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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Nov Bus 21 - C*m stains, period rage and MASSIVE bullets

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Juno231 · 06/11/2020 19:00

Come join us on our TTC journeys - all you need is a (filthy) sense of humour!

Bus history:
June - 24 BFPs
July - 11 BFPs
August - 18 BFPs
September - 4 BFPs
October - 7 BFPs

November BFPs so far:
@AKC88 - November 3rd
@purplesky18 - November 3rd
@dippyegg32 - November 5th

Upcoming testing dates:
@pebblesinthesand - November 11th
@siana97 - November 16th
@nestinginNL - November 18th
@missgoldilocks - November 20th
@Franklydear - November 22nd
@Juno231 - November 22nd
@vil10 - November 23rd
@djmum83 - November 23rd
@clairey844 - November 27th
@mrsbear1122 - November 28th
@katao - December 4th
@Hopeful110 - December 12th
@minster2012 - February 14th

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lucyrp · 11/11/2020 14:08

@Kirky658 I defo need to buy some lube for that kind of thing, we never use it like hardly at all even for the butt plug🤣 don't worry about your rhr mines all over the place too. It doesn't even match my bbt which it should do really 🥺

Kirky658 · 11/11/2020 14:22

@lucyrp haha yeah we rarely use it just for toy purposes tbh... I get it from lovehoney it's pretty good stuff!

Ah thanks hun that's reassuring to know! I am waiting to see if my cycle is close to 28 days this time, it was 25 days last time and 26 the time before....

lucyrp · 11/11/2020 14:24

@Kirky658 I hope it lengthens for you! I'm waiting to see how abismally long my cycle is going to be 😴

Kirky658 · 11/11/2020 14:26

@lucyrp thanks lovely, I hope yours sort themselves out too!! I just looked and last one was 25 and the one before was 24 so perhaps it's going in the right direction 😂 I started taking pregnacare conception this month and saw all sorts of reviews of women saying their cycle went weird so I'm not holding out much hope!

lucyrp · 11/11/2020 14:35

@Kirky658 thanks! I started taking the seven seas ttc this month and all the reviews have said they've helped regulate and shorten their long irregular cycles so hope it's the same for me but probbalt won't get that lucky 🥺

Kirky658 · 11/11/2020 15:13

@lucyrp fingers crossed for you lovely. Let me know how you get on if you would please as they are also a lot cheaper than pregnacare 😂 lots of people tell me you only need folic acid but I like knowing that I'm getting enough vitamins x

InkyPaper · 11/11/2020 15:19

@Skip86 super jealous of your boob orgasm!!

@amy2503 it's been 9 months for us, currently somewhere in cycle5 though as AF has gone AWOL 😩

@Dollybird89 that doesn't sound good - definitely something to bring up with your doctor

Skip86 · 11/11/2020 15:20

Ok note to self: buy butt plug.
OH will be stoked. I have literally become a different sexual being since being on this thread and he is grateful to all of you 😂

I've been lying in bed trying to sleep for a couple of hours now (it's 11.15pm) but about to get up for the THIRD time for a wee! Wtf?? I'm not even preggo.

3 Days Post Who-even-cares-because-I-only-got-a-few-loads-of-pre-cum-in-my-vag-and-the-good-cum-wasted-on-my-arse

Night night you sexual bitchez xx

InkyPaper · 11/11/2020 15:20

@Kirky658 good luck in your interview tomorrow!

Juno231 · 11/11/2020 15:30

@amy2503 off the pill for 14 months, 11 months proper TTC.

Missed a callback from the GP - took me 15 min to get back through only for them to tell me they're scheduling me in for Monday next week for a phone consultation. This is off the back of me asking what my next steps are, how it works with my move and a fertility referral and oh btw shouldn't my TSH be under 2.5? Hate how everything takes bloody ages - I'm SO GLAD I started this crap in July seeing as at this rate I probably won't reach the fertility clinic until... Feb? Mar?

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Gem176 · 11/11/2020 16:06

Afternoon, 10 dpo, no real symptoms just that spotting at the weekend. 3rd anniversary today. To test or not to test.... vote now!

