Gilly, I meant to say yesterday, but my post was getting too long I love the name Violet, we are considering using it as a middle name, as it is a family name too. ? I had read about the celebs getting Zita?s help, most notably was Kate Winslet, I think she really struggled. Nice if you can afford one-to-one care from a guru You?ll have to let me know if you ?feel? any different after a while of taking them , the vits I mean
You really are wrangling with the work issue aren?t you? What does dh think? Did you say you were contracted where you are? So if you found something else, then you would have to wait until your contract was up? My advice (for what it is worth ) is that you shouldn?t make a decision based on what-ifs. Don?t stay where you are, or extend, just because of the potential maternity benefits. Like you said before, so long as you have bread on the table and roof over your head ? things will be ok. So, if you are not happy in your current job, then keep your eyes peeled for something else, if you happen to conceive early on in the new job, you will deal with it then (kinda what I am thinking with starting my new one ? theoretically I could be pregnant before I even get in place ) and if they want you then they will work with you. If not, you will work something out. Sorry I waffled on there didn?t I ? I hope you understand what I am saying, and I hope I haven?t overstepped the mark giving my opinions
Coggy pmsl at you thinking she said porn poms. It does look similar though, so will let you off
Hope the egg collection went well today Thinking of you
Herby, I?d say, always err on the safe side, whenever there is EWCM get busy Can?t hurt
Rah, I am sorry that you are so poorly, and that is has affected your IUI this month. Have to say I am pretty and that they don?t work weekends, I mean of all medical procedures, surely they must realise that fertility doesn?t work Monday to Friday. Tut. Hope you feel better soon. Fingers firmly crossed for next month
Rattling, sorry to hear that dh?s analysis, whilst better, was not as much of an improvement as hoped for, do you think you will have ICSI? Or has the consultant said IVF? How long would you have to wait if you couldn?t afford to fund yourselves? And I hope you don?t mind me being nosy, but how much does it cost privately? I really have let my IVF phobia prevent me from gaining any knowledge on the subject
Lottie, a good GP is worth their weight in gold, I was so gutted when we moved, and I have yet to register with the GP in my new area as I am just petrified I will be assigned to some dinosaur who scoffs at my temping charts
Hey Gilly and Lottie, I really want a bugaboo
Perkypopsy, good on you for standing firm and making the decision based on what you need and not what others think. I really hope that it kick starts things for you!
Everyone else ? big waves, and positive vibes for the rest of February ? here?s to snow, and a good excuse to snuggle up under the duvet