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Nov Bus 21 - C*m stains, period rage and MASSIVE bullets

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Juno231 · 06/11/2020 19:00

Come join us on our TTC journeys - all you need is a (filthy) sense of humour!

Bus history:
June - 24 BFPs
July - 11 BFPs
August - 18 BFPs
September - 4 BFPs
October - 7 BFPs

November BFPs so far:
@AKC88 - November 3rd
@purplesky18 - November 3rd
@dippyegg32 - November 5th

Upcoming testing dates:
@pebblesinthesand - November 11th
@siana97 - November 16th
@nestinginNL - November 18th
@missgoldilocks - November 20th
@Franklydear - November 22nd
@Juno231 - November 22nd
@vil10 - November 23rd
@djmum83 - November 23rd
@clairey844 - November 27th
@mrsbear1122 - November 28th
@katao - December 4th
@Hopeful110 - December 12th
@minster2012 - February 14th

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lucyrp · 07/11/2020 18:17

@Missgoldilocks ohh makes sense then! How come they're doing it for fertility reasons then? Or are they doing it to check for other things and you're hoping fertility will be discussed ? Xx

notyetamumbuttrying · 07/11/2020 18:25

@Missgoldilocks I'm ok at mo. Had a good sleep this morning so feeling brighter! Due to ov soon as well so that always make my mood lift. I'm taking Soya again this cycle. Taking last one tonight. Have stuck to 50mg a day and have ov'd later but LP still short at 12 days. Will take them again next cycle too and then stop. Needs 3 cycles to do anything I believe and it's been ok so far so may as well carry on. Sorry to hear it's still having an affect on your body. Really hope the lap does the trick! I'm talking to another girl whose going through the same thing and her docs seem really confident it'll do the trick!
@Franklydear it's a great outcome isn't it! Just a shame biden's so old, I'm sure there were younger candidates who were qualified, but still, at least trumps out now!

Franklydear · 07/11/2020 18:37

@notyetamumbuttrying yes, but Harris will have influence, it can’t be any worst, can it?

Kirky658 · 07/11/2020 18:51

@missgoldilocks make sure you get up and walk round as early as you can after the op - helps to shift it!!! Also get some peppermint tea and extra strong mints they also really help. I wasn't TTC as me and DH weren't getting married till the following year after my first lap in 2018 which was when I was diagnosed with endo. Sadly didn't help my symptoms and they got worse but was under a specialist this year and touch wood seems OK. Good luck hun and let us know how it goes!

I have had a pretty shitty few days. When I said I had the ovulation pains the other day... They've literally been on and off now for days. We just DTD and it was so painful. I'm so worried my endo is coming back already...

Minster2012 · 07/11/2020 19:20

@InkyPaper we alll like to have a moan, don't worry, and that sounds really tough glad you are about at the end of it

@Cocoblue22 hey!!! You ok?! Thank you, really hope so, so annoying now it's nov it will be agggeeeessss now

@Franklydear R.I.P fishy 🐠🐟🐡I'm excited, I genuinely thought younger a killer fish in there. So, lovely, now you've sorted your mystery, time to sort mine...I have a small copper miners type lamp on a dresser thing in hallway. I dusted it the other day. Today I notice it's disappeared. Totally gone. DH no idea. I think a toddler has moved it. But I can't bloody find it. It's bugging the hell out of me. Obviously we've had no visitors. 😫

@Missgoldilocks The lap sounds good but bad. If that makes sense.

@Kirky658 if the pains continue call you docs please. Are you tracking anything else for OV?

In other news I am being very good on the drinking front. Last night & tonight. You'd all be proud of me. So far. But DH is being very annoying. Hmmm

Minster2012 · 07/11/2020 19:20

Oooo and any film recommendations for tonight??

Franklydear · 07/11/2020 19:25

@Minster2012 if I was a toddler, I would put it under the sofa, like Aladdin in the cave.
Not a movie, but in Netflix, better than us, light but engaging and interesting, about ai robots and family relations, it’s in Russian, so subtitles, I don’t know if there’s a version in English, I hate dub with a passion

Dollybird89 · 07/11/2020 19:33

@minster2012 yeah I had to leave ex bcos of domestic abuse . Was grateful I never ttc with him!

