love and baby dust to all 😘

@Haiyaa he is wonderful, makes my mornings, today is silence, got a cold and need to collect my thoughts, well, as much silence as you can get on the bus...

I just had the most bizarre call from my little brother, they were playing who wants to be a millionaire in class and I was the call a friend 🤔

@Crazydoglady123 oh my rhr has dropped one today. Based solely on that- I've decided it hasn't worked. 🤣 But I'm sure it can't be a good sign.

@franklydear did you get it right lol? What were they playing for? X I used to love that show

@Justanothercyster ah one was you! I've seen it now! That was a very brave post! Well done!