Nov Bus 21 - C*m stains, period rage and MASSIVE bullets

[Juno231]

Come join us on our TTC journeys - all you need is a (filthy) sense of humour!

Bus history:
June - 24 BFPs
July - 11 BFPs
August - 18 BFPs
September - 4 BFPs
October - 7 BFPs

November BFPs so far:
@AKC88 - November 3rd
@purplesky18 - November 3rd
@dippyegg32 - November 5th

Upcoming testing dates:
@pebblesinthesand - November 11th
@siana97 - November 16th
@nestinginNL - November 18th
@missgoldilocks - November 20th
@Franklydear - November 22nd
@Juno231 - November 22nd
@vil10 - November 23rd
@djmum83 - November 23rd
@clairey844 - November 27th
@mrsbear1122 - November 28th
@katao - December 4th
@Hopeful110 - December 12th
@minster2012 - February 14th

@Minster2012 yep! How are you lovely? I think my sister should hopefully be starting a new ivf cycle on a few weeks

Yay @Missgoldilocks that's great, I'm a bit bummed after BFN so no miracle baby this cycle and now CD33 I think or 34 and no sign of AF so I can get booked in 🙄

@minster2012 haha I felt the same way when I took over! I also don't know how SmileyT put up with the daily thread creations as they're quite tricky to keep on top of too. I swear half the time they seemed to occur when I was away for a weekend or super busy at work 😅

BTW this afternoon I have a super achey right kidney area, feels almost bruised? I ovulated on the right so am obviously overthinking this lol.

Thanks @Juno231 must remember in the morning!!
@2020mission yes I never done bbt before so just thought why the hell not 😂
I forgot to do an opk yesterday or up until now today but just tested and got this baby 🥳

@Minster2012 thanks hun I have to admit I’ve found it tougher than I could have imagined.

@Minster2012 well I hope you get the best news with a new cycle!! Xx

@notyetamumbuttrying how are you xx

@Minster2012 I didn't ovulate until CD 32 this month which is normally the length of my cycled 😒 so my testing date is Nov 28th now.

Will probably test on the 23rd though as it'll be 10dpo and I have a massage booked and want to mention it if there's a line so she doesn't rub the wrong bits or something.

So ladies just been offered the job from the interview last week! I'm really in two minds and have doubts about whether to take it or not. The salary they've offered is so much lower than I expected and I just have a gut feeling - can't put my finger on it - that there's something better out there for me. 🤔

@NestinginNL noted thank you! And good plan, but you should he ok with a massage?

@Kirky658 can you ask fir more money? Would that make a difference?

And congratulations though @Kirky658 sorry trying to be fast!

@minster2012 haha no worries lovely! Yes I asked for an increase and she said no they can't do it that's the highest they can offer. It would be £15k less than I earn now. Also I just get a weird vibe from the woman who'd be my manager, can't explain it. She's very much like my current manager who I hate x

@Kirky658 in my experience, your gut is never wrong!

@Kirky658 15k is a lot, what would you be gaining in return?

Catching up and will reply properly but bus name.... butt plugs, threesome and ttc on the side? Sums up this thread perfectly 😂 everyone knows what they are getting before joining us then 😆 @Minster2012

@Minster2012 yeah, should be okay. I did a Google though and technically deep full body massages are out the whole first trimester which would have already started. Not holding out hope for this month anyway, on 🥒 principle.

@Kirky658 oh that's a big drop! And if you don't really click with the manager then it's probably not right. A bad manager just makes work miserable. Congrats on getting it though! 🎉

@paintfairy that's what I'm thinking!

@franklydear I'd be getting a more reliable schedule and a few more holiday days basically as well as a HR qualification.

@nestinginNL yeah I think it could be a into the frying pan from the fire situation, with us ttc too need something reliable and something just doesn't click.

But I am pleased that my skills gained in the travel industry over the last 10 years can apparently be put to good use!

Hmmm @Kirky658 yeah that's too much and if you got a feeling then I'd go with that

@Minster2012 sorry I'm going to be annoying and change my date 🙈 I'm ovulating earlier than expected and always love a weekend test date so I'll probably test on Sunday 29th November

Thanks for the replies about ov and charts :) I just think I may have ov'd CD18 when I had ewcm for a few days and cramps, that's when it was originally positioned but now it's changed due to temp rise pattern I guess.

@Katao I think I've ov'd, just earlier then the app suggests.

@Amy00 happy birthday 🎉 and so sorry, hugs 💕

@blodyn91 Tbh we weren't really timing it this month as given up hope, but think we may be covered. We'll see.

@Flittingaboutagain im with you on opk's, not accurate at all. Listen to your bodies signals is the best way I think.

@Minster2012 Ooooh. My test date is who-the-fuck-knows-because-my-body-is-a-fuckboy. But I'll join you all along the ride 🤣 how about "butt plugs and clit suckers".

@Kirky658 well done for smashing the interview, do what you feel is right though x

@2020mission that's exactly what I thought!

@Flittingaboutagain ohhh really?? That's made me feel slightly more positive, but I do feel like I have af kinda cramps now😩

@Kirky658 congratulations! But that is a lot of money and if you aren't completely over the moon and have a bad feeling then I'd say that's your answer x

So I've completely flipped girls and 99.9% sure I'm out this cycle, had period like cramps today, thinking taking those seven seas tablets has possibly shortened my cycle and that's why I'm having period pains now on CD26? Suppose it's just a waiting game x

STOP!!! I need to post the thread but can't until after tea 😳😬

Ok, people. Nobody post after message 995, keep an eye, don’t stress the driver on the first spin

Congratulations @Kirky658 but as others have said go with your gut!
@Newbie0818 I see what you mean. Maybe the missing temps are stopping it recognising cd18 as o day?

@paintfairy totally! Such a weird thing to post about. Ppl are odd 😂
@Amy00 happy birthday, hope you've managed to have a nice day!
@Minster2012 I'm totes taking you missing me out as personal 🤪 22nd Nov for me please.
@Missgoldilocks im also certain the lab will sort you out a treat! Everything crossed for you! I'm ok thanks honey. Trying to keep zen until Dh sorts out his second SA. He's got a follow up call from his bloods and scan on 25th so at least a dates been booked!
@Kirky658 well done with the job! Defo don't take it if it's not meeting your needs or negotiate higher if you can.

Toot toot to our new driver @Minster2012 and thanks to @Juno231 for your navigation skills over these last buses 😘

@Katao Bus wankers defo got used a while back I'm sure.

Just had a catch up before the thread moves over, will update later with the latest level of ttc ridiculousness I have reached 😂