Bus 22- TTC Nov/Dec with boobgasms, cl*t-ticklers, b*tt plugs & a learner driver

[Minster2012]

Bus 22- TTC Nov/Dec with boobgasms, cl*t-ticklers, threesomes, butt plugs & a learner driver

Jump aboard the longest bus route in history- we’ve been riding the bus since April...it’s a bumpy, humpy, sex toy filled road where we support each other to the hilt on this bloody hard journey whilst our bodies play f*ck boy & AF keeps spoiling the party...a sense of humour & no judgment required & NOTHING is off limits or TMI....

Put on your seatbelt cos we’ve got a learner driver at the wheel & I’m in it for the long haul 🥰❤️

JUNE 24 BFPs
JULY 11 BFPs
AUG 18 BFPs
SEP 4 BFPs
OCT 7 BFPs

November so far:
4 BFPs

Testing dates we’ve got down

@missgoldilocks - Nov 20th
@cinderella2020 - Nov 20th
@2020mission - Nov 19th
@Djmum83 - Nov 19th/20th but PAIS addict in da house!
@vil10 - Nov 20th-23rd depending on will power
@kirky658 - Nov 21st
@franklydear - Nov 21st
@missgoldilocks - Nov 21st
@juno231 - Nov 22nd
@notyetamumbuttrying - Nov 22nd when not reading AIBU threads 🤪
@nestinginNL - Nov 23rd
@clairey844 - Nov 27th
@mrsbear1122 - Nov 28th
@2alreadywantanother - Nov 30th
@smushty14 - dec 1st
@chlo2701 - Dec 1st
@joanna1990
@paintfairy - dec 1st
@katao Dec 4th
@hopeful110 - Dec 12th

The naughty crew at the back
@gem176 - “sometime in Dec” 😆
@inkypaper
@sausage1990
@lucyrp - her body’s a f*ck boy so anyone’s guess!
@minster2012 - feb 14th

The dodgy looking voyeur you aren’t sure about sitting next to...
@skip1986

Not sure on dates or if they are hopping on for the ride but I need to get this thread up!
@florence13 - lovely lurker
@bellsb1
@ahobbyaweek
@amy00 - we’ve got your back 😘
@amy2503
@clolo
@dollybird89
@markygirl1995
@newbie0818
@pebbleinthesand
@adogisforlife91

Anyone I've forgotten I'm sorry, I'm only learning we will learn together ❤️

@Franklydear @Katao no worries here at all, it's bloody exciting. I'm pretty sure if my ov date as i want to Dtd all the time in the run up and then can't be arsed afterwards lol and my cycles fit the timing and changes in fluid etc etc. I'm going to trrry and wait until Tuesday but may cave Monday

@vil10 @minster2012 @Franklydear I'm due to test tomorrow but I'll only be 11dpo so not sure if I should 🙊

Thank you all! I'm wishing you all the luck in the world xx

I just wanted to say I felt like every other rmonth. I was having period pains the few days before like normal, my cm was normal and my cervix was low and hard as if af was gonna come. This morning when I weed I felt the cervix and it felt. Kind of mushy and that's when I was like hold up let me do a test!! Right now I'm not getting period pains more like heavy feeling and stabbing pains on and off on the right and left. I was so sure af was gonna come but last night the craving for milkshake really made me go hummm?? Because that's a very pregnancy craving for me lol

@KateColx can you give me the title for bus please because my mumsnet is silly and doesn't show me new thread tags x

@Juno231 fingers crossed if you do, or whatever day it will be, I don’t like to see the bfn, but if you don’t mind....

Just wondering if anyone has experienced implantation bleeding? Or wether my uti has just messed with me thus month.. really confused and worried

@Lmac2018 I did in my first pregnancy, in fact I mistook it for a period, only found out when the measurement in the scan didn’t fit my dates, labour came at 41 weeks, so it obviously was.

