wearing pjs all day long, making money from our thong, tww driving us crazy, all this s**t to make a baby! TTC bus 29

[Minster2012]

TTC bus 29...
Oh my goodness to say we are a chatty group is an understatement most times but that’s great cos it’s not all about TTC here, anything goes, we now have a bus with a beautiful panoramic roof seat so a few ppl can pop up on top heads up and out into wind to gulp in the non TTC air but still hold on to us & know where we are...like our pups that come with us with ears flapping in the wind our beloved ladies may have one flap flying in the wind...”watch out for the left outer flap”...someone once shouted to their OH...that might set the tone here nicely.

Get it?! No?! Sometimes nor do we...🙄the chat, the deed, the sperm, the egg, the fact that we aren’t pregnant yet after shagging twelfty millions times a month forever. But we are here for each other, to chat shit, to help each other out the pits or wallow within the pits, for all the highs and lows.

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs

6 BFPs for jan...who is next??

@Kirky658 &
@Gem176 the latest

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@Vil10 I'm so sorry lovely, sending a massive hug your way ❤️

@Kirky658 omg. This month I've been angry since ovulation! 🙈 Sometimes that does happen. Not good. @Juno231 @Gem176 maybe varying is normal then? I found it strange i had such a run of nothingness.

Good news- I've had flowers delivered from DH. 💐 Posh ones too. As I'd previously moaned they were always from the supermarket (when I say always, I mean like the twice I've had them). 🤣 Oh and I've finally dragged the car to the garage.

@Vil10 I am so sorry, we can hug each other today,

school called to see if ds will attend online class, ill and for one day? no, thanks, you can have him back tomorrow, setting everything up in 15 min? nope, not doing that, we are busy watching cartoons and eating pizza, also dh will still come early from work, not changing it for one day, so we’re winning, we both feel better too, chocolate has medicinal qualities, don’t you know?

@Vil10 so gutted for you, how cruel. Sending all the love xxxxxxxx

@Vil10 do you have a short LP? Or just ovulated earlier than you thought? I'm sorry. Have an evening pampering yourself x

@Katao @Sausage1990 @Dollybird89 @Gem176 @Franklydear @Clairey844 @paintfairy Thankyou girls!! I had a cry, nipped to Tesco for a few bits and ended up coming out with some malteaser bunnies, jam doughnuts, current tea cakes and some brownie bites😂 OH is going to come in from work and I'll be surrounded by wrappers!! I feel okay, just got to keep thinking there's people a lot worse off! Thankyou for your messages❤️

@Franklydear your day with DS definitely sounds better than him doing online learning! Glad to hear you're both feeling better too!

@paintfairy i think my LP is normal, today is the 11th day, ovulated on the 9th, I think I just ovulated early because I wasn't expecting it at all but got ewcm so did an opk and got my peak!x

@vil10. So sorry honey. Sounds like you are spoiling yourself though well done. Xx

@Vil10 and better than me suffering bossboy’s moods and the ignorant public with their essential ASOS return or the letter in my bag instead of the postbox, yes stamped and all, just touch this please.... about the wrappers... just hide the evidence!

Nourish to flourish 🙌🏼🙌🏼 @Sausage1990

Happy birthday @paintfairy !! 🥳🥳

@Gem176 so pleased you remember my nipplegasms 😂 a skill I am quite proud of.

@Vil10 I see that little sucker of a line! 🤞🏼🤞🏼 for a darker one in a few days!!

Have been having a bit of a shit few days (you know, the whole husbands wants to leave me thing), hence hangin our up here on top. @DKDK123 pass the wine daring, and @Franklydear did you stop for popcorn?

Xx

@Vil10 I ovulated on the 9th too, but my AF won't come until Sunday. That's why I was asking......
I'm glad you've bought some junk food. 🤣 They do say it's the worst thing you can eat (sugar) with AF but I can honestly say- i do it every time! Always makes me feel better. 😆

@Skip86 sweet or salted? What goes better with white wine?

@Vil10 wrappers what wrappers I see no wrappers?? No chocolate here either oh no, not REALLY dirty worktops. Yep. Disgusting I know. Heathen. Me yep. What a fucker AF witch. Sane fucking day as a test. Always the way. Bitch. Massive hugs.

@Franklydear chocolate def medicinal. Everyone knows that.

