wearing pjs all day long, making money from our thong, tww driving us crazy, all this s**t to make a baby! TTC bus 29

[Minster2012]

TTC bus 29...
Oh my goodness to say we are a chatty group is an understatement most times but that’s great cos it’s not all about TTC here, anything goes, we now have a bus with a beautiful panoramic roof seat so a few ppl can pop up on top heads up and out into wind to gulp in the non TTC air but still hold on to us & know where we are...like our pups that come with us with ears flapping in the wind our beloved ladies may have one flap flying in the wind...”watch out for the left outer flap”...someone once shouted to their OH...that might set the tone here nicely.

Get it?! No?! Sometimes nor do we...🙄the chat, the deed, the sperm, the egg, the fact that we aren’t pregnant yet after shagging twelfty millions times a month forever. But we are here for each other, to chat shit, to help each other out the pits or wallow within the pits, for all the highs and lows.

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs

6 BFPs for jan...who is next??

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@Minster2012 definitely! I didn't even think of that being a solution!

@Justanothercyster Hmm do you like fish?? The last two 3 course meals we've had we've had fish cakes for starters or mussels, or you could do S&p chicken wings, black pudding stacks, for main I don't think you can go wrong with steak or pie, and dessert I usually do cheese cake but I've been trying to venture out with my baking recently and been looking on janes patisserie at recipes recently, I'd deffo recommend looking on there!!x

@blodyn91 that's like us! I've been living here for 2 years now but ready to buy so we want to buy the next one together, the only thing is we aren't selling this one we're renting it out so don't think we'd be able to do exactly what you've done, but I'll definitely speak to him about doing it over the phone with the bank!! Thankyou x

@notyetamumbuttrying that sounds lovely!! Definitely spoiling him!! Yess save the outfit for valentines, maybe just get some nice new underwear for his birthday? And that can be like the lead up to the outfit😂

@Leah2501 congratulations!!

@Katao so sorry af showed for you this morning! Exactly the same here, she showed up bright and early, bright red, heavy and sore like always! I feel okay about it, I kinda told myself I was out the other day! Sorry you feel so shit, take some time and rest, indulge in chocolate and wine, sending hugs❤️

@Vil10 aw sorry lovey! I hoped you would get a happier ending. Same , really bad cramps first thing this morning and bright red so no doubting it now 😥 I'll be fine, just need to hibernate for a couple of days and then I can get my head back in the game. Hope you are ok and hopefully you will get good news on the house front to cheer you up

@blodyn91 I had an student midwife in my son's labour, it was fantastic, we were never left alone and when things went wrong, help got there within seconds, nothing to worry, ds was fine in the end
@Vil10 good mortgage advice there

Periods definitely on it's way 😢😢 I don't get cramps like some people, I just get this dull ache before it comes. At least if I had cramps there would still be a chance, but this is just my classic ache that I get every month, right on cue about 5 days before my period. Sigh. Hoping I hear if we've got the house next week to take my mind off ttc. x

@Leah2501 congrats ! How long were you trying for? xxxx

Hello ladies, i've not posted since EC as i was a bit disheartened about the amount of eggs and i didn't want to think about it.

My transfer is at 2.15pm. So far i have heard nothing from the clinic to cancel so i'm taking it that at least one of my 4 eggs has made it to day 3. I've been obsessing this morning and the time times they called to cancel at 9.20am and 8.45am. The fact its now 10.30am i am taking as a good sign. In France they don't ring to update on how they are doing, i'll just find out when i arrive. Leaving at 12 as clinic is 90 minutes away from us and there is always traffic. I'm so blooming nervous.
Sorry for not replying to anyone on here, i hope you are all ok, i just couldn't bring myself to read anything as my mind has been going crazy! Hopefully the next time I message i'll have an embryo on board!

@Katao @Vil10 sorry about AF arriving. Pants. 😔
@Vil10 it would have to be a lot of drinks! So I didn't know my name. 🤣
@Justanothercyster equally fussy over here! 😁 We've done the cook in thing before but it's not even novel, now you can't go out! 🤣 We actually went out for valentines last year but that's the first time ever. Usually we do stay in. Dunno if I can be bothered to cook. Suppose I ought to think about getting a card though!

