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Ttc #1 - cycle 7

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rosiej95 · 10/02/2021 09:19

Really fed up of AF showing up month after month now 🤦🏼‍♀️ we've been taking the see what happens but dtd lots approach. But now going into month 7 so We've decided to use the clear blue opk's to see if it gives us a better chance. 🤷🏼‍♀️
Now to just wait for AF to disappear 😀

Any one else ttc #1? 😀

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Aims1991 · 11/03/2021 07:26

So I caved and done a test today on cd 30 and af was due 2 days ago, obviously a bfn! Got no symptoms of AF normally I get really crampy but had nothing! Only thing I've noticed is I need to pee every hour which really isn't like me!! Got knows what my body is doing 🙈

Amy259 · 11/03/2021 07:58

@rosiej95 I take pregnacare too and like @Cinderellashoes says I would take them anyway even if I had a ttc break. I saw the other day that they do “his & hers” ones and considered it but trying to get DH to take supplements is a nightmare so I figured it wasn’t worth the £18! 🙄

@Aims1991 how weird! I hate when our bodies don’t play ball. I sometimes wonder if I always occasionally had random months out of sync but just didn’t notice as I wasn’t tuned in to every little thing... unlike now!

Loops01 · 11/03/2021 08:06

@Aims1991 I am the exact same. Period was due between today and the next 2 days and no symptoms whatsoever so took a test and still bfn. Not even a faint line. Haven't had a cycle longer than this in about 6 months and been doing so well food and exercise wise etc so god knows too! Getting fed up of doing everything 'right' but getting nothing. I have found I needed to pee more too. This is cd31 for me. Don't have any true concern about pcos etc so no idea why I feel nothing and still neg. Its all so depressing. Just want to move onto the next cycle now. A 2021 baby is out for me just because of dates. Feels never ending.

Cinderellashoes · 11/03/2021 08:39

I remember feeling like that too. ‘I won’t have a baby this year then’
Af hasn’t started yet but is on the way, I can feel the cramps coming already. Soo disappointed again x
Sorry girlies xx

Aims1991 · 11/03/2021 21:57

So I think I might be out, still no symptoms of AF but tonight I have a tiny spot of blood when I went to toilet! Fingers crossed it doesn't come tomorrow but don't have any hope that it won't 😔

AZ1992X · 12/03/2021 07:18

I’m still waiting for AF to arrive, currently day 33 which is longer than my last two cycles but my app said it could be later this month. Tested again and was bfn so think I’m out and just waiting for AF to show up.

Cinderellashoes · 12/03/2021 07:25

Sorry @Aims1991, hope she doesn’t show!!
Ooh hopefully it’s a good sign @AZ1992X fingers crossed for you!
My af was due yesterday but hasn’t shown?! I have the usual cramps, feeling sick etc so it’s only a matter of time I think. It’s like my own body is trolling me, giving me a shred of hope and then laughing at me Angry

Cinderellashoes · 12/03/2021 07:27

The last time I had a cycle longer than 28 days was back in October and af was one day late! Looks like my body wants to wind me up!!

Aims1991 · 12/03/2021 08:22

@Cinderellashoes unfortunately it's defo AF! Feel so deflated this morning! But onto the next cycle we go🥺

Loops01 · 12/03/2021 08:37

I am the exact same. My AF was later than my normal. 32 day cycle but it came at 2am this morning! Felt slight pain and that's been it ever since. No other real symptoms. 2 days of having chocolate and a couple of gins I think then back on it. Now for time to pass to get to ovulation now!!!

Cinderellashoes · 12/03/2021 08:39

@Aims1991 so sorry love I know how rubbish it feels. My af still hasn’t arrived and I wish if it was going to it would so I could just know!

Aims1991 · 12/03/2021 08:40

@Cinderellashoes Have you tested?

Cinderellashoes · 12/03/2021 08:45

I don’t have any tests hun! With my two children I tested early with both but obviously before that I had lots of negatives and they are soul destroying aren’t they? So I refused to buy any as I have no self control Grin

AZ1992X · 12/03/2021 10:10

I think AF has arrived 😔

Cinderellashoes · 12/03/2021 10:29

I think I may have just gotten my bfp. I can’t stop crying, this doesn’t happen this easily for me

Loops01 · 12/03/2021 11:21

Wow @Cinderellashoes that was so quick. Congratulations!

@AZ1992X cycle twin! Roll on cycle 8 with @rosiej95 and any others that are on it just now

rosiej95 · 12/03/2021 11:29

@AZ1992X @Aims1991 @Loops01
Gutted for you all & I hope your all ok ❤️
I would say welcome to the cycle 8 club but... it's a bit of a shit club 😂😂
We've got this 💪🏻

I'm going to spend the next 4 weeks eating healthy & doing excersise hopefully shifting this lockdown weight will help get a bfp!... & mean people at work will recognise me when I go back 😂🙈👍🏻

@Cinderellashoes omg! 😁 that is brilliant!
I really hope you have 😍🤞🏻
keep us updated! :)

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Aims1991 · 12/03/2021 11:34

@Cinderellashoes omg that's amazing

Cinderellashoes · 12/03/2021 11:37

It’s real, it’s my bfp!!!

Ttc #1 - cycle 7
Cinderellashoes · 12/03/2021 11:42

I’m rooting for all you girls!! Took me 12 months this time and 8 months next time and just 3 months this time!!!!

AZ1992X · 12/03/2021 11:43

@Cinderellashoes congratulations! That’s great news.

@rosiej95 haha very true! At least we’ve got each other. I was feeling shitty about it so just been to Tesco and brought a crispy creme doughnut and small Easter egg 🙈😂 I’ll have my weekend of treats then back to being healthy from next week!

Cinderellashoes · 12/03/2021 16:30

Thank you for the congratulations. It’ll be all of you really soon I just know it!

Amy259 · 14/03/2021 17:07

Hi ladies, just popping on to say I hope you’re all doing okay today - the Mother’s Day posts hit me a little bit today, which I didn’t expect! So just wanted to send some love ♥️

rosiej95 · 14/03/2021 18:15

@Amy259 hope your ok ❤️ I know what you mean tho :/
Hopefully next year we will be able to celebrate 🥰 I can't wait!

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AZ1992X · 14/03/2021 18:53

Hope you’re all doing ok ❤️, our time will come I just know it xx.