wearing pjs all day long, making money from our thong, tww driving us crazy, all this s**t to make a baby! TTC bus 29

[Minster2012]

TTC bus 29...
Oh my goodness to say we are a chatty group is an understatement most times but that’s great cos it’s not all about TTC here, anything goes, we now have a bus with a beautiful panoramic roof seat so a few ppl can pop up on top heads up and out into wind to gulp in the non TTC air but still hold on to us & know where we are...like our pups that come with us with ears flapping in the wind our beloved ladies may have one flap flying in the wind...”watch out for the left outer flap”...someone once shouted to their OH...that might set the tone here nicely.

Get it?! No?! Sometimes nor do we...🙄the chat, the deed, the sperm, the egg, the fact that we aren’t pregnant yet after shagging twelfty millions times a month forever. But we are here for each other, to chat shit, to help each other out the pits or wallow within the pits, for all the highs and lows.

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

minstermusings.co.uk
If you want to sign up & get updates please do, please note your username if you comment shows up to others so maybe make it anonymous I won’t be offended 😂🤣(unless you are mean)

Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs

6 BFPs for jan...who is next??

@Kirky658 &
@Gem176 the latest

If you want to sign up & get updates for my blog or instangram please do, please note your username if you comment shows up to others so maybe make it anonymous if you are bothered, it’s not my fault if ppl try to work out who you are.

Hoping for a big 70's bush yes like your hedge!??? @Gem176 🤣😂

Pizza dough mmmm @Kirky658 that looks so nice!

@paintfairy that sounds good though but agree with you being cautious, there's a lot of us who have been late and amounted to nothing but equally it's still a bloody hood sign for a no Flo arrival!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@notyetamumbuttrying love your insider gossip!! But hold on you've just spoiled it haven't you!! Gawddddddd and not really excited bout weds, more scared really. I wanna know but I'm worried as it's always been an issue before for me

@bez91 totally not surprised at a lack of work 🤣😂and lack of distractions and thats good symptoms like before??
Yes it's a total postcode lottery I'm afraid, very unfair. My postcode area for ivf (Humber/Hull) you get 3 full fresh go's. Except we haven't ever had a fresh one because it's been due to my illnesses (cancer/chemo) & we had to use surrogacy (to my best friend) we've only ever had access to the embryo creation on the NHS as nhs doesn't support surrogacy so we've had to pay for everything else privately even our first go 3/4 years ago. Bit of a kick in the teeth really as our area is one of the best funded.

@clolo most ppl are short protocol & less needles yes 🤞🏻

On the bank front yeahhhhhhhhhhhh bit fucked.
So both accounts drained of money, with transactions yesterday saying "happy birthday" to someone including my mortgage account and I got an email late in the night saying my credit card is linked to another Apple Pay that's not mine. But it's all blocked and despite my tears today they say it shouldn't be an issue but will be a full investigation.

Like someone else said my credit card is pretty slutty with a pretty big limit on it it's pretty concerning I know credit is actually quite easy to get fraud back on im more worried about the draining of the accounts & resetting up mortgage account and I think the mortgage came out on the 21st but I forgot to ask as in shock

WHAT A BALLACHE

@Minster2012 oh that is absolutely shitty about the accounts! Not how you want your weekend to go!
No way, you want it way fluffier than that excuse for a hedge 😂 pretty sure I should like prune it or feed it or something but I'm clueless 🤷🏻‍♀️😳 my mother is horrified at me, she's a gardening nut!

@Minster2012 omg! Bastards! Stress you do not need at all. I hope you manage to sort it all out. 🤬

Just checked out the ccg for my area... is this good?

@Justanothercyster mine are going to be the clear plastic ones top and bottom and I can't imagine they're going to be enjoyable 🙈 I'm 10 weeks today! Not announced anything yet, we're going to tell family after the 12 week scan and maybe announce a couple of weeks later. I still haven't told my boss either 🙈

@Kirky658 ooo exciting! I can remember being 6 weeks and it feeling so far away but it's already been 4 weeks ?! I'm 12 weeks in 2 weeks and that's mad. It'll fly by !