@Lmac2018 I'm also experiencing spotting the last 2 days, Googled and some sites/forums say you can possibly test 3-4 days after spotting if it is implantation bleeding...but I think I'm going to hold off until Thurs when my AF is due. Had a CP last cycle...so just don't want to test too early if it is another one

@Mrsbear1122 when I had that spotting in august that never became a period that was what the doctor told me, test 4 days after spotting finished, I guess I didn’t ovulate that month, it was only when wiping and not everyday for 6 days

@Franklydear this spotting is getting my hopes high as I never had spotting before. I did opks and bbt this cycle and I believe I did ovulate, altho my temps are not as high as my last cycle, but then I'm not sure if that is a good or bad thing as last cycle ended in a CP...just slightly optimistic, but then I don't know if the CP messed up my hormonal levels and possibly caused this spotting as well...will know by next weekend! Which feels like a long wait 😅

I'm having a wee MN break again now that AF is here. I've reached a year TTC and feeling quite fed up so think a short break is a good idea. I've got no children and I'm now almost 33 years old so any fertility I might have will be drastically dropping now.

You'll probably be on a new bus before I'm back, please do tag me so I can catch up 👍🏼 best of luck to anyone else testing in the coming week!

@Mrsbear1122 I know, I hate it, as I had implantation bleeding before every month was this is it, guess what I didn’t spot this time.... the waiting is bad, I don’t like to test early so always feel like tww and then another week to test, for ever...

@2020mission hope the breaks does you good, to put things in perspective I had the first one at 32 and I am now 43,

I will probably try to stay offline tomorrow, this last week with the testing, the illness, the being off and the insomnia, has been quite insane, and as everyone is home tomorrow, it’ll be a nice home day.

@Missgoldilocks This is our latest MN bus although since we've made the fb group it's extremely quiet as most people are now on there! I've attached the name and cover photo for the fb group, it'll just ask you for your MN username when you click join ❤️

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/4044715-summer-20-grads-part-iv

Any other BFPs past, present or future obviously welcome to join too 🥰

@Newbie0818 it could always happen, I personally would never stop believing but that's just my mindset & even now I was stupidly disappointed when my test this week was negative but that's the way my head works. If it's easiest for you to think the other way round & continue to DTD when you want then yeah do that as you've got the fertility tests coming through anyway so just take the pressure off & enjoy Xmas as much as possible as someone else said, have fun, drink, eat & just shag! 🥰

@Chlo2701 trust me, I've been thrown up on so many times by my child, shat on & weed on by my child, I've pissed myself through drinking too much & been undressed by hubby (in lockdown after miscarriage when I started bleeding AGAIN as I was meant to start FW) & we were allowed to see ppl outside so I went down the road to my friends & we sat outside & drank wine all afternoon to drown my sorrows 😂🤣, last year he did the same AND threw up on me AND down our wall AND carpet our life is DEF not an advert but it's real life, it's fun, it's supportive & we have a good time! You are the same age as me I didn't know that! So I guess you would have ovulated usually by now....hmmm that's really weird 🤔, have you been DTD though regularly in case?

@AHobbyaweek that sock is FANTASTIC!! I only have pixie feet btw, what size is it?? And it could always be a really small stocking?? A decorative one?? An AF can last only 2 days but maybe you should test

@Smushty14 oooo when is your birthday???

@Katao alll the best intentions...least your first thought was "must temp" but it seems to be working so keep going!

@Franklydear is it your birthday?

@Florence13 sorry I'm a bad influence. For so many reasons. I also have a g&t already. Oops. It's DH's birthday celebration night after all.

@Vil10 oh yeah I usually do the tree myself with wine. Specific ally mulled wine. And Christmas tunes. In fact there's a lot I do myself with wine. Shit. Maybe i need help?? Nahhhhh, we drink Friday/sat/and a glass or two Sunday (me usually not always DH as he often has to drive for work Monday) that's fine right?? 😬

@MushroomQueen another tester soon!! So exciting! Hopefully after @Juno231 too we can keep up this amazing run! You said you are TTC #3 was it? So you are 8/9 dpo now? How are you feeling? Do you have boys/girls/both?

@Lmac2018 & @Mrsbear1122 spotting gets you so fucked up in the head

Gosh we are so far on this bus already it's crazy!!

@2020mission don't worry lovely I will do better in tagging you in the new bus and enjoy your break, it's totally understandable and as someone older (36.5) I get it & also worried my age has impacted my miscarriage & bfn. Sending you lots of love & hugs xxx

So for DHs birthday today we went to our local market where the food stalls are still on, it was so nice to "get out" for me especially & almost like eating out! We've picked up lots of "picky bits" like olives, hams, bread for tea tonight & now have the fire on having watched the rugby. Was almost civilised despite Covid 🥰

@Minster2012 is dh birthday

Can I jump on the bus please? Was planning to start ttc next month but forgot the condom this morning and am due to ovulate tomorrow so looks like I've started my ttc journey .

