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Sausages and j*zz - Sep Bus 17

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Juno231 · 21/09/2020 18:31

June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September BFPs so far:
@catherinettc - Sep 4th
@mrsi2020 - Sep 6th
@KateColx - Sep 21st

Testing dates:
@Missgoldilocks - September 23rd
@franklydear - September 27th
@SarahTTC2020 - September 28th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@galatea - September 29th
@clairey844 - September 29th
@Juno231 - September 30th
@hopeful110 - October 2nd
@mrsbear1122 - October 5th
@2020mission - October 6th
@notyetamumbuttrying - October 6th
@minster2012 - October 12th

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notyetamumbuttrying · 22/09/2020 13:33

Haha hope so @DKDK123 he'll need to be ready for round two later or tomorrow!!
Ooh wishing you so much luck for a sticky bean my love!!
I got my day 3's back and "normal" have asked for the print out anyway cos I know what these receptionists are like!
Have my call with a gp a week today for our referral. She said I'm best off talking to her again so it's a week wait for me before we even get referred! Everything's so long isn't it. 😒

Missgoldilocks · 22/09/2020 13:49

@notyetamumbuttrying it may be a bit of a wait I remember you saying you're SE London and I am too, I got referred in June and had to wait for January 2021! Hoping it's not the same for you but just be ready 😬 but I think you said you're going private right? X

@DKDK123 omg that's amazing news!!! I'm. Keeping everything crossed for you that you get your sticky bean!! 🙏🙏🤞🤞

Juno231 · 22/09/2020 14:18

Omg girls I'm so sorry that it completely slipped my mind to link this thread in the old one before it closed!

Had a really shitty day though yesterday. My carpal tunnel is hurting like a bitch (managed to get physio booked for Thursday), our boiler failed the service and we got quoted £4.4k to change it at first so spent most of yday running around like headless chicken trying to sort out something else. So now I don't have hot water until Friday... Oh and all these flat/house distractions means I'm super behind at work so had a little stressful very about that last night 😅

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Katao · 22/09/2020 14:19

Oh wow @DKDK123! Fingers crossed x

Juno231 · 22/09/2020 14:20

@missgoldilocks I'm so sorry for the BFN, what dpo are you now? I've got a Jan deadline as well after which we want to explore IUIs/IVFs, so I completely get where you're coming from ❤️

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DKDK123 · 22/09/2020 14:33

Thanks ladies, I'm working from home today which has both been a blessing an a curse as it means I keep going back to check the lines still there 😂 If I have a nice strong line over the next few days I'll feel a lot better, if its still there in 2 weeks time I'll finally let myself believe its a sticky bean. Until then its the headfuck game of alternating between 'this is finally it' and 'not again, another CP'

@notyetamumbuttrying I hope the time flies in for you too, waiting is torture everything feels like it takes forever in this ttc game.

@Juno231 ouch on the boiler front, thats one of the parts of being a grown up I hate, all the unexpected things you need to shell out for. Enjoy a nice long hot bath once it gets fixed.

KateColx · 22/09/2020 14:33

@DKDK123 eeek, keeping everything crossed for you lovely 🤞🏻💕

@Chlo2701 that's not selfish, it's completely understandable. Don't feel bad for feeling like that xx

@lucyrp I was exactly like this a few months ago and just needed a break, sometimes it's good to clear your head but I actually really missed having people to talk about it all to. Plus, half the chat on here isn't TTC related 😂 hope you feel better soon 💕

Franklydear · 22/09/2020 14:38

Firstly @lucyrp don't you dare move, young lady.
On age gaps, one of my brothers is 3 years younger and the other 22... is like having a practice son, very cute.
My ds will definitely be eleven before a baby can happen, is not what I wanted but...
I thought that af came this morning, same yesterday morning, but nothing... I don't know what to think, test on Sunday, unless no longer necessary

Vil10 · 22/09/2020 14:52

I found you all!!! So just got to turkey about an hour ago, currently round the pool catching the last rays with a beer and lime!! I might check in a few times over this next week but if not I'll be back when I'm home!! @KateColx congratulations again, so happy for you!! And I hope there's more bfp's when I'm back🍆🤞🏼

KateColx · 22/09/2020 15:00

@Vil10 thank you lovely 🥰 have the best holiday!! And enjoy the relaxed unplanned sex 😂 x

@Ltay2 ah thank you!! 🥰🥰

Flittingaboutagain · 22/09/2020 15:16

Ah sorry just caught up on the other posts re aspirin sorry didn't mean to make you repeat yourselves

