wearing pjs all day long, making money from our thong, tww driving us crazy, all this s**t to make a baby! TTC bus 29

[Minster2012]

TTC bus 29...
Oh my goodness to say we are a chatty group is an understatement most times but that’s great cos it’s not all about TTC here, anything goes, we now have a bus with a beautiful panoramic roof seat so a few ppl can pop up on top heads up and out into wind to gulp in the non TTC air but still hold on to us & know where we are...like our pups that come with us with ears flapping in the wind our beloved ladies may have one flap flying in the wind...”watch out for the left outer flap”...someone once shouted to their OH...that might set the tone here nicely.

Get it?! No?! Sometimes nor do we...🙄the chat, the deed, the sperm, the egg, the fact that we aren’t pregnant yet after shagging twelfty millions times a month forever. But we are here for each other, to chat shit, to help each other out the pits or wallow within the pits, for all the highs and lows.

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs

6 BFPs for jan...who is next??

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@Juno231 🤣 Awww. Well I reckon you'll be waiting a while yet! 😆 It is lovely though watching the long termers get bfps though, I agree.
@Minster2012 I feel horny (bad sign) so not sure January is my month. But 2021 better be my bloody year! 🤣 Hopefully this year the stars align for all of us!

@Dollybird89 yeah I second above. Ask him what financially stable even means. My DH worried about money when I first suggested it. And we have no debt other than mortgage really. And both have a job. And manage. We aren't rich but then I can't see anything changing for the better either. So it's not a bad time and he saw that in the end. So maybe try and calmly discuss, to see what his reasoning actually is?

@minster2012 that would be awesome!!!! I think that's a good sign for you ❤️

Hmmm valentines day plans. This will be our second married one.. Think we stayed in last year so will likely do the same this time 🤣 we will cook 3 courses. DH will be lucky if I can stay awake long enough for any sex tbh!!!! Lol

Oh crap also just remembered its my little brother's 21st next week I have no idea what to get, he wants money but I want to get him something too

Right had my manic writing stuff down to you all, as you were ladies!

Af due 10th of February, so if we manage to DTD this weekend, probably, so will test at some point before march, dies that count as in?

Getting a box of internet chippies in Amazon, 25 for £10, they are 10 ml but due to a mistake the box says 25 ml, so selling them cheap, don’t mind if I do

@notyetamumbuttrying oooooh thanks for that offer! Can he get us a deposit free mortgage? 😂 in all seriousness, does he think the 5% schemes are likely to come back soon?

@Birdladybird yay!!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼Random question, do you have to have bed rest after a transfer? @Minster2012
Minster that's such lovely news about your friend 🎉

@Dollybird89 I honestly wouldn't cancel as it's worth checking it out with them, and really you never know how long things will take. As long as you can afford to give that bub a good life you're fine!

Also got an update from the fertility clinic, have to call them on day one of cycle starting in March, if it doesn't come they'll force one for me using meds, then hycosy can be booked. Wait for dh's SA on the 8th April to see if the supplements have helped. Let's hope we have a miracle before then...

@Franklydear totally thought you'd just bought a load of chips off of amazon!

No Valentine's fun for me I don't think - much like @DJmum83 I'm due to be bleeding then lol

Got a letter through from the NHS to say they've cancelled my fertility appointment.... then got another letter dated the same stupid day saying they've scheduled me in 2 days earlier for a phone appointment! Haha could that not have gone in the same letter and saved me the fright?!

Thanks everyone. I'll approach OH and discuss it more after this tax bill is sorted... I'm not going to be the once initiating any of the dtd so it's all down on him then. Def not gonna cancel appointment. Think I do need a lil time to work on my headspace though as I broke down in front of OH today about my dad's deteriorating health. Was good to have a good sob but my reasons for crying were more than just my dad .
I'd be lost with out you ladies I appreciate you all so much!

@Dollybird89 one for all and all for one, and talking is the key
@Juno231 I don’t like chips that much, and dh will eat them all, can I order chocolate instead, caramel one and he won’t touch it😂
@Justanothercyster things are moving, this time next year we’ll all have babies, Rodney 🤩

Yes @DJmum83 though boo for Valentine's af!
@paintfairy why is being horny a bad sign??? Cos af is due??