I'm starting to think this spotting is going to turn into af spent half the day napping and wanting chocolate.. not good when I'm on a healthy kick

Cocoblue22 · 07/11/2020 19:36

@notyetamumbuttrying no I didn't see that I had to skim through a lot of the threads as I had about 4000 messages to catch up on! Oh no so what does that mean now for you guys? X

@lucyrp I'm 22 weeks now just waiting for my scan on Monday has to postpone it due to track and trace telling me I had to self isolate which was frustrating and found out I'm having another boy 💙 he's very wiggley and can feeling him kicking away a lot of the time though so that reassures me! Hopefully all will be well on Monday 🤞🏻 I hope you get some shorter cycles and go all full out lucy on OH and get your baby soon you really deserve it to happen soon x

@Minster2012 I really hope you don't have to wait too long for your next cycle x

Missgoldilocks · 07/11/2020 19:42

@lucyrp the adhesions can stop you from getting pregnant because it means there is a lot of scar tissue inside, so a baby can't stick. So defo can cause fertility issues and since I've had all other tests done this is the last one that can show if there is issues inside stopping me from getting pregnant. So if there are adhesions, she can cut them out or clean them out I don't really know but hoping something helps xx

@notyetamumbuttrying I'm glad they haven't affected you how they have me lol! Did your oh get another sperm test done? Xx

@kirky658 thanks so much for your advise I'll definitely do that! I bought activated charcoal too lol xx

lucyrp · 07/11/2020 19:48

@Missgoldilocks oh sorry I'm so confused but yes thag makes sense now. Hopefully they can sort you out! Xx

@Cocoblue22 omg 22 weeks!😱 I can't get over how quickly time goes, that's rubbish for you but so happy you're having another boy😁 I'm sure everything will be great on Monday for you. I really hope so too, short cycles would be great but think I'm asking for too much 🙈x

Kirky658 · 07/11/2020 19:51

@missgoldilocks no worries hun, take care! Yeah you're right about the adhesions, they basically make your organs stick together and distort your pelvis so it can make it hard for things to work as they should!

@minster2012 don't worry I will do. I think it is a cyst tbh I've had them before so will wait to see if it resolves itself they usually do. Xx

Missgoldilocks · 07/11/2020 20:10

@kirky658 does it hurt after?? Are you getting a lap done because of endometriosis again? X

Minster2012 · 07/11/2020 20:15

@Franklydear nothing under the sofa except dust and a jigsaw piece, hmmmmm OMG I don't have the patience for subtitles you are much better than I am!

@Dollybird89 you did right getting out of that one & yep good thing you didn't TTC with him, let's hope (in the nicest possible way of course!) that it's a short bus ride 😂🤣but I'm jealous of your napping and chocolate...the toddler shouted "wee wee" at me, I put down my 4 squares of allowed chocolate on my "normal height" kitchen table & came back & then my chocolate had gone - my bloody big dog had eaten it. FFS

@Missgoldilocks oooooo I think it will help. But gawd make sure OH is at your beck n call!!

@SmileyT I forgot to ask when you are due?!

@Cocoblue22 another boy awwww and Gosh that's gone quick 😳😊so pleased it's all good xx

Kirky658 · 07/11/2020 20:16

@missgoldilocks first time round not gonna lie I was in agony after for a good few days. This time I didn't need any painkillers. Tbh I think the first time was because I had the mirena coil inserted so that caused me no end of aggravation. Yep second lap was for endo again, and more removed that time x

Dollybird89 · 07/11/2020 20:23

@minster2012 I feel for you... as I'm stuffing a whole bar of chocolate before oh wakes up for nightshift.. I didn't wanna share haha!

