Egg hunters vs the virgin wife - find the BFP - TTC bus 36

[Minster2012]

Ok so we need to get back to us ladies, back to fun games, POAS & getting fit, but you need to help me Cos Minster is flagging with a fuck boy body worse than the rest 🥺

Guess what...it’s nearly Easter & know what that means! 🐰🐣...We don’t want the 🐰to have the fun but bloody hell sometimes it’s a f*cling egg hunt all right 🙈🤣.

March and April we’ve got a lot of exciting times ahead with people going for Clomid & IVF as well as a lot of straight up sex for the “normal” TTC gang so let’s get shagging & FIND THOSE 🐣🌈.

We are still working on our spring challenges alongside trying to get pregnant and we’ve had great results so far- feel free to have a catch up on those and add your own.

And we are still helping each other get fitter, more positive through sharing small changes we are making in our lives and trying to inspire & support each other with these too...as well as of course being there for each other during the sad times.

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
7 BFPs for jan
8 BFPs for February

One for March

Let’s go go go!

@Kirky658 I still can't get in with my dentist, I'm depressed that when it was cancelled last year I was entitled to free dental by being pregnant 😔now my teeth are starting to hurt

@Juno231 no idea lovely? I never work out due dates now, I haven't even worked out when my fertile week might be but weirdly I'm feeling pretty moist right now down there and I'm CD9??? On my timeline on Facebook my pics from moving in here 4 years ago popped up today, our lovely but random copper island worktop popped up....we were gonna have a marathon cleaning sesh of that if we were selling the house!

@blackcurrantqueen what times the appointment?? 15,000 steps get you!! Stilton is gross?!! Who are you???

@Franklydear loving the daffs,

Shit I need to get on with my hello fresh 😬😬😬chicken laksa tonight

@2020mission my mum knows and when they told her and said they were going to tell me, she told them I was...which I understand why but I kinda wished she hadn't.

@larrythelizard thanks lovely, most of the time I'm absolutely (mostly) fine with the pregnancy announcements, doesn't bother me but this one just hit really hard.

@Juno231 my mum was pretty angry when I told her what happened so I think she may be having some words 😂 ooh Strathdon Blue?? I'll definitely keep an eye out for that next time I'm in Scotland

@blackcurrantqueen thanks lovely ❤️ haha naaah stilton is the best!! Hope everything goes well at your clinic appointment tomorrow, let us know how you get on ❤️

@Justanothercyster oh bless ya! Have you got long to go before the Easter break?

@Franklydear love daffodils 🥰 that's kind of your neighbour

@Babyghirl sorry to hear about your MC. Thank you, I really hope so! ♥️
@Minster2012 haha that made me laugh 😹 no idea on the house front. Still waiting for the flat to sell. Might look at using part exchange as we want to buy a new build. Thanks for confirming that I'm fun, I have some period memes primed and ready to go for the thread tomorrow/Friday 🤪
@InkyPaper meh 😒 wish you could tell her to eff off 😂
@blackcurrantqueen thank you for the hug 🤗 good luck for tomorrow! And they'll ask how long you've been ttc just to keep the constant reminder there 🙄
@Franklydear wow what a lovely neighbour! They're beautiful 🤩

@Minster2012 are we getting a photo of the hellofresh you've cooked this time or like me is your priority to eat haha

@InkyPaper did it feel better letting your mum know? I keep toying with the idea of telling mines but she is not good at keeping quiet so I don't trust her to not tell a few people. Also I just don't want her thinking everyone I call her it's with good news. Extra pressure

Thread tomorrow?! Say what @notyetamumbuttrying 🤣😂😳Jesus honestly these buses are gonna go without me! Ahhhh sorry I think I was confused with you and @Justanothercyster who is actually in the process of buying a new build, yes of course you are marketing your flat and hoping to buy one, (and had that twatty couple come round who wanted parking but knew it had none, who does that?)

You wanna drive the bus?!!!

@Minster2012 oh i meant cos I'll be on tomorrow or Friday so will send at that point as will be relatable to me at that time. Yeah well remembered with that couple! Had forgotten about that, bloody morons 😂 defo no bus driving for me, too many ppl on here, wouldn't be able to do it! You're a pro at it 😉

It's my work neighbour from the florist shop, he is an older gentleman, had a notice in the door saying sometimes he opens early sometimes later and sometimes not at all, which is true, I normally say hello but today I said I was after some and of course he refused payment
@Minster2012 don't get comfy this bus is taking much longer than usual, and we already told you, we'll chain you to the driver seat if you try to leave

Don't be nervous @blackcurrantqueen it's a positive step to finding out answers and getting your baba, you got this!

@Minster2012 my decorating is so bad I may as well be drunk when doing it!

@2020mission @Juno231 I've got a load of stuff on in July - wedding/hen do/family holiday and really didn't want to be less than 12 weeks pregnant so thought we'd try until April then stop until August. Now I just want a baby so will just have to deal with that if and when it comes up!

Lovely daffs @Franklydear I do love this time of year with all the flowers coming out!

