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wearing pjs all day long, making money from our thong, tww driving us crazy, all this s**t to make a baby! TTC bus 29

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Minster2012 · 17/01/2021 17:22

TTC bus 29...
Oh my goodness to say we are a chatty group is an understatement most times but that’s great cos it’s not all about TTC here, anything goes, we now have a bus with a beautiful panoramic roof seat so a few ppl can pop up on top heads up and out into wind to gulp in the non TTC air but still hold on to us & know where we are...like our pups that come with us with ears flapping in the wind our beloved ladies may have one flap flying in the wind...”watch out for the left outer flap”...someone once shouted to their OH...that might set the tone here nicely.

Get it?! No?! Sometimes nor do we...🙄the chat, the deed, the sperm, the egg, the fact that we aren’t pregnant yet after shagging twelfty millions times a month forever. But we are here for each other, to chat shit, to help each other out the pits or wallow within the pits, for all the highs and lows.

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs

6 BFPs for jan...who is next??

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blackcurrantqueen · 20/01/2021 15:31

@Vil10 I'm so sorry lovely 🥰🥰🥰
Thinking of you. Horrible AF 😡

paintfairy · 20/01/2021 15:32

@Katao 14 is what they use as standard but yes it can vary. I think for successful implantation it needs to be 11dpo onwards. I start spotting around day 10 or 11 (even though LP is 14) and that's not ideal. But if @Vil10 only has an 11 day LP and spots for 3 days leading up to that, then really I wouldn't think that ideal for her? That was my thinking......

Juno231 · 20/01/2021 15:41

I second @paintfairy , it's not ideal to be spotting 2-3 days before AF if your LP already is on the 11 day side of things. It tends to imply progesterone problems and might need some medical boosts to ensure proper implantation. Saying that you still see plenty of ladies getting their BFPs despite it - it's just worth bearing in mind if nothing is happening.

Vil10 · 20/01/2021 15:56

@BlondePotter Thankyou!! How rude of DH to not get you any snacks!! I always say to OH if I say I don't want anything do not listen to me, always bring back chocolate!! Ohhh what a shitter on the drain front!!

@blackcurrantqueen Thankyou❤️

@paintfairy @Juno231 I spotted yesterday at 10dpo, just looked back on all my cycles since coming off the pill and I've always started on either 13 or 14dpo apart from September was 11 and this month 11, I had blood tests in June and progesterone was one of them and the dr said it was fine, I'll keep logging it and try and ring the dr this week

Kirky658 · 20/01/2021 16:02

@blondepotter vegan maltesers!? How dare he not get you a bueno. Also the drain situation sounds shit (no pun intended)

Minster2012 · 20/01/2021 16:09

@BlondePotter 😝🤣love that comment, my DH would bring HIS fave sweets back and none for me. Selfish bastard! Bloody drain, we are having water issues in my village too

@Skip86 you know we got your (Lego) back darling, I was so hoping after the amazing sex the other day things were gonna magically get better 🤨

Soooo little motivation right now, digs dnoring beside me. Health and safety boring. 🥱🥱is it Friday yet??

@Vil10 did AF & LP any word on dream house?? 🏡

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Franklydear · 20/01/2021 16:16

Bonus of calling in sick, watching Kamala Harris being sworn in office

Vil10 · 20/01/2021 16:31

@Minster2012 the estate agents have rang to say anyone's put an offer in and they said they would so that's good!! We have our meeting tomorrow with the mortgage advisor🤞🏼

OH came home and after having a bad day himself (see pics no.1 and 2) I told him about the faint test and then af arriving and he just hugged me and said it'll happen when it's meant to be, put my "period pyjamas" on the radiator for me, basically really soft and comfy pyjamas he got me, told me to go and chill upstairs, then brought me up a brew, a toasted current tea cake and the book he got me that I've been meaning to start since Christmas!! He really is a star, couldn't do any of this without him!!

Vil10 · 20/01/2021 16:31

@Minster2012 sorry I meant the estate agents haven't rang to say someone's put an offer in😂

DKDK123 · 20/01/2021 16:33

@skip86, I won't pass you a glass I'll just hand you the whole bottle, seems like you need it. Any more interaction with DH? (And the d only stands for darling when hes being nice, any other time it's dickhead 😉)

@Vil10 the AF showing up after this morning is shit. So annoyed for you, do you want a glass of our wine passed downstairs to you, red, white, rose we have them all! Tho sounds like you're in good hands at home, what a sweetie he is.

@bez91, keeping everything crossed that there is no foof bleedage but plenty of nose ones 😂🤞

Minster2012 · 20/01/2021 16:38

Bloody hell @Vil10 I think your OH wins "darling OH" of the month ❤️as if putting your pjs on the radiator!! Def get that house bought with him. Winning. And he's right!

@DKDK123 @Skip86 sounds lush up there, send a bit of long straw down to the driver eh?!

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paintfairy · 20/01/2021 16:42

@Minster2012 agree! No way would my DH have any clue to do that @Vil10 🤣 Definitely gold star there. Fingers crossed for the house.
Thankfully the weather here hasn't been as wet as forecast so far. Its not nice but I'm not swimming yet. And did the horses without getting drenched. Bonus.