2alreadywantanother · 22/09/2020 15:29

@flittingaboutagain I'm just looking to see if anyone have any info on the low dose aspirin before I speak to my gp. And the progesterone.
@dkdk123 I really do hope this is ur time xx

KateColx · 22/09/2020 15:49

@DKDK123 sorry just seen your message from earlier. Ah thank you, I'm exactly the same and love seeing the BFPs on here 🥰 you're right, when you know what people have gone through to get them it makes you so happy for them. I think sometimes when I see announcements on social media I just assume that it's been plain sailing for them and they've not struggled at all which shouldn't make me bitter but 🤷🏼‍♀️😂 x

DKDK123 · 22/09/2020 17:08

Thank @KateColx & @2alreadywantanother I'm crossing everything 🤞

@Vil10 have an amazing holiday, im very jealous looking at the rain out of my window! Hope you have a lovely relaxing time

lucyrp · 22/09/2020 17:27

@Chlo2701 awww thank you!

@Katao I just feel like I should be talking about my opks and my temping and when we're having sex etc but none of it makes any sense I just feel useless 😭🤣

@Minster2012 it could be although looking ag my fermometer we've only had sex 4 times this cycle so far so highly unlikely 😂

@notyetamumbuttrying normal! Hahah I've heard that one before 🙄

@KateColx that's my problem, I don't have Anything TTC to contribute 🤣 thanks 💗

@Franklydear feeling the love 🥰

notyetamumbuttrying · 22/09/2020 19:43

@Missgoldilocks jeez Louise that's long! Yeah we'll go private if the referrals not in by January. I'm 35 next year so not waiting around any longer! I only agreed to wait this long as we had the wedding first, if only I'd known about the sperm issue then, I'd have come off the pill a lot lot sooner! I've decided I'm not waiting a week just to get referred so I'm calling up docs tomorrow for a same day call. Any doc can put it through can't they, so sod that receptionist lol!
@Juno231 ah sorry to hear my love. Hope today has gone better for you?!
@DKDK123 thank you, everything has slowed since ttc!! I really wish you so much luck my lovely, we'll all keep our fingers crossed for you!
@lucyrp haha 😂 yep, you know these gp receptionists well don't you! Luckily my results really were normal, so that's good,

Newbie0818 · 22/09/2020 20:11

Yay I found you! Genuinely thought I'd lost you all 🥺

Congrats @KateColx for the BfP!! 🎉🎉

Juno231 · 22/09/2020 20:14

@Hopeful110 we're here!

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Hopeful110 · 22/09/2020 20:16

Yayyyy I thought I'd lost you all haha xx

Minster2012 · 22/09/2020 20:34

@Katao c'mon you know MY version of rear end fun won't hurt!! 😂🤣seeee you neeeed me here!

@DKDK123 you just thought you'd slip in a "oh yeah just had a cheeky positive on IC & FRER" say what???!!! Got EVERYTHING crossed for you this time is the time 🤞🏻🤞🏻😘😳

@HollowayL30 hello! Word of advice on me, take a pinch of salt with my words except a
the encouraging ones! Welcome aboard!! 😘

@notyetamumbuttrying honestly the whole thing is a waiting game. Just don't hope you need anything more than GPs, if you get into infertility then mannnnnn the waiting gets twenty times worse 😂 so you just catch them backward swimmers again First Lady but it's good those first bloods are ok. Next ones!!

@Missgoldilocks i. Can. Only. Go. 😳. 😱

@Juno231 it was me that messed it up. Soorrrry bout that!! £4.4k??? Is it made of gold????

@Vil10 yay! Enjoy 🦃& 🌭& 🍆& 🌞& 🏖

@Newbie0818 woooo sorry totally my fault! Have a sausage 🌭

Minster2012 · 22/09/2020 20:34

@Hopeful110 too, have some extra jizz on your 🌭

Franklydear · 22/09/2020 20:43

@HollowayL30 welcome, what @Minster2012 means is buckle up, it’s going to be a tough ride

Minster2012 · 22/09/2020 20:49

Oooops did that come out wrong @Franklydear ??? Sorry if it did @HollowayL30. See what I mean?!! (I'll get back in my box now 🙈📦)

But hey, BAKE OFF BITCHES! Better than Boris 😂

Franklydear · 22/09/2020 20:52

I don’t think so, it’s always a tough ride when ttc and I wouldn’t change you lot for anything, you keep me sane, or at least appear so irl🤣🤪

Chlo2701 · 22/09/2020 20:52

@Minster2012 you still bleeding? And is it tomorrow you're going back for another scan to check womb lining?