InkyPaper · 11/11/2020 16:51

@Juno231 that's so frustrating!! Did they at least give you a time for the phone consult?

@Gem176 Happy anniversary! I vote to hold off, seems a wee bit early and it could put a bit of a downer on your anniversary celebrations

BeeKeeping · 11/11/2020 16:53

Test test test! What a great day to find out if it’s a bfp! 😆 I am of course a very bad influence and tested from 7dpo this cycle 🤦🏻‍♀️

🤞🏻 For you

BeeKeeping · 11/11/2020 16:55

That should say @Gem176

Kirky658 · 11/11/2020 17:05

@Gem176 well 10dpo sounds OK to test to me don't frer tests work from a few days before? Happy anniversary ❤️

Juno231 · 11/11/2020 17:14

@Gem176 test!

@InkyPaper they did, now I just need to make sure to not miss it 😅

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blodyn91 · 11/11/2020 17:15

@Kirky658 @Vil10 @lucyrp Please don't get caught up in RHR, mine was all over the shop. Stress, exercise and illness can affect it so easy! I had obvious ovulation with bbt but my RHR showed no pattern and was so low during first few week of pregnancy, below 50 and 44 some days, its now between 49 and 54 ish. I know some people have patterns, but its also normal not to ☺️

Gem176 · 11/11/2020 17:45

@InkyPaper we don't really do anniversary celebrations especially not on a rainy Wednesday when he has to leave for work at half 5 the next day 🤣 followed by 4 nights of night shift.

@BeeKeeping @Kirky658 @Juno231 additional info, I don't keep tests in the house or I'd be poas daily 🙈 so had to go to co-op and they only had cb digitals (£13 a pop 😱 I hate living rural at times like these) 60% accurate 4 fats early according to box.... af due Sunday.... still test or not?

Kirky658 · 11/11/2020 18:03

@blodyn91 thanks hun good to have some reassurance, least I know I'm not outta the running yet haha

@gem176 ahhhh... The co op. The convenient expense as I call it 😂 I would give it another day then if you can nothing worse than a BFN to get you down. Xx

BeeKeeping · 11/11/2020 18:09

@Gem176 hmmmmm that’s not so easy! If it was a frer or an IC I’d say go for it but I don’t think the cb digitals are as sensitive.

Honestly if you love to poas just get the onestep ic from Amazon or eBay- 20 tests for a few quid. Then you can poas till your heart’s content Grin

Franklydear · 11/11/2020 18:14

The surgery is messing me around, I took an extra break to take my call and 15 minutes later I called, as they didn't, apparently they book me for next week 😲, so extra break for nothing, ... I didn't tell management, I just said that I have another appointment for next week, and when I got home, a voice message from my nurse, my asthma review is a bit overdue, don't you know?

Gem176 · 11/11/2020 18:25

@Kirky658 my nearest non co-op supermarket is 100 miles away. Ordered a frer that will be here on Friday. As superstitious as I am, I had enough bad luck last week that I'm due some good luck this Friday despite it being the 13th! I'm basically saying even if fb is negative I won't get down until frer says no on Friday 🙈 I haven't pee'd in over 4 hours. I havent been drinking loads and I have a stick to pee on.... I'm not sure I will be able to hold out 🤣 fml!

@BeeKeeping been there done that and it doesn't really work 🙈 I end up not trusting the ic ones and don't feel satisfied! I swear it's an addiction!

Kirky658 · 11/11/2020 18:33

@gem176 omg that's incredible, I feel for you! Our nearest Co op is a mile away and supermarket 5 miles. That's rural for us 😂 good luck hun whatever you decide and keep us posted. Any anniversary plans? X

Gem176 · 11/11/2020 18:46

@Kirky658 we had a chippy for tea 😂 he's working very early tomorrow morning and it's not a proper anniversary as we aren't married, just 3 years since our first date. I only remember it because it's a significant date otherwise I'm not sure I'd know, I haven't with any other partners 🤷🏻‍♀️

Kirky658 · 11/11/2020 18:54

@gem176 love that, why not, love a good chippy tea! Have a nice evening and keep us posted x