BlondePotter · 20/01/2021 16:43

@Vil10 😭😭😭 that's lovely, he is a star 🙌

@Kirky658 they're by Doisy and Dam and they are dark chocolate but they filled a chocolate shaped hole!

DKDK123 · 20/01/2021 16:49

@Minster2012 we'll get you one of those beer holder hats with the straw and sit a wine glass on each side that way you're still hands free to drive the bus. Don't worry about getting drunk ans swerving all over the place as we all know the ttc journey is most definitely not a straight road! 😂

Kirky658 · 20/01/2021 16:49

@vil10 omg that made my cry, your DH is the cutest, get that house bought

Florence13 · 20/01/2021 17:12

@Vil10 so sorry AF appeared but really glad your OH is looking after you well.

@BlondePotter I would be fuming with the no treats but I also hope you get your drains sorted soon.

@bez91 also hoping you get the nose bleed if that’s the indicator.

@paintfairy glad you managed to get the horses done without getting drenched.

Vil10 · 20/01/2021 17:29

@DKDK123 oooo I'd like a bottle of red with a straw if possible please?? He is a love!

@Minster2012 he can be cute sometimes! He's always put my pyjamas on the radiator since I've met him😂 if I'm ill or cold or had a bad day he'll put socks and pyjamas on the radiator, bless him! I'm excited for the meeting tomorrow, making sure we have everything that we need now, making sure I'm organised!

@paintfairy hahaha he's not a very emotional person very much "I'm a man so I shouldn't show emotion" kinda guy🙄 so he doesn't really know what to say when I'm upset so he does little things like this, which I think I prefer! Glad you didn't get drenched doing the horses!! It's pissing it down here, and supposed to be for the next few days!

@BlondePotter @Florence13 @Kirky658 he really is a star!! Deffo getting that house, one way or another!!

Minster2012 · 20/01/2021 17:34

@Vil10 definite keeper sounds brilliant so cute! And necessary in a hurricane!! Exciting for meeting and yay for no offers maybe £5k less then??

@DKDK123 yes you are right sounds perfect bought the straw & not straight road! Brilliant!

Well that was a turnup for the books...DH came home early after a work crisis to WFH, I'm defloofing & getting in bath, he hops in, hijacks my bath, we have steamy sex, can't finish inside me cos no condom & infection risks but we hop out & end up having sex on landing on towel & pull out...pretty sure I've just got the biggest head rush & that's an area of the house we haven't consummated 🙌🏻

Right off to get DS!! 😝

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Florence13 · 20/01/2021 17:58

@Minster2012 get in there girl!! That sounds like a right good session.

@Vil10 aww hope everything goes well with your meeting tomorrow and you get that house!

blodyn91 · 20/01/2021 18:00

@Vil10 also feeling emotional for you 😫 your OH!! But my LP was 11 days, so don't stress if that's the case with you, say if you start spotting at 11dpo.

@lucyrp @Kirky658 Oh no my heart rate goes higher walking than on an easy turbo bike ride! No hills on an indoor trainer. I also had to stop running at 19 weeks because of pelvic pain 😫 HR would definitely be 180 running!!

Pleasebemyyearforababy · 20/01/2021 18:01

@Justanothercyster Sorry.
Smbc - Solo Mum by choice (I'm planning to have a baby without a partner) and Nc - Name changed Smile

Kirky658 · 20/01/2021 18:06

@minster2012 woohooo get you guys!!!

@blodyn91 ahhhh I see! My hr when walking is higher than normal about 120bpm. The having to run so much bloody slower is killing me tho 🤣

notyetamumbuttrying · 20/01/2021 18:27

Hey just checking in for a whistle stop catch up! Hope you're all well to those I've missed 😘

@paintfairy happy birthday 🥳 hope you've had a nice day?! Just seen you got flowers, lovely ☺️
@Franklydear glad you're feeling better lovely x
@Minster2012 I'm watching MAFSA too!! Don't get me started on ines argh!! And lol @Katao Michael is defo a robot 🤖 and Matt! Matt needs to chill with the blinking, poor bloke 😂
@Vil10 I can see a v v faint line too!! Just seen your follow up, what a shame AF arrived. Are you sure it's proper AF? How cute is your OH 🥰
@Kirky658 I'm glad you're feeling better now too x
@Pleasebemyyearforababy welcome! My sister is planning on doing this too but she's not on MN, I don't think 🤔 so guessing she's not you 😂
@Minster2012 your steamy sex sounds so hot!!

Minster2012 · 20/01/2021 18:32

[quote BlondePotter]@Vil10 😭😭😭 that's lovely, he is a star 🙌

@Kirky658 they're by Doisy and Dam and they are dark chocolate but they filled a chocolate shaped hole![/quote]
Hiiiiiiii

Just popped back to say did NO ONE SPOT @BlondePotter saying CHOCOLATE SHAPED HOLE?????

COME ON LADIES 😹

Ha ha yes but got back and DH is still all "well that's my exercise done for today & he's still whinging of a head rush, and NOT a penis head rush!"

@Pleasebemyyearforababy I think I replied earlier I don't know masses but know some have your clinic not given much indication? Are you gonna be taking stimulation for your cycle too? So should start day 2 of your cycle

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BlondePotter · 20/01/2021 18:38

Thanks @Minster2012 - PSA I would like to confirm that all said maltesers went in my mouth, and no other orifice

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