"Its been 84 years - anyone in the tww part 3"

[Annny27]

Hey girls, who'd have thought we would need another thread!

We welcome other long standers as we have all been ttc for quite while! (All of us about 18 months +)

With the greatest respect, if you are new to ttc, this isn't the thread for you as we are all angry and hormonal 😂😂

@gems7
@prettytulip
@missgoldilocks

Bfps who like to keep up:
@laur89

How are my OG ladies getting on @PrettyTulip @missgoldilocks @gems7

I am 4dpo now so in the tww again for like the 100th time 😑

@Annny27 hello my lovely xxx sorry to hear that :( I'm praying it'll happen soon for you, for all of you ❤️❤️ how are you coping with lockdown again? It's just abysmal really x

Its all just shit really @Missgoldilocks haha!

I feel my period is gonna start again as my boibs have shrunk a bit so I thjnk thats me onto month 20 overall and 14th since miscarriage!!!!! I CANNOT believe it

Have you told all your family now @missgoldilocks?

I miss @PrettyTulip and @gems7 💗💗

@Annny27 hello hello, I'm here 👋
Not been on much as this and the Covid situ is just depressing isn't it.

I'm still the same. Had some spotting that has now stopped that was only there when I had a bowel movement and then was only brown. I daren't take a PG test as I just know it will be negative 😔 hope you're okay x x

@PrettyTulip it must be so hard to have irregular periods as you never know if you could be pregnant!!

I think I would take a test every 2 months just to double check.

I am 11dpo today and normal pre AF symptoms for me :p

I'm here girls @Annny27 @Missgoldilocks @PrettyTulip 💕
I miss you girls. @Missgoldilocks I hope you are relaxing and that baby of yours is growing more and more every day. Have you told everybody now? @Annny27 when is your next appointment with the clinic? It can't be far now.. hang in there, you are amazing!
I haven't been in a very good place personally but I'm starting to feel a little bit better and come out of the darkness I think. After the crappy year I had last year they found abnormal cells in my cervix towards the end of it, I had biopsy's taken in December to confirm that and I have treatment on weds next week to remove them, which I am petrified of, so we haven't been able to try 😔 it has devastated me really after everything but I have been told it will not harm my future fertility and I can still try for a baby I may just have to wait a few cycles to let my cervix heal. (Like I have all the time in the world I am 37 in April - I was 34 when we started trying) I never heard back from the fertility clinic after all my tests etc back in November.. I think I need to give them a call and find out what the results of everything were. Anyway I am hoping this year is a better one for all of us, you are all regularly in my thoughts girls. Big hugs to you all xxx

Omg @Gems7 sending you a huge hug! Us girls are with you in spirit 💐 x x

@PrettyTulip Thankyou 😘 xx

Hey girls how are you all doing? Xxxx

I lost this thread for a bit! I am about cd7 so heading into fertile week soon. Husbands second sperm analysis showed an improvement in his sperm which is promising :D hopefully one of them meets the egg this month!!!

@gems7 sounds like you have had such a difficult time recently:( have they done rhe biopsy and given results yet? Yeah it sucks to be having a few months off of trying to conceive! I know you work in nhs so have you atleast had the vaccine which means you csnt try for a few months after anyway? A good way to do both of the "waiting periods" in one

@PrettyTulip any closer to getting clomid?

@Missgoldilocks how long untill your next scan???

@Annny27 hey hun, yes I had my biopsy and required treatment so I had a LLETZ procedure last weds where they burned the abnormal cells off my cervix. I need to wait a couple of months for my cervix to heal and then I can start trying again my consultant told me. It sucks and all I see in my head is a clock telling me I'm running out of time but what can I do.. I need to be healthy for the son I already have. Hopefully that's the end of that anyway. I had my covid vaccine a couple of weeks ago yes. It's probably safe, I think they tell you to wait only because there were no pregnant women in the trials, but I can't try anyway at the moment so it was good timing I suppose. It's not like I would get pregnant anyway, we've been trying for 2 years 😂😭

It's going to happen for you, it's happened once and it will happen again, look at @Missgoldilocks it happened for her, it will happen for us. Fingers crossed this is your month, that's brilliant news about sperm improvement. 2021 is our year!

@Missgoldilocks @PrettyTulip
Hope you girls are okay. Xxx

@Gems7 I've been thinking about you 😘 I'm really happy that it all went well, I know things feel super bleak for you right now but I have so much faith that you're going to fall as soon as you are able! Your body was trying to be pregnant so many times, I really believe its going to happen now you've sorted out your cervix. Please keep your head up always sending you lots of love xx

@Annny27 yay for higher sperm count!! Whoop whoop rooting for you! :)

@PrettyTulip hope you're doing okay?