Picky bits are the best! Was supposed to be going to the farmers market tomorrow to gouge on unpasteurised cheese, before it was too late, but better not now!

@notyetamumbuttrying eek vag pain is awful! I just get killer cramps on and off, though it's been way better since I came off the pill.
Well we're waiting on fertility referral but if we had the £ we would do ivf 100%. If that's an option they give us well jump at it! I just hope I don't have endo as well as pcos 😫

@Minster2012 thanks lovely x

@Minster2012 Saturday 28th!

That sounds like a lovely day for your DH. I must admit I never thought I would end up with a lockdown birthday but I'm sure I will have a great day anyway.

Another DH birthday @Franklydear they are spreading!

@NotMeekNotObedient hello & welcome! And what a way to start your journey! I think You can still have soft cheese until you know you are pregnant, though of course it's entirely your choice but until an egg is fertilised it's no different so you might as well enjoy it whilst you can 😄but then again we do have a saying for drink til it's pink 😋

@Minster2012 My DD is 5 and it won't go on her foot so small stocking might be the way to go! My step mum does them for her cats so might offer it to them... I have already knitted a stocking for DD full size.

Already had two glass of wine this evening while making dinner. (Pork boa buns) but now just dipped a pregnancy test and OPK because my app told me I need to start testing for Lh baseline. Let's see what they say. Totally expecting -ve both.

@Vil10 I have great memories of putting up the tree with my mum with Christmas music and much laughter. I realise that she must have redone the tree when we were in bed as it never looked that good when we finished.

Can I board the bus please?

On month 5 of TTC for our second child (DD1 is 17 months). I got pregnant on the first attempt with DD, trying to be patient and remember it isn’t always that easy, but definitely starting to find it frustrating this time around. Currently on CD8.

Congratulations to those on here who got positive tests today!

@Minster2012 you are soooooo my kind of woman!😉 & not in the sexual way just because I've slept with a girl many moons ago 🤣🤣🤣 I'm currently on my 3rd g&t! I only drink Fri & Sat, with the occasional Sunday thrown in, that's ok right?!🤣 like we've all said for months... drink til it's pink!
Yep I think we are similar in age, like I said I'm 36 in jan & OH is 46 is jan, so don't really want to hang around TTC for much longer, but here I am still 18 months later with one MC along the way.
Me & OH been together for over 3 yrs now & ive decided I want one more🙏🏼 we've both got 2 kids each from previous relationships. Mine are 15 & 11, both boys, so I'm not gona lie, I'd love a girl 🙈
I'm CD18 & yep I've usually OV by now, normally CD16/17, but had blank circle on CB digital last 5days! So my body is being a fuck boy! Either I ovulated last wknd CD11(going by my RHR) which has never happened before! or I'm not gona ovulate this cycle or have a late OV🤷‍♀️ either way it's all shit🤣🤣🤣 if i OV last wknd I only DTD on day of OV. DTD last night & will DTD tonight & probs tomoz morning then I'm giving up for this month & will get AF a wk on tues!
I completely get that you felt disappointed at your BFN the day of your scans, even though you know it's highly unlikely you still have that little bit of hope! I'm staying on this bus with you lot for .... forever! Even though I may not comment as much as others I'm so invested in everyone's journeys, especially yours! & I fucking pray to god woman that this last embryo of yours is the lucky one!!🤞🏻 I can remember you saying before it came from your sons batch. Hate how I've just put that, but you know what I mean!
I wish I hadn't left it this long TTC again, but I was on my own for 7 years after being in a very abusive relationship. He's my youngest sons dad unfortunately! & I feel like I wasted soooo many years on him! But I didn't realise how toxic my relationship was until I'd came out of it if that makes sense. He damaged me meantally ALOT, & I'm still scarred now, which is why I think it took me 7 yrs to even entertain another relationship after him. I can't tell you how much I HATE him! I've had professional help now from a domestic abuse service & he is classed as a narcissistic psychopath with a personality disorder😫😫😫 I carry so much guilt with my son for having a father like that. He's pure poison trust me!!

@Ltay2 thank you! I've joined the Facebook group since I can't open links on mumsnet lol x

@Newbie0818 worse for me, I was on the 28 day pill so never got periods, the happy days 🙌🏾 😂
Good you've discussed what you will and won't do. What makes you think you have endo as well?