@larrythelizard we had lots in the communal garden at the back of the houses but the little brat lovely little boy of the new neighbors picked them all

@2020mission babies are often late, so an early December due date could have also been a disaster! But I too missed out 2 months ttc trying to avoid a dec/jan baby. Oh how I laugh about it now..... 🙄 I've a HSG this month and so I'll probably miss my window for December. But January isn't favorable really either. Obviously now I know I can't exactly be picky though!
@InkyPaper oh that would have pissed me off. Not only that, she's about 3 minutes pregnant and felt the need to tell everyone? It didn't need rubbing in quite yet, did it?
@Minster2012 definitely makes sense to delay your ivf. Like you need any extra things happening that could make it go wrong! The following month sounds a safer bet and fingers crossed it'll be the one! 🥳

Is it normal to be feeling angry and pmt like when you are in your fw?! 🤔 Hating everyone is a pretty good contraceptive! 🤣

We are having Chinese to celebrate the 22nd year anniversary, it was yesterday but DH was getting frustrated when couldn't order but only remembered late, so today 🎉

@InkyPaper no luckily, we have a half day on Thursday next week which is when we finish 🙌🏼 more concerned about parents eve tomorrow night 😴

@Franklydear aww happy anniversary for yesterday! 🎊

@2020mission nope I totally forgot to take a picture of the cooked food!! That's why I totally suck at Insta 😂😂🤪just bloody ate it and damn it was good 😂, yeah I'm with you on the mum thing, but it's good when you have testing as in "stop thinking we ARE cos we ARE TRYING BUT" even though mines not supportive and I'm more talking about MIL tbh

@notyetamumbuttrying co-pilot?!

@Franklydear yes you are right and I see ppl pick the daffs round here all the time too & it winds me up...oooooo happy anniversary for yesterday! 🥳🙌🏻

@paintfairy oh god the amount of times I've thought "ahhhh a baby then wouldn't be great anyway" now just like GIVE ME A FRICKING BABY 😂😬living your comment to @InkyPaper about being 3 minutes pregnant 🤔😳😲yep that totally sums it up.

@Babyghirl on the "sit on a dick then baby pops out 9months later" thing the thread title is Cos was it @Sausage1990 or @Juno231 who's virgin friend got pregnant from their wedding night?? And no she wasn't called Mary! I mean of course it had to happen 🤪

@Minster2012 co piloting could work! Let me know when I'm needed 👩🏾‍✈️
@Franklydear enjoy! Belated anniversary wishes!
We've got a pizza coming cos I'm hormonal and need junk! 🤪

@Minster2012 just catching up and makes sense to hold fire a month for what you've got going on. Everything crossed you'll be one of the miracle people on their way for IVF and get BFP naturally!

Just decided to put on that Rhod Gilbert documentary on and OH heard it and has come to watch it with me. What a star ⭐️

@Franklydear happy anniversary!

I'm secretly stuffing my face with marshmallows as I've got work to finish now DS is in bed, I'm quite happy in here!!

Thank you all, I've now been married to DH more than half my life, and haven't kill him so I want my medal 🏅

Oh, and ds tried lots of different Chinese foods, which he wants to repeat, and the vegetables weren't even hidden, so successful night

@Franklydear you deserve a 🥇and in prison terms you could easily get a release now and yet you want another baby so I think a 👑too! And a baby! And that's great on DS, I love a bit of baby sweet corn me, and also can't beat a chestnut crunch. So today you lot have got me wanting chip & bacon butties, crisp sandwiches & now both Chinese & pizza @notyetamumbuttrying im blaming you too! Oh and @Haiyaa for that lovely looking avacado & egg 😳🤣ooooo with marshmallows for dessert @larrythelizard I gotta say a packet of marshmallows accidentally fell open yesterday for DS so we ate some 🤣

DH & I (yep both) of us have just done EMKFit 90s workout @Dollybird89 @InkyPaper have you done that one?? I have to say I'm not very coordinated and man some of those moves I literally couldn't do!! DH was like "if anyone saw me now I would die of embarrassment😂"

@Crazydoglady123 thanks yeah it does make sense it's the right decision god if we could that would be something else but doubt it 🤪I don't think I saw the rhod Gilbert thing in the end

@Haiyaa ohhh that sounds delightful, bacon butties and tea definitely have healing powers!!

@Babyghirl oh that's so sad, I'm so sorry to hear that's what you think! I feel that's always the case, once the first comes they just keep on coming! I'm going to keep everything crossed that you get your rainbow baby🤞🏼

Well day 3 of my diet and it's going well! 2 walks and a workout today, 20k steps, I feel so much less bloated already, can't wait to get my pre lockdown body back😂

Hi everyone

Sorry been working loads so not been on much.

@Minster2012 I think you are totally doing the right thing. A lot of people around my area have had bad reaction with 2nd jag.
And sorry about the house what a bitch.

Welcome to newbies.

Off to be shattered on a double tomorrow.

Hope everyone is ok xx

@blackcurrantqueen is your appointment with the recurrent mc clinic? I had mine in Jan over the phone and they didn't even ask a lot of the questions on the questionnaire! They asked in detail about the previous miscarriages, how long trying, how long they lasted, were they mmc, natural or drugs needed. Was all quite blunt. But the doctor I had was very reassuring and suggested progesterone supplements to me which I now have from the GP ready to take if and when the next BFP comes along.

I'd recommend making a list of questions and have it in front of you/ take it with you if it's in person so you don't forget to ask something and kick yourself later! Hope it goes well x

Hey just want to say good luck to @blackcurrantqueen and @paintfairy for tomorrow x

See lots of new names, welcome newbies!

Love the newbies coming in with their embarrassing stories, we need to make it a condition to first post, to be found by our kind of people, ladies, also recommend this is my house in BBC 1, fucking hilarious, mist funny thing we watched in ages

@minster2012 yeah I loved that one lol

Sorry been a bit absent... had cops show up on doorstep today looking for oh! At first I panicked thinking something had happened to him... then later found out it was just something to do with an accident they witnessed...
Plus af playing games with me is driving me nuts! Had 1 day of spotting and that's it!!! Arghhh!!

Blood tests tomorrow for vit d levels.. yay for 8.30am appointment! 🤦‍♀️

Hi to newbies 😁😁😁