@clolo so sweet isn't she! I had a lovely parcel just before Christmas from her 🥰

@Gem176 I normally don't mind prunes but hate them at the moment 🤣

@Minster2012 have you seen pictures of people's teeth before they get veneers ? That makes me feel sick 🤢

@clolo @lucyrp I got mine today too.. she's such an awesome bus driver!
@clolo if I hadn't moved up Durham to be with OH my last area only offered 1 cycle!
Feel quite lucky tbh . I've got to read into it all more tho as its all new to me i always envisioned it would come naturally. But I know I need to get my bmi down as it's way to high and all areas want you to have a bin of 30 or less an mines in the 60s 😳🙄😲😬 that's my goal for now until appointment

I know ladies, pretty stressful, and I don't know how it's happened but oh well, they should be phoning me back later when DH back to let me know if they've been able to at least put back what was in there before 🤦🏼‍♀️and conclude the first investigation as to how maybe

@Dollybird89 yes that's very good as good as you can get I think, same as my area! Basically means as long as you get some embryos from the fresh round (which is where they stimulate you to make embryos) then they will keep going til you get a baby for all your embryos you've made in 3 rounds 🙌🏻, to give you an idea each fresh round costs about £3000-4000 or there's a company that long as you are under 40 they do a baby or refund (yep) for £7000. So you are in a good place! Tell that to OH!

@lucyrp awwwww thank you @clolo prob laughed a bit more with hers than burst into tears 🤣😂 hers a bit more errrrrr how do I put it??? Whereas the Christmas ones were a bit warm and fuzzier maybe???!!! 😆😊

@lucyrp I hope you are right! Just want to see little bean on that scan and know its gonna be OK. RHR has gone down a couple bpm this week but trying to ignore it. Still feel very tired, boobs are tender and a bit veiny and nausea has started this week, seems to be worse when I am hungry?

@Juno231 happy birthday 🎉🍾🎂
Work finished and I have sunshine, I am shifting attitude, I think I might have been a miserable git with the December I had, so I am trying to be more cheerful and chatty, and today I had a much nicer day

@Minster2012 yeah I definitely cried at mine😂

@Kirky658 yeah my nausea ramped up a lot at 6 weeks and then I started vomiting at 6+2 🙄 I think its definitely normal for rhr to change even more so from 6 weeks !

@Juno231 happy birthday I hope your having a lovely day.

@Minster2012 I really hope you get your bank stuff sorted soon.

@paintfairy understand why you are being cautious hun but I’m keeping everything crossed for you.

@Franklydear glad you are having a better day.

Just quickly posting to wish @Juno231 a happy birthday incase I don't get back on today 🥳 hope you get the present you (and all of us) really want soon haha! 🥂 enjoy the weekend ladies

@notyetamumbuttrying haha you really can't beat a good old spoon shag!! Thankyou x

@Gem176 I think my OH will be the same on Valentine's Day, I mean he likes the effort that goes into outfits or something but he just wants it off, doesn't want the faffing😂 can't beat a chilled pyjama day when it's cold outside xx

@paintfairy I'll stay positive for you🤞🏼

@Minster2012 ohh how shitty with your bank accounts!! Absolute bastards!! Really hope you manage to sort it with little stress as possible!!

@lucyrp i can't believe you're 10 weeks already!! That's flown by!!

@Vil10 I know hasn't it just! Can't believe it !

@Franklydear you haven't been a miserable git with us but I'm intrigued to see the ray of 🌞cos you know I love you!!

Right, painting done, krispie cakes done, crocodile chasing, toddler chipping knife skills done to eat a fruit salad, now we are going for a walk boom! Is it 6pm yet?!!

Oh and waiting for the bank to call back when DH gets back he won't be impressed when I say about my accounts being cleared. La la la la la laaaaaaaa

@Minster2012 that's because you're lovely and they aren't,😁, I guess with the loss, the being unable to go home for Xmas and all the many isolations, I have been getting there, doing my job and going quick home, today I had 2 nice ones and an idiot, and as it was quiet, I had a bit of a chat with them, the sunshine I have in the sky, it's freezing but very sunny, just finished the very nice meal ds prepared today, with daddy's help, very nice chicken nuggets and chips, then profiteroles for pudding

@juno231 happy birthday!!! 🎉🎂
@franklydear nom Nom profiteroles! I've started trying to do the same with my job too, do what I need to and nothing else then finish up!

