Nov Bus 21 - C*m stains, period rage and MASSIVE bullets

[Juno231]

Come join us on our TTC journeys - all you need is a (filthy) sense of humour!

Bus history:
June - 24 BFPs
July - 11 BFPs
August - 18 BFPs
September - 4 BFPs
October - 7 BFPs

November BFPs so far:
@AKC88 - November 3rd
@purplesky18 - November 3rd
@dippyegg32 - November 5th

Upcoming testing dates:
@pebblesinthesand - November 11th
@siana97 - November 16th
@nestinginNL - November 18th
@missgoldilocks - November 20th
@Franklydear - November 22nd
@Juno231 - November 22nd
@vil10 - November 23rd
@djmum83 - November 23rd
@clairey844 - November 27th
@mrsbear1122 - November 28th
@katao - December 4th
@Hopeful110 - December 12th
@minster2012 - February 14th

@missgoldilocks what's your lap for hun? Have you had one before? I had my second one in June xx

@Newbie0818 Thankyou!! Hahahaha wow, we have that all the time!! The dog just sits and stares and I always think do they know what we're doing😂

@Franklydear hahahaha oh Christ, aren't they dramatic😂

@Missgoldilocks love how you're excited for it😂

@SmileyT lovely for you to drop in!! How're you getting on?

So girls, went shopping, stood in the line and thought jeez I'm wet, had some grey gym leggings on, get back in the car, and my wetness has seeped through my thin thong and had a little wet patch on my leggings!!! I'm mortified, I don't know how long it was there for!! I'm there walking round tesco with ewcm stain on my vag!! Only plus side is I got home and I'm moister than an oyster, ewcm coming out my ears, ovulation pains, gonna jump on that 🍆 tonight and tomorrow as I think ov is going to be tomorrow!

Hi all! Mind if I join? Been ttc first child since April. AF decided to go off the rails in July and haven't had a period since end of Aug but have only had BFN when testing...
Doesn't help that some of my older relatives have heavily implied it's my fault I'm not getting pregnant for leaving it too late (am 32) thoroughly fed up

@Missgoldilocks what is a laporopscopy anyway (I can't spell it!) sorry!

@Dollybird89 that sounds mega frustrating and not knowing either...we said on the last thread it's interesting what ppl class as a "normal amount of sex" anyway, let alone then trying to do more during FW, but most of us do most during weekends anyway but it would frustrate me ONLY during weekend but OMG your ex?!! WTAF??

@SmileyT I'm surprised it's the guys that say that about the baby TBH LOVE Frugi stuff but it's got more expensive I buy loads secondhand, DS wearing all secondhand today except the pyjama top he refused to take off this morning which I bought last sale 😂

@InkyPaper welcome oh god yes clearly your fault jayyyysssuss well rant away here lovely one of our threads was called "my body is a fuck boy" so we think it's more likely that!! These things are sent to try us and THEY DO!!

@minster2012 a laparoscopy is a minimally invasive surgery, they make 2 or 3 incisions into your tummy and go through your belly button with a camera to check for things like cysts, endometriosis or other issues. I've had two and they aren't particularly fun, the worst part is they pump you full of gas during the procedure so you end up with pains in your shoulders for days after and burp/fart like a trooper afterwards haha.... That's how I got my endometriosis diagnosis and how treatment was done.

I'm doing my interview prep now and really cba... I want to do the interview and get the job but I've got to do a PowerPoint presentation to go along with the competency questions and I'm kinda like I hate doing all this in case you don't get the job and I've wasted a Saturday afternoon hahaha...

I've put it off long enough today though and my house is spotlessly clean now!!

Ahhhh I see @Kirky658 that sounds horrible tbh but I guess if it gets answers I can see why @Missgoldilocks might be kinda looking forwards to it 😬and you need to get on with your prep!! It's crap I know, and PowerPoint presentations for it are awful but needs must & if you've procrastinated as much as you can 🤦🏼‍♀️🤣

@SmileyT ive replied btw xx

@Missgoldilocks I understand they are very hard to get doctors to agree to, so here’s hoping for some answers
@Kirky658 god, it’s hard to do something you don’t want to, but confidence, even if you didn’t get it, it’s good practice

@Kirky658 we've just been on a 10k walk, lovely stuff!

@SmileyT eek! I know I'll totally be terrified of poking poor bub, but it's safe to do it whilst pregnant right?