@Pleasebemyyearforababy hello welcome! I'm doing a frozen IVF transfer in the next few weeks and don't fully understand IUI but know a little bit about it as my son was carried by my best friend as a surrogate for us so I learnt a bit from the surrogacy world, it depends if they are looking to go straight away from day one of your next cycle but if so then usually you would call day one & get your stim meds to start taking day 2 then start going in for scans from around a week or so later depending on the clinic

By the way boosts have SHRUNK
Massively
And @Skip86 @Franklydear the best popcorn is the mixed one...sweet n salty

Phewww just caught up ladies...

@paintfairy happy birthday 🥳

@InkyPaper love the weird dreams, little polystyrene balls - how random! I had one last night, I dreamt my DH took up smoking (he's never smoked) woke up genuinely pissed off at him this morning because in the dream he told me he didn't give a fu*k what I made of it 😆

@Vil10 you enjoy that sugar, sending hugs

I'm 7dpo-ish today, it dawned on me that last 2 BFPs which ended in MC I had at least one nosebleed in the TWW. I had them throughout my pregnancy with DD1. Apparently can be common with increased blood flow as remember asking the midwife last time 🤷‍♀️. So basically hoping for a nosebleed in the next week to give me a sign 🙈

@Kirky658 I think it's definitely the only way forward when you feel like this!!x

@Franklydear that definitely sounds better than the day you could've had!! People don't think do they, I've hidden them already, he won't ever know!!

@Skip86 unfortunately af arrived a few hours after the test, typical!! How're you getting on?x

@paintfairy this is the first time af will have arrived on the 11th day, it's only been 27 days this cycle, which I know is still normal but not sure whether 11 days lp is?? Omgg I literally read that the other week and was shocked because having chocolate always makes me feel better😂

@Minster2012 the wrapper evidence has been disposed of!! Af is the spawn of Satan, don't even care, she is!! Love a good boost, and boost minis in the bag, they're amazing!!

@bez91 Thankyou!! 🤞🏼 for a downpour of blood from your nose!!

@Skip86 thanks 😊
@Vil10 no- a correct lp is 14 days, which is why I asked. You might have just ovulated before you thought you did though? But if you genuinely have 11 day LPs, then you'd be better going to the dr sooner rather than later?

@paintfairy oh okay, I've always read that it could be 11-17 days and 12-14 is what most women have, my last cycle was 14 and the few before that were 13, could be having an off cycle but maybe I ring the doctors anyway and see what they think

@paintfairy I got a peak, pains and ewcm and my dip in rhr on the 9th, probably will ring the doctors

@Pleasebemyyearforababy I'm sorry but can you explain a few anachronyms for me because I feel like an old lady 😂 what is nc and smbc? I'm not that clued up on iui sorry x

@Vil10 sorry love 💜

@Vil10 it might be ok, but just worth keeping an eye on. In case it is a problem for you later x

@paintfairy i think 14day LP is more of and average not the correct lenght. @Vil10 agree with 11-17 days neing within normal range from my research.

@Vil10 aww I'm so sorry lovely, big hugs for you x

@bez91 😂 I've had dreams like that before! DH just laughs at me and says he's not going to apologise for the random crap he does in my dreams 😂

@Kirky658 hope the cramps ease off for you soon

@Skip86 sorry to hear you're still going through a super stressful time, big hugs for you ♥️

@bez91 ah yes I had a nosebleed in my Sep cycle and got sooo excited as I've never had on in my life and I was like 10DPO or something so was convinced I was finally getting my BFP! I'm still here though but I'm glad you're validating that I wasn't crazy for jumping to that conclusion! Fingers crossed your schnozzer bleeds

@vil10 I'm so sorry! Big hugs to you and I hope OH takes good care of you

@Justanothercyster @InkyPaper Thankyou girls❤️

@paintfairy @Katao I might be completely wrong but I just thought that was like an average, but it is something to keep an eye on just in case, there's no harm in ringing the dr xx

@Juno231 Thankyou!! I didn't even tell him I was testing because I wanted it to be a surprise, and there was no point in messaging him today because where he works he gets hardly no service so just going to tell him when he comes home and let him give me some tlc then😂x

Oh @Vil10 so sorry, definitely just take some time to be sad and get all the chocolate down you ❤️❤️❤️

DH went to the shop earlier for milk and bought me back no treats whatsoever! Outraged, surely he should know that if you're going for milk you may as well buy me at least one Kinder Bueno.
Found a random bag of vegan maltesers in a drawer so ate them instead.

Our outside drain is full due to a blockage somewhere in the local area... Reported it 3 days ago and still not fixed. Our utility/cloakroom stink of shit 😖🤢