3/4dpo? - join me in the tww!

[Tempusfudgeit]

Hey everyone!

I'm either 3 or 4 dpo and looking to chat to others for the hpt countdown nightmare.

I feel like I've bought a lottery ticket. Excited, hopeful, but ready for a great big nope too 😀

@Mokoblack fingers crossed for you testing tomorrow 😘how are you feeling?

Also this is completely random I'm going crazy here not knowing what's going, but my dog has been very needy with me for the past few days, constantly wants to sit on my knee and snuggle me, she is normally really affectionate but yesterday and today have been on another level, she won't leave my side, I know dogs can sense illnesses, wondering if they can sense other things 🤔 either that or I've officially lost my marbles 😂

@Seasalt1984 I have gone crazy with it 😂 there's not 20 left now 😂
It's so hard not to over think everything isn't it, but it could have been implantation, most people don't get and bleeding or spotting with it!
Have they been like your normal AF cramps? I've had a few cramps here and there but they feel different 🤷🏻‍♀️
It's a good sign that she's hasn't shown up today then, I hope she stays away too!

Thanks @Ginini! You’re right, they were probably doing what they thought is best so I’ll just be taking a step back for a bit 😊

I’ve also heard the same, lots of people not getting BFP’s until due date or even after so don’t be disheartened! You’re still in the game and I’m hoping you’re gonna win 🎉😘

So he can came back with tests, and I couldn’t resist! 🎉

@mokoblack that's amazing, huge congrats!! 🥰 A lovely clear line too. Keeping everything crossed for you for a wonderful and smooth journey! xxx

@Mokoblack congrats!! How many dpo are you?

@Mokoblack congradulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!! Keeps us updated 🎉🎉🎉

@Ginini I had been having cramps since Friday, which is early for me to get period cramps.

@Seasalt1984 @Sohe thank you so much! Still have that feeling hoping af doesn’t show up.

@er106 thank you, today is 12 dpo, af is due on Thursday xx

Massive congrats @Mokoblack! Wishing you lots of health and happiness and a very safe 9 months xxx

@WicketBasket thank you ❤️.

I hope you’re ok with the family situation xx

Congratulations @Mokoblack! How exciting! That's a strong line! 🎉🎉 I'm 11DPO now and it's driving me crazy! I don't want to test until I'm late to be honest, I'd rather see a period than a negative 😔...
Can I ask if you got any symptoms at all? I know you said about cramping but was that it? Where abouts were the cramps? Xx

Thanks so much @Mokoblack 😊 Don’t you spend your time worrying about me! You concentrate on your amazing BFP 😂💕💕💕

@Mokoblack huge congratulations! 💐What a lovely clear line! ❤️❤️❤️

Congratulations @Mokoblack 🥳

@rttcbabyno1 thank you. I understand not wanting to test unless you’re late, makes it that little bit less disappointing. So it was literally just cramp around my lower back since Friday which was 8dpo. Fingers crossed for you!!

@Ginini @mineandyours @WicketBasket thank you lovelies xx

BFN at 12DPO this morning. Actually thought I could have had a chance this month 😞.
I didn't use a FRER, but I'm thinking my chances are very very small now.
I'm on day 40 now, feeling so fed up 😭 cycles have been SO long since ever my CP. Just wanting the next cycle to start now.
Good luck to everyone else who is left🤞🏻🤞🏻
Also I'm going to eat the BIGGEST cheese board this weekend if I come on with all the Camembert and Brie and everything else preggo ladies can't eat!! Also I'll have a drink for the first time in July, f*k it! Xx

@rttcbabyno1 sorry to hear that, those negative tests are so disappointing. At 12dpo you might still be in with a shot?? Some positives don't appear until a good few days later. Be kind to yourself...if it's definitely negative then cheese and wine sounds like a great treat to give yourself!! Sending love

Oh @rttcbabyno1 that's crappy But 12dpo is still early! Don't want to give you false hope though. I would have thought on an early detection test there would be something to see... what test did you use?

I tested this morning at 11dpo and bfn. Tested with Clearblue early detection test. There were no frer's in the Asda 😤 But anyway there was absolutely no line at all, not even a squinter.

I'm a little sad, we weren't actively trying and we couldn't really afford another DC to be honest, but I'm surprised by how sad I am about it all.

@rttcbabyno1 sorry to hear about your BFN! I got one this morning too, makes you feel rubbish doesn't it! AF 3 days late, so frustrating!
Thought I was in with a shot too, sending lots of love and hugs 🤗 xxx

Thank you @Seasalt1984 ❤️ it's just disheartening every month isn't it, but every new month feels like a clean slate, you start with positive thoughts and then by the end it all goes away unfortunately 😔 I have a tiny bit of hope left but honestly just trying to think about the next cycle now!

@mineandyours I had another wierd dream last night and I woke up and thought right that's it in just going to test lol. I know i said I'd wait on previous posts but just want to know now, I'm loosing patience. Yeah clue blue early detection was what I used too! It did say on the box only 50% accurate if testing before AF though.
Aww it sounds like you want another after all, and this has probably just made you realise! Will you try again or undecided? Xx

Oh I didn't know that @rttcbabyno1 about the test! Gives me a glimmer of hope then 🤞🏼😂
I think we'll leave TTC for a bit tbh, if we had another DC it would really strain our finances but maybe the door isn't quite closed and we might consider again in the future when we have a bit more security!

Aww @Ginini sorry about yours too, 3 days late aswell! That must have really got you thinking it was a yes too!! Don't give up yet, there's still a chance, although I'm feeling negatively and it's not likely the same as you. Maybe give it another day or so and test again? Are your cycles pretty regular too? Sending you love and hugs too 😘 xx

Hi Ladies, I hope you are well! I'm 13dpo today, period due tomorrow and another BFN for me this morning 😩 I have been researching like a mad woman and apparently the average day for a BFP is 13.5 dpo so don't count yourselves out just yet! ❤️

@Mokoblack I'm so pleased for you! Wish you all the best ✨

@rttcbabyno1 give this a read, might make you feel better! X www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/When-can-I-expect-a-positive-HPT-if-I-am-pregnant.html