@Vil10 haha I know! I do wonder that too about the dog 😂

Hey @Missgoldilocks been wondering about you and whether you were feeling like me, sounds it then. Glad you've got another next step, hope it does the trick!
@Minster2012 I love that you're boss is Dh and you can live a real life 50 shades!!
@SmileyT heya 👋🏾 always nice when you pop in. Hope you and baby are well!
@Vil10 yay to ov signs!! Enjoy your sesh! We had a good one this morning 🤤
@InkyPaper please ignore the haters saying 32 is not too old, they don't know what they're talking about. We started when I was 33 and I'm 34 now. My next bday is looming but it's still not too late. I'm very fertile, it's just my Dh that's sadly got a sperm issue. Hoping to get some answers soon and if nothing comes of it, we'll likely try ivf before my 35th bday in March.

@Newbie0818 it's safe of course if you cba 😂 I mean from a biology point of view your body has achieved the purpose of sex, your pregnant, so libido might be on the floor 😬 and then you know morning sickness etc

@Newbie0818 beauts pic 😍

Thanks @Minster2012 and @notyetamumbuttrying think they just got in my head because everyone on my mum's side got pregnant almost instantly and were young (early 20s) when they started having kids, got me wondering if it was my fault. Doesn't help that we're already trying a year later than I thought - had vaginismus and it took a long time to get through that. Basically, feels like we've been waiting forever to get pregnant and now my period's gone AWOL for no reason and I'm just having a moan, sorry!

@InkyPaper understandable to have a moan about it. I'm queen of moaning on here so never say sorry about it!! 😂
I bet it was tough having Vaginismus! Well done getting through it. Would you say you're "cured" from it now?

@notyetamumbuttrying haha glad it's not just me!! I would say nearly I'm about 95% there with it, it took a super long time (basically we didn't have sex for like a year and a half) and I still have the odd time where things don't feel right, but I know how to deal with it better now and it continues to get better with time, so that's something at least

Hello ladies just thought I'd pop back in and say hi as I was thinking of you all and wondering how everyone was getting on!

I lost the thread after bus 16 and couldn't ever find bus 17! Had a big catch up today on bus 18+ to find out how you're all getting on!

Because I lost you on bus 17 have no idea who the BFPs were from sept and oct other than @KateColx and @Runnergirl1 so massive congratulations to you and all the other BFPs ❤️ if anyone knows who the others were I'd love to know!

Sorry to see some of you are still waiting for your BFP I'm sure your time is just around the corner ❤️ sending lots of luck your way 🤞🏻

@Minster2012 sorry to hear your ivf didn't work out this time, keeping everything crossed for you next time 🤞🏻 you deserve your miracle baby so much x

@Skip86 sorry to hear what you've been through and going through atm but really admire your strength....I wondered where you had gone and missed the Reno updates, hope you are feeling a bit better x

@lucyrp sorry your body is still playing games and you had such a rubbish time trying to get answers. Hope your cycles get more regular and shorter x

@InkyPaper that is good, I'm glad for you. That came up a few times for me when doing Google searches as I tend to get discomfort after sex and it's not to do with not being wet enough. But I ruled it out as it doesn't hurt when we have sex etc.

Hi @Cocoblue22! How are you? Not sure if you saw my latest? Got male factor infertility so just playing waiting game at mo.

@Cocoblue22 aw yay wondered where you'd gone! How're you getting on ? Any bump pics you'd like to grace us with ?😁 I hope they get better soon too I've had enough x

Breaking news! I was cleaning my tank and I found my missing fish, well half of him, trapped in a hole of a decoration, funny thing, I cleaned the tank and said decoration several times and looked for him, I think he might have buried himself under the sand and just got moved by the current eventually, I have 3 filters and 2air stones, my tank is well oxygenated
I do understand that nobody is very excited with my very expensive lamp, as bestie boy refers to my tank

On other breaking news, we have president elect

@lucyrp hey chick! Tbh at this point I just want answers like @Minster2012 said! I'm a little scared but excited to see what's going on!!

@notyetamumbuttrying heyyy lovely!! How are you? Sorry you feel the same! Its so crap isn't it!! I don't even know when I ovulated my body is moving so crazy after those isoflavones still now!! Xx

@kirky658 oh god I'm going to hate the wind part of that!! I've forewarned my partner because I don't do any of that in front of him lol. So the lady who is doing mine said hycosy only shows you 40 percent of what's going on the Laparoscopy will show her everything. She said I'm high risk of adhesions because I had a c section, copper coil and termination. So her plan is to find the adhesions and cut them out, hopefully that's the case then I can get pregnant! If she says she finds nothing in kind of in the same spot lol but I don't want it to be so bad that she can't do anythjng either!! Did you get pregnant after your last lap?? Xx

@Franklydear yes! This doc is very senior in gynaecology so I'm really happy with her :)

@Missgoldilocks I thought women were only allowed to get them when they thought they had endo and even then it was hard work getting them ? Have you gone private ? Xx

And a woman of colour as vice-president, take that maga

@lucyrp no nhs, it's because I'm high risk of adhesions from copper coil, termination and c section, that's why xx