The nurse impregnated me when DH wasn’t there 🤞🏻😱TTC bus 39

[Minster2012]

Well that was an ovulation tea party to remember! 💃🏼🥑🍍🥗🌮

Thanks for turning up you lovely lot and so Welcome back on board the bus where our route now takes us through the POAS early corner of shame to the “I’m gonna wait until AF is late this time” and then stopping at the fertility clinic to drop off a bunch of giggling girls going to get their foof felt up by a load of nurses and hopefully get impregnated by them! 🤞🏻

This bus is the one where TTC happens in many different forms, shagging conventionally, unconventionally, with the help of scientific intervention, IUI/ICSI/Clomid/IVF & even just watching from the top of the bus 👀. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been trying for days, weeks, months or like some of us we’ve been around each other for so long we can’t bear to leave, nothing is TMI and there’s never a silly question...

Hell we KNOW TTC is tough, lots of us have had heart ache & are chasing 🌈so we are there for each other, as well as trying to have laughs along the way 🥰☺️

Oh and we like an embarrassing story to get your ticket for entry please!

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
jan 7 BFPs
February 8 BFPs
March 5 BFPs

April Easter eggs! 3 BFPs so far ...
3 @Minster2012, @Asthenia @2020mission
There’s plenty of time for more

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WE HAVE A PEAK. So ov delayed by near enough a week exactly after mc. Of course that has come after I decided to invest in some more clear blue advance! Feeling nervy though as DH was tired last night after a nightmare night shift with the toddler on Monday so last 🍆 was Sunday night 😱 told him no excuses for the next three days! 🙌🙌🙌

Hope you are recovering well @Juno231 and that the surgery has done the job!

@dob78 aww sorry to read your going through a tough time... I wish I had some zen pep talks up my sleeve for you 🙈 I'm still here & keeping up just in a bit of a 24/7 nausea battle so running a little thin on motivation wise. Still focusing on keeping my headspace as positive as possible... Just zen vibes are a bit more like sloth vibes currently with all the focus on self care & getting through the day. I've had some anti sickness tablets now tho which have taken the edge off to make things a bit more manageable... Roughly 8+4weeks now and have my next scan in 9 days (7th May) to see if we've managed to get past the milestone that we didn't last time 🤞🏻

@Franklydear omg amazing news on the school!!! You're an inspiration & one hell of a warrior mother!!! 💪🏻🎉🥂 congratulations!

@Juno231 glad your surgery went well & hope you're able to go home soon to rest & recuperate 💕

@haiyaa yay for a peak!!! Get on it girl!!!

Goodness me @Juno231 what a day!! Hope you've managed to a) wee and b) have a dr who knows who you are and what they've done by now!!

🥳🥳🥳 for your peak @Haiyaa!!

Sorry to hear you're feeling so sick @Sausage1990 but hopefully it's a good sign. 9 days is nothing, you can get there! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

I have no desire to have sex whatsoever, hope that changes as my cycle progresses otherwise getting pregnant could be quite tricky 🤔

Hope you're going ok this morning @Juno231 and managed to get home?

Yeeesss to the peak @Haiyaa 🍆

AF is late 🤦🏼‍♀️ endometrial lining was 6mm on my scan Saturday. Is that AF territory? No idea as first time I've took notice. Wishing it on now 😫

@Minster2012 thats cute that he's making little families! My 21 Yr old took her smelly Ted, Sandra away to uni eith her it's her responsibility now😀.

@Franklydear how old is ds? My youngest doesn't have anything like that, I'm always amazed by how different kids are from the same family

@Haiyaa good going for you, put the foot down and demand that🍆🍆!!!

@Sausage1990 ah thanks. Sorry to hear you're having a rough ride but I think it's a good sign that you feel so pukey, everything crossed for a happy scan

@juno231 ahhh hun so sorry you're having a rough time of it! This is literally the same as what happened to me last time and eventually I went and was allowed home but I couldn't eat for another day for fear of throwing up! Glad you have a diagnosis but sorry you're joining the endo crew too. How shocking that the consultant got you mixed up though!!!!! I'd have thought they'd want to give the surgery time to heal before IVF and possibly let you try naturally but who knows. Rest up and take care! Let us know when you're home.

20 week scan day today.... Bricking it 😬

@Haiyaa same as me peak today and we've dtd this morning and last time was Sunday. It's on for the next two days now! 😈 finally had ewcm which I rarely used to get. The endo and adhesions being cleared away seems to have helped that!
@Juno231 how you feeling this morning hun?