@Kirky658 get the sex in before food that's what we do if we want to get drunk (I know you won't be doing that nor will I but the point is before falling asleep!) what do 21 year olds want in a lockdown?? Errrrr no idea @Franklydear yes you're in. As you will be near me. Internet chippies 😂🤣

@Justanothercyster they say yes rest for the rest of the day after transfer then chill for couple of days after but you don't need to bed rest for couple of days after, you can dog walk etc just no lifting, no twisting no running. Some ppl do rest up for ages, this time I'm gonna chill more, I think I did too much last time & as it's our last shot & it's lockdown I'm gonna chill the f out. And oooooo for March 🙌🏻

God @Juno231 that would scare the crap outta me!!

@Dollybird89 sounds good and we are here hun, always xxx

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4143674-about-friends-buying-goods-during-covid I haven’t given you a funny aibu in a while, well this one is terrifying!

@Juno231 fingers crossed no show AF on Valentine's Day and we get a big BFP instead xxx

Oooo we can have some valentines babies!!

@Franklydear can you find a section for AIBU on the app, I searched yesterday & couldn't find a section & was soooo underwhelmed with the active threads 🤣that is unreal why would you expect free stuff & "under £20?!" What??

Lounging in the bath watching the cabins with a cider ahhhhhhh

@Justanothercyster sorry to jump in but can you remind me which supplements your husband is on to try and improve his sperm?

@Minster2012 yes please to valentines pregnancies 🙌 ❣

@Birdladybird ohh hope your transfer is all done and you're back chilling at home now 😃

@Juno231 thanks again for feedback on my chart yesterday! I think the bad sleep was the problem as my temperature wasn't high today and I just got a peak OPK this afternoon so I'm pretty sure now I haven't ovulated so early 😅 marked that temperature as disrupted sleep.

@Minster2012 I won't take any chances, I'll be in bed with a bell to summon dh 😂

@Franklydear yes we will 💜

@2020mission they're called Impryl. Bloody expensive!

@Franklydear

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4143674-about-friends-buying-goods-during-covid I haven’t given you a funny aibu in a while, well this one is terrifying!

This made me chuckle!

@Minster2012 fab news about your friend 🤞🏼 you can align again!

@Birdladybird so exciting! Fingers crossed it's a sticky one 😊

Ooh Valentine's Day talk... we don't really do it except cards, mainly celebrate anniversaries so we just resort to filthy cards to mark the occasion for a bit of fun...

I'm chilling in a bath too with a rose wine.
My aunt has kids tonight so long soak for me and early night with a book.

I have everything crossed for BFP around Valentine's Day for us all.
Sprinkling baby dust for us all.

@Minster2012 enjoy your bath and cider.
Xxx

@Birdladybird hope your transfer went ok and your home resting up xx

@Juno231 glad your at least getting a phone consultation.

@Franklydear good on you for standing your ground with boss boy he sounds like a right jumped up ......
Glad you had a nice relaxing day to yourself.
Xxx

@Minster2012 thanks! Yes all was really good, measuring a whole week ahead 🧐 so am currently 13w 3d and due date is 27th July. Baby wouldn't behave so they struggled to get pics; they even told me to get a refund for the photos voucher 😂😂
How are you feeling now you're on the drug cocktail? Sorry if you've said but I have had to skim read a bit to catch up!

Promise to catch up properly later lovely ladies..ok maybe tomorrow actually because I didn't sleep well last night so I'm pooped!!

X

@Justanothercyster good news!
@Juno231 ridiculous people! No wonder the nhs have no money. Why post one letter, when you can post 2? 🙄 Imagine they did that to everyone as well? Crisis averted though! At least it's still happening.
@Minster2012 yeah horny normally means AF is coming!

@paintfairy have everything crossed for you lovely.

@2020mission yay to the peak Opk have a great weekend 🤞🤞🤞

I got a high (flashing smiley) on my clearblue which is early for me I don't usually ovulate until cd 15/16/17 I'm only on cd 8 not sure if I'm going to ovulate early this month, I'm horny which always means ovulation is around the corner so will start DTD tonight I think.

Have a great weekend everybody.

Sorry if I missed anybody out I'm rubbish at remembering the usernames but I am reading and with you all xxx

Yesss to lots of Valentine's Day BFPs then @2020mission too! And good on the opk so that's covered yes!

@bez91 love that, I have one stashed upstairs I think I need to check adding that to list but pretty sure, we usually do some sort of stupid /filthy card too

@Justanothercyster that sounds absolutely perfect!!

AIBU to tonight get sex & child out of the way early so I can watch MAFS???
Hmmmmm