TTC after MC - Feb/March 2021 (Thread 18)

[bez91]

New thread ladies as the other is almost full.

Tagging everyone I can....

@Bellabubble
@Pancakes7
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@PumpkinEverything
@NatJ24
@NatNoo96
@ELMcg
@RichmondLady1981
@susiebluebell
@Garman
@bumptobean
@bubblybrit
@PrettyPinkPansies
@chloedancer897
@elsimo
@HereWeGoooo
@ttcrainbowbaby1
@Seasalt1984
@Strawberry08

Congrats to those with BFPs on the last thread there was a lot of you 🥳

Congrats @Garman that’s fantastic news🤗

@vitaminb33 yes fingers crossed this is our cycle! Hoping this is my last AF for a while!

Congrats @Garman fab news!

I've hit 10dpo which is the usual date I loose my mind symptom spotting 😆 pretty calm and collected up to now. RHR has shot up to highest it's been for a long time, still being realistic though. Anyone due to test in next few days?

Congrats @Garman 😊

There’s a small group of us over here who are all pregnant after a loss, if you’d like somewhere to join in with people who know what you’re going through 😊
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/birth_clubs/4161660-pregnancy-after-loss-autumn-babies-2021?watched=1&msgid=105036751#105036751

Thanks @PumpkinEverything, I had seen that thread but thought end of Oct/early November was pushing it for Autumn 😂

Definitely not @Garman 😊 more than happy for all the girls from here to come over!

Well, I'm a bit overwhelmed and confused 🤦‍♀️ I started bleeding when my AF was due (it was a little more than what I usually count as spotting, which is normal for the start of my AF). After my bleeding stopped didn't reappear I just tested and got this (which I initially confidently misread as a negative because I thought it needed a + sign, my partner gently pointed out I was misreading it) I don't feel great about the bleeding, and I don't have any symptoms really

Congrats @vitaminb33 that’s a great positive👏🙂 just wait and see, hopefully that’s the the end of your bleeding, symptoms can come and go. 🤞🤞🤞

@vitaminb33 ah congratulations, thats an amazing strong positive! The bleeding could just be implantation. I've heard alot of people who get bleeds and everything is fine. 🌟🤞

@vitaminb33 I'd guess that was an implantation bleed, that's a lovely positive congratulations!

@vitaminb33 wow that's fab and even better that it was unexpected and you thought AF had arrived. Don't worry too much about the bleeding for now.

Ladies, I'm that person who always holds out until 14dpo but I'm 11dpo and have a burning desire to POAS today (this never happens) please talk me outta it 🤣

@bez91 don't do it! I'm usually the same as you but do sometimes get the urge to test early! However it's always met with disappointment so you're definitely better off waiting!

Thanks everyone! I guess I thought implantation bleeding occurred earlier in the cycle but I think you're all right now I've looked it up 😅 I think I must have ovulated quite late because I was sure I'd missed this cycle

I'm just so surprised, my last two pregnancies I had obvious symptoms (like nausea) before I took a test. I'll try and take it a day at a time 😭 I'm excited but pretty anxious too

@bez91 I feel like I want to tell you to do it 😂😂 will you be able to keep yourself busy over the weekend so that you can’t be tempted?

@vitaminb33 congrats! That’s a good positive 😁 I think it’s just been implantation bleeding if it’s stopped, and also your line is strong so it’s not like it’s faint and potentially a chemical.

HAHA! @PumpkinEverything I want to tell @bez91 to do it too 🤣
I can never hold out! Even 11dpo is amazing, I think that deserves a well done haha!

@NatJ24 @bez91 yeah... deserves the treat of a test 😂😂😂 last time I got an urge to do a test early I got a positive so that’s what makes me want to say do it!

@bez91 do it, do it, do it!

@Marvellouslymadmum @PumpkinEverything @NatJ24 had a word with myself over lunch and going to hold out until Monday. I don't have a good feeling so it's best to wait it out 😂
Think of a bfn this time going to have some time away tracking TTC, it's been a long bloody slog to here and it really is all encompassing isn't it!

@bez91 it totally is! I'm actually putting everything I can into this now with the tracking, tests with gp etc, supplements, protein, I even added pomegranate juice and a pineapple to my shopping delivery! Weight loss and exercise I'm actually kicking myself that I didn't do it all sooner but oh was in the frame of mind that if it happened he'd be happy and if it didn't oh well - until the last mc where he realised he really wanted this so now he's totally on board we are going for it and just hoping it's not too late for us! Oh and mustn't forget the warm feet too 😂 I just feel like it's now or never for us with my age. I totally get taking a break though - it's exhausting and I think sometimes we need to reset and relax

Hi ladies! Bit of an update, I’m 11dpo today. Tested this morning and BFN.

I’m almost 100% I’m just waiting for AF to show up now, but if it hasn’t come by Monday I’ll test again.

Fingers crossed for next month anyways!

@Marvellouslymadmum ahhha! That has been me the last 2 months 🙈 also ensured my feet have been super toasty all TWW! If you caught my post earlier in the week I've had quite heavy spotting 4-7dpo, that's gotta be the Pom juice right doing its regardless of PT result 😂 definitely good to have other things to focus on. That's going to be my mantra next cycle. It just feels like a merry go round of going through the same motions each month!

@Leesha94 sorry on the bfn, still quite early though right? When is AF due?

@vitaminb33 wow great news! How many weeks do you think you are?

I've been spotting this week and I'm only on CD12 with long cycles! Very strange but I'm trying not to stress or obsessively Google - easier said than done lol. This is only my first cycle after a late loss so suppose the unexpected is to be expected. What a journey this is! X

@bez91 at least we know we are doing everything we possibly can! Why would the Pom juice make you spot 🤔 couldn't that be an implantation bleed?

@minthumbugs I'm a bit unsure how to calculate it! If it was from the first day of my last period it would be 5 weeks, but I have long cycles and I suspect I ovulated late so I'm thinking it's more like 4 weeks? I've ordered one of those clearblue weeks test that I'll try on Sunday

@Marvellouslymadmum just that it's made me have a super thick womb lining this month 🙈 I thought possibly it was IB but was pretty heavy and unusual and I never bleed between cycles. Time will tell hey!