@Kirky658 omg how exciting! Are you finding out the sex? With juno's endo and ivf, they didn't let me wait either. I'm due to start on a long protocol next week! Was surprised myself that they'd do it so soon after but seems the norm I guess.

@Haiyaa peak! Go get some! 🍆

@Sausage1990 sorry you're feeling so sick. Sloth vibes are acceptable when you're growing a human.

@larrythelizard sex deffo helps 😂 I find that I'm always more up for it in fertile week so I guess my body does something right.

@Kirky658 I remember being in the same September group as you, I can't believe your 20 weeks! Good luck today, are you finding out the sex?

@DOB78 11 in a week and a bit, we always joke that this piece of cloth is going to scare off more than one girlfriend
@Sausage1990 hope you feel a bit better but yei for the scan,

@kirky658 Oh how exciting for you!!! Can't wait to see that lovely pic later 😍

@notyetamumbuttrying sounds promising!

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@Juno231 hope you're feeling better this morning!!

@Kirky658 can't believe it's your 20 week scan today! Good luck, how exciting!!

@notyetamumbuttrying ahhhh that makes sense then, interesting. Mind you my consultant said for us to start ttc when we were ready so maybe it doesnt make that much difference, a kinda strike while the irons hot kind thing! We are finding out what we are having hopefully if baby behaves 😬❤️

@madeoftea I thought I recognised your name!! How are you getting on hun? And @vil10 @dob78 thanks ladies x

@DOB78 thanks just got to hope the ivf injections don't affect anything 😬 they said we could still try naturally so will just believe everything will be fine! How's things with you?
@Kirky658 yeah perhaps! I did think it was weird too tho. Yay! Love when ppl find out, mainly because I'm so nosy 😆

@Justanothercyster @notyetamumbuttrying thank you lovelies I’ll pester them 2 weeks after, my GPS are shit took 168 attempts last time to get through to them, prob having a cuppa laughing at the phones ringing off the hook 👀😂

@Minster2012 tell me about it! It’s like when you see those meal tracker apps you forgot to log your breakfast? Full fry up now fuck off 😂😂😂

@Kirky658 can you fill me in with any updates on holidays?😂😂 I'm getting so stressed with it, I'm one of those people that has to have everything organised and planned, and it's so hard to feel in control in this situation when apparently they aren't announcing which countries are on what traffic light system for another 2 weeks!!

@vil10 nothing to report lovely sadly, still waiting! There's word we might hear on 7th May what countries will be on the green list so we hope in anticipation!!! ❤️

AF this morning. At least it wasn't late so there was no tortuous wait this month but it's still depressing and my boss is hounding me. She was ringing and texting me at half 7 last night while I was in a therapy session talking about how to create boundaries at work hahaha and it's been constant all morning. Just not in the mood for it today.

@Juno231 hope you're feeling OK today. Those medical mix ups are fairly bizarre and worrying!

@kaylsd another member of the long cycle club! Mine are crazy irregular though, shortest has been 30 days and the longest has been 87 days with everything in between 😅 ooh I've heard some of the others have been on northisterone before, doesn't sound fun - hope you're ok! On the SA, when DH had his first one, the results took like 6 working days to come back, but it can take up to 10 days, he was told. Maybe it varies by NHS trust? Really annoyed DH can't be onsite to do the next one but nevermind - it is what it is! Glad your DH is able to do his there - much easier!

@Minster2012 I need to try and find that show to watch 😂 I asked him if he could do it in the car on the way there and it was a resounding no 😂

@Dollybird89 big hugs lovely ❤️

@Juno231 blimey, hope you're feeling better today!! That doctor getting all your info wrong doesn't exactly build confidence, does it?!

@Sausage1990 glad the anti-sickness pills have taken the edge off. Constant nausea is definitely not fun!!

@Kirky658 oooh exciting!! Let us know how the scan goes

@Somatronic sorry AF showed up ❤️ your boss sounds horrible!

I suspect I'm gonna have a mega long cycle again this time round, from work stress if nothing else. Resisting the urge to test though just to make sure as I've got a blood test on Friday - it's the fertility one so that would show if I was pregnant, right?

@Kirky658 I'm just plodding along thanks lovely. I'm in my first full cycle since my mc and it's a bit messed up. By the time I got my peak opk on day 27 I'd given up, managed to then dtd a couple of times but don't have any hope this month. Can't wait to hear how your scan goes!

@Somatronic sorry AF got you hun and your boss sounds awful. Boundaries are very hard with people that have no sense of them!

@InkyPaper wow mad respect for you ladies with super long cycles, I don't know how you do it. As if ttc doesn't test your patience enough.