Update from me my sickness has basically passed now, I'm currently painting my whole house because I've literally lost it with the walls lol so I want it done before I get too big and I'm not able! I went for my scan I was 14 weeks 4 days :) saw little bubba and the sonographer was almost certain it was a boy, when he showed us it definitely looked like a willy lol so looks like it's team blue again! I don't mind I know what to do with boys :)
I've put on a lot of weight for being so early on 😅😅 but you know lockdown doesn't help does it 😬🙄 anyway all is good and hoping you're all fine xxxxxx

Morning :) about to ovulate i think (not using opks anymore cba haha!)

@gems7 I am glad the treatment went well and that you can try again in a few months. Plus good news to have the vaccine as well as atleast covid isnt going to ruin a potential pregnancy!

Yep focus on you and getting better

@Missgoldilocks wow! Team boy :D a little brother for your son will be exciting - will you find out at the 20 week scan just to make sure?

Hi ladies @gems7 @prettytulip @missgoldilocks

About 10dpo and feel absolutely normal and boobs potentially feel smaller so probably AF on the way. I have fertility appointment on Monday anyway so got that to look forward to.

@Annny27 hellooooo sorry I didn't get back to your last message, I was really ill I actually got covid 😬 scary and horrible to go through I had all the symptoms! I still can't taste or smell properly 🙁 anyway I'm a lot better now thank god. I've put on a stone and a half already during this pregnancy lol 😂 it's making me pretty insecure but I'm just one of those people who put weight on quite easily 😳 I'm 16 weeks preggo now and got my next scan in march where I will be checking to make sure it's a boy.
Glad you have your fertility appointment on Monday and really hope they get some investigative work going xxx

Oh my goodness! Covid during pregnancy is scary :( atleast you are hopefully immune now haha! Bless you that must have been awful!! Did your partner and son get it too?

Fingers crossed baby boy is growing well.:D do you have a bump yet?

@Annny27 I definitely have a bump lol I look about 6 months pregnant 😂😅😅 yeah I'm immune for I think it's 8 months lol so weird why you don't stay immune forever! Yes my partner got it but wasn't that bad just cold symptoms and my son was completely asymptomatic!

How are you getting on?

How are @Gems7 @PrettyTulip xx

Awwh show us a bump pic if you can without giving away identity 🤣 @missgoldilocks

Yep onto my 15thmonth post miscarriage now so let's hope ita lucky like yourr 15th cycle was haha!!

Hi ladies just checking in so i dont lose the thread!

My best friend told me she wa pregnant last week which was really hard to hear
Hope I am pregnant soon and we can experience it all together ❤

@missgoldilocks how are you holding up?

Any news from @gems7 or @prettytulip

@Annny27 oh I'm sorry!! I thought I got back to your last message I'm losing my mind lol. How are you? I fell on the 16th month :) fingers crossed you will fall soon and the other girls xx I can send a bump pic but I really don't want to upset anyone 😭 xxx

@missgoldilocks It deffo wont upset me! I LOVE when fellow infertility ladies have their dreams come true honestly it gives me so much hope!

It's only the 1 or 3 monthers that get me haha 😂😂😂

Hi ladies

How are you all? I was hoping to see a few BFPs on here but sadly not yet.

I had my first few investigations done at the fertility clinic done this week, just bloods and internal scan. Other than 20 follicles on one side which she said could be an indicator of PCOS (because I have no other symptoms, normal cycles, not overweight etc, it's not PCOS) everything else was fine so just waiting on our follow up appointment in April to go over the results officially and see if my partners second SA improved.

If SA is better, then we wait until October (2 year ttc) for treatment, if it hasn't improved then we can start.

@annny27 how are you coping with your friends news and how did your Feb fertility appointment go?

@missgoldilocks pleased you are recovering from covid! Double the fun whilst also pregnant I imagine! Hope you are embracing the pregnancy weight, don't let it make you feel insecure! I can't wait to be pregnant and eat allll the chocolate.

@Annny27 yeah the 1 month or 3 monthers 😭😭🤣🤣 bloody annoying!! Here's a bump pic from a few days ago 🥰🥰😘😘 he's moving around loads now kicking and swirling, still not enough for others to see it but I can feel it lol xx

@dogmam yeah I'm trying to just relax, I'm hungry all the time lol 😁 glad to.hear from you! My sisters partners SA results went from 6 million to 30 Million, I can't remember how far apart these two were but it was long while maybe 6 months? So hopefully they improve xx

@missgoldilocks lovely bump ❤🥰🥰 glad to hear baby boy is growing well!

@dogmam will your treatment be ivf? We can have IVF in November with nhs or now if private.....need to have a long think!

I also have mild pcos btw as does my best friend who conceived in a few months haha!

P.s my amh levels came back as 41 so optimal :D

Period arrived so onto next cycl2 but this month I am potentially gonna have the hycosy so missing a month of ttc!