@Katao oh no, I'll hold your hand if you hold mine... @Vil10, oh you too? Fw starting here and not feeling it, will need to do something to get my head back in the game, or maybe just skip a cycle,...
I have the day off and my first child free morning since November, cappuccino and Netflix, ...
I feel much better physically and I am glad I don't have to go to the office today, still a bit rattled a bit by this argument with bossboy, although I think I won, so I am glad I can be alone with my thoughts today, I'll do some housework eventually, DH said not to bother and just chill, as I hadn't had time for myself in so long

@Birdladybird omg best of luck for today!!

@Leah2501 congratulations!! What cycle was that for you?

@vil10 @katao has the witch struck you both?? What a hag, I'm so sorry ❤️

Loving all the mortgage chat on here atm! Our application is to change the mortgage on our flat to an interest only buy to let. If the valuation doesn't let us down then we'd be saving SO much money on swapping 😱.

@Leah2501 congrats
@Birdladybird how exciting! Good luck, we are all with you, best news I got all morning

Congrats @Leah2501!

I said I would wait until Feb 1/2 to test.... So why did I just do a test (in the evening) at like, maybe, 6DPO? WHY?

I knew I was just pissing money away by using a test but there were just sitting there and I couldn't stop myself.

@TTCAbroad I tested 2 days after af cos I had nausea, cramps and some spotting, meh... I'll buy some test to have at home, so I don't have to wait for delivery

@leah2501 yayyyyy congrats!!!!
@birdladybird how exciting, best of luck for today!

To those of you who have children already. When you were pregnant did you have to change your shower gel, deodorant shampoo etc because of nasty chemicals in it??? Just read about it and have no idea whether to try and find some new stuff or not to bother!

@Kirky658 my asthma nurse told me to not be silly when I came with questions like that, he's 10

Massive congratulations @Leah2501!

And even massiver good luck for today @Birdladybird!!

@franklydear 🤣 lol, love it, I wasn't sure if it was something everyone did when pregnant like went out and got all new expensive skincare, shower gel, shampoo etc!

Thanks everyone, was cycle 2.
I have a child already who I’m very lucky to have conceived with quickly.
AF is due tomorrow so just hoping to get past that point

@Leah2501 congratulations

@Birdladybird aww hope all goes well with the transfer hun.

@Vil10 oh yes!! I love one tree hill and I have the whole Brooke thing as in I have the red bow as well. So sorry to hear about AF though.

@Katao sorry to hear AF got you we are always here for support.

@Juno231 I hope all goes well with changing your mortgage.

Quick check in not read all but big congrats @Leah2501 🙌🏻❤️

Massive good luck @Birdladybird ❤️❤️❤️❤️

And @Clairey844 for your scan

Will check back in a bit flying visit xxxx

Massive massive good luck to you @Birdladybird

👋🏼👋🏼 hi hi, just popping my head down to say hey. @Katao ffs I'm so sorry lovely, but don't sulk in the corner, it's much nicer sat on top in the fresh air with a wine xxx

@Vil10 I honestly thought this was your month and I'm so bloody sorry that bitch face arrived. Sperm met egg though for sure. Keep on keeping on my love xx

@Birdladybird everything crossed for you 💗

@Franklydear glad you had it out with boss dick.

@Minster2012 just hi 👋🏼 love ya

Speaking of houses, my reno house settled today and I suddenly got a big lump of coin in my bank account. So I suppose if OH pisses off tomorrow at least I won't be on the street 🤷🏼‍♀️.
Going to drink a butt load of champagne right about now.

Xx

@Skip86 bossdick, I like it, well have to wait and see what happens but I have him a good hiding
What's happening with DH? Any progress?

@Katao I was the same! That's completely understandable, isn't it rubbish how a shit cycle can make you feel! Hope you feel better in a few days❤️

@Birdladybird best of luck for today!!🤞🏼

@Franklydear hand hold! Take the time out if you need to, it might be just what you need! Glad you're feeling better and you have the morning off to chill on your own, make the most of it!

@paintfairy hahaha well that sounds doable??😂

@Juno231 she is a total cow!! But we move, cycle 10 here I come x

@Florence13 omggg I'm jealous!! I deffo want to do a Brooke Davis one day!!

@Skip86 I was a bit gutted the other day but I'm okay now, accepted it and exactly, at least we know something is happening, maybe it was just a warm up🤞🏼 yesss girl, you go and celebrate that coin!! Is anything better with you and DH? Hope you're okay xx

Vegetarians, help, I want a healthy lunch, I have courgette, leek, carrots and green beans, what do I make? I have cheddar and parmesan, no mozzarella