Markygirl1995 · 07/11/2020 20:29

Hey everyone, is it ok to join I'm in the tww I dont think I have terrible patience xx

Minster2012 · 07/11/2020 20:37

Honestly @Dollybird89 if it's not disappearing copper lamps (a bit annoyed about that) then it's disappearing chocolate (very annoyed about that) AND it was one with daim in it too 😳❤️def don't share...waking up for night shift...he can't eat chocolate for breakfast?! (We do but that's not the point) 😂

@Markygirl1995 welcome. Don't. POAS. Yet. Anyway! How far in are you?!

Skip86 · 07/11/2020 20:50

Hi girls, I'm a bit late but marking my place! I'm not ttc but will hang on for a bit longer because I just love you all too much to leave!

It's not yet 5am here but I've been awake and catching up for the last hour because I can't sleep. Will try my best to get back to sleep now, need to be rested for my 4 hour drive today 😫

Oh and yes, thank fck the narcissistic Oompa Loompa is gone.

Vil10 · 07/11/2020 21:09

@notyetamumbuttrying here's to amazing sex!!

@Cocoblue22 hey!! How're you getting on??

So my 3 course meal went down a treat girls, home made fish cakes with sweet chilli sauce for starter, steak pie home made chips and tenderstem for main, white chocolate orange cheesecake for dessert😋 with a glass of red obv!

Nov Bus 21 - C*m stains, period rage and MASSIVE bullets
Nov Bus 21 - C*m stains, period rage and MASSIVE bullets
Nov Bus 21 - C*m stains, period rage and MASSIVE bullets
Kirky658 · 07/11/2020 21:14

@vil10 that sounds absolutely awesome

I'm currently craving a Sweeties fix and ate three mini packets of haribo and 2 mini milky ways....

notyetamumbuttrying · 07/11/2020 21:29

@Franklydear yeah you're right!
@Cocoblue22 no worries, a lots been going on. So he's seen a urologist to see if they can find out anything else so waiting on blood test results and he gets a scan on his testes next week. If all ok then I guess it's ivf if it continues to not happen naturally. Glad all's going well with the pregnancy! My sister has two boys and loves it, congratulations 🥳
@Missgoldilocks no he hasn't. He's annoying me a bit actually as he won't book it until he's had his scan. Only a few more days to go tho so hoping he'll still get it within the month.
I'm sure they'll be able to sort you out, hope it all goes well x
@Vil10 amen girl! Omg your meal, looks 🤤

Minster2012 · 07/11/2020 21:31

Oh wow @Vil10 now I'm hungry again 😬🙌🏻that looks amazing

@Kirky658 😆that sounds like me raiding the Halloween stash 😂

@Skip86 yaaaaaassssss don't leave us gorgeous pornstar. Have you finished the renovation house? Can we see a whole picture yet?? We've been bloody hanging on since may for you to finish and get rid of not just the pigeon shit but the house toooooooo 😂and where's the 🚁gone???

Markygirl1995 · 07/11/2020 21:31

@Minster2012 correction, sorry just done a 12 hour shift. I have terrible patience 🤣 just ovulated I think last night/today so the 2ww begins. I'm hoping I've covered it as DTD 4th and 5the hey ho what will be will be. How about you??

SmileyT · 07/11/2020 22:13

@Vil10 yes I'm all good thanks, can't believe you managed to cook the 3 course meal while dripping in EWCM 😛 p.s that cheesecake looks insane along, lucky bf all round today x

@Minster2012 well first item is officially being purchased, not cheap but you get to buy a few overpriced bits you'll only use once for your first baby right 🤷🏾‍♀️ and yeah I guess it's a personal thing with sex but appears a lot of men and women are scared of hurting baby 😂 Due 15th March ❤️

@Newbie0818 definitely safe, plus a lot of people have a few months off after birth and a year off sex isn't appealing to me. Every pregnancy is different though so if people have terrible sickness, any complications or just generally not that into sex it would be different xx

@notyetamumbuttrying hi lovely, what's going on with the move? Have viewings stopped in lockdown 2.0, hopefully no delays to starting the treatment you wanted to book soon x

PSA for anybody in their FW or who just fancies some sexy time, I found YOU, ME, HER on Netflix a real turn on, only a couple episodes in but i'm a fan 😈