We've just cleaned the house and the dog decided to throw up on the carpet... Oh good 😬 seems fine, numpty probably ate something he shouldn't on this mornings walk!

@lucyrp deffo think it is a sign of things to come lol I get terrible car and sea sickness and I'm led to believe that puts you at higher risk of it so I'll let you know haha...

@lucyrp nope, could never stomach them, the only way I'm rating them if it's some weird craving! Can't believe that's you at 10 weeks already! Are you excited for the scan?

@Vil10 men are so funny, I've considered getting done up in all my outfits in one day and taking photos, then I can just send them to him periodically while waiting nakey in the bedroom 😂 one day of hassle but then no more faffing..... I think it's genius 🤣

@Minster2012 saw your video of the monster cakes.... I don't know why but that's not how I expected you to sound. Maybe I'm crazy but I read everyone's post in my head and you all have your own unique voices in my head.... god that sounds really bad but I hope someone understands what I mean 🙈😂 please, someone tell me in no crazy?!!

@Franklydear glad you are having a good day, I'm sure there was some study done into how people felt on days where they forced themselves to smile once every 15 mins V days where they didn't and overwhelmingly the days with forced smiling were perceived to be happier. Attitude definitely accounts for something. Love a profiterole 😍

@lucyrp literally feels like a few weeks ago you put that positive test in!!

@Minster2012 super mum!!

@Gem176 that's actually not a bad idea!! I might do that, saves time if actually having to take it off at the time too!!

My pregnacare vitamins have just arrived, thought I'd give these a try just don't want them to shorten or affect my cycles though🤞🏼 also they're huge😂

Ha ha ha we are lovely @Franklydear and I speak for us all as the driver 🚌🚌🚌but I know what you mean, DH says the same that everyone at his place had turned miserable, remember we said a few weeks ago about having a bit more of a chat rather than just "yeah fine"? Well I bet they miss the smiley fun Frank?! Bloody want a profiterole now 🤣😂what time do you eat your main meal you crazy Spanish folk???

@Gem176 d'y'know what every i time I hear MY OWN voice I'm like "I don't sound like that do I??" So I totally get it. I found shit. Look shit too so don't worry!! 😘🤣errrr and I've done that taking photos, we discussed it in summer didn't we ladies, for FW?? @Vil10 @Juno231 @Sausage1990 @lucyrp @2020mission @Katao the heady days of fun cycle sex watching 365 days film 😂🙌🏻

@Vil10 knackered mum. Need a wine mum. (Or a whine???)

So bank phoned again & my funds will be restored by Tuesday, they've traced it all but they doubt they'll get it off the fuckers it just comes out if the banks millions I guess which really fucks me off, they don't know how they got it which also fucks me off, DH will likely say it's cos I've started using Apple Pay. New account numbers new cards, new online banking/app stuff to sort so will have to tell direct debits etc, big ball ache but so thankful it's sorted & no direct debits coming out before it's sorted.

Oh but in other news I've got my broadband down to £4.70 a month? Is that good??

@Kirky658 oh god yeah, hopefully youll be alright! 🙈

@Gem176 I know I can't believe it myself! Yeah really excited for it but super nervous too, hoping everything is okay👀

@Vil10 madness! It goes so quickly

@minster2012 glad it is sorted but that's shite that they don't think they will get it back off the perpetrators!! £4.70pm for broadband is insane ours is like £20!

@Minster2012 lunch is ,normal time, about 2.30/3, dinner anytime after 9, that's why we need to go for coffee at 11 ish... Obviously we only keep it at weekend, if I am off, cos we don't get up early, fuck that, if I work I get home about 2.
At work I am not only hilarious but I normally look after them, sort out mistakes before they are spotted, teach them stuff, and protect them if their asses needs saving, I've been in the company longer than anyone else, I am also nearly perfect, so nothing they can do to me, so I guess they weren't impressed with me doing the necessaries only, lady came today to thank me again for the gloves, she is so happy with them,
they think they are funny, so they call me ma'am, but some of them they really call me mum