Sausages and j*zz - Sep Bus 17

[Juno231]

June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September BFPs so far:
@catherinettc - Sep 4th
@mrsi2020 - Sep 6th
@KateColx - Sep 21st

Testing dates:
@Missgoldilocks - September 23rd
@franklydear - September 27th
@SarahTTC2020 - September 28th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@galatea - September 29th
@clairey844 - September 29th
@Juno231 - September 30th
@hopeful110 - October 2nd
@mrsbear1122 - October 5th
@2020mission - October 6th
@notyetamumbuttrying - October 6th
@minster2012 - October 12th

[Vil10]

@lucyrp it's so shit I know but you will get that little baby!! In the mean time keeping yourself busy is the best way!x

@Katao we need a good run of bfp's don't we!! And I'm going to test with opk everyday this week just in case premom is right with ov being this weekend! And if I don't get a positive then obviously I did ovulate early and I'll just have to wait and see if af arrives! In another mind though I feel like not even testing and just shagging this week and seeing, but then I'll keep wondering😂

[Minster2012]

[quote Juno231]@katao "we would've been preggers by now but turns out we've been doing it wrong this whole time by doing it up the pooper!"[/quote]
Brilliant, @Katao please say that!! And ooooo on the spewing 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@BellsB1 yaayyyyyy for no AF!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Awww thank you @2020mission but I'm not so sure I flip flop so much

DH & I had a disagreement last night in testing HOW early. Basically I'm just waiting on delivery of FRERs too like @BellsB1, I've just had dispatch note from dr fertility so now it's waiting game for me too! But he waves to wait until the weekend when we know it will be more right. I'm struggling now.

I had some sharp pulling pains last night. A "not so quick" google obviously showed that can be side effect of progesterone too. It's such a head fuck.

[notyetamumbuttrying]

@Katao just waiting as she's on her way merry way! I wouldn't count me in any bfp's for a while. I'm just a lurker now as our chances are very slim at present.
When are you due on?

@Juno231 ha! I would love to use that response to those bloody annoying questions! Luckily my family know we're trying and now know why we've had no success. I'll prob get asked when we're trying ivf instead 😬

[Juno231]

@2020mission I'm sorry to hear you're spotting :( Which cycle will you be starting next? Bear in mind a new thread will be set up today in case you want a test date included for that one!

[BellsB1]

@Juno231 I'm taking it as a win either way, a normal LP means I'm actually in with a chance! Maybe those Asda pills are doing something to my hormones.. Who knows 😂🤞 as for annoying questions, I wish I had the confidence to say actually, and run with the truth, just to see them feel uncomfortable for once. Surely people know they shouldn't ask such questions by now 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Minster2012 Dr Google is the devil! Hopefully the pains are good news 🤞 I agree with @2020mission, if you get a BFP this month it's definitely a winner!

[2020mission]

@Juno231 I'm cycle 10 now. Opened the Ovia app today for it to show me the motivational message "it takes couples who are trying an average of six months to conceive" not what I needed to see today 😂 I will update with a test date as soon as AF is here but just go ahead with the new thread and I can add it manually later when I have an idea as it could be tomorrow or the day after 👍🏼

[Juno231]

@2020mission yes I had a feeling we were on the same cycle! Fingers crossed 10 is it for us.

[Katao]

😂😂😂 @Juno231 can you imagine the faces!
@2020mission aw sorry, hard to keep track.
@notyetamumbuttrying you just never know though, there's always a chance. Af due Friday.
@Vil10 wouldn't it be great to find out you are already half way through the tww!
@Minster2012🤞🤞🤞🤞 those are good feelings of a little bean snuggling in x

[Juno231]

@Minster2012 got everything crossed for you. Did you say you might cave in on Friday and test then?

[Catherinettc]

Ooh ladies its getting exciting on here! 😁😁

I have a good feeling about this one!!

Hope ur all good and not going too crazy. I still feel crap 🤷‍♀️ but hopefully not for too much longer xx

[Juno231]

@lucyrp I forgot to say, I'm really sorry about your CD21 results. I just hope the docs get their fingers out and get going on sorting your body out asap. In the meantime def take good care of yourself and pop over here to rant at us anytime you like xxx

[Minster2012]

@Katao I reallllly hope they are good signs but I'm feeling very down in dumps today

@Juno231 I think I def might cave even sooner than that when the tests arrive which is likely for weds which would be about 11/12dpo anyway but DH wants Saturday but thing is if it's Saturday I've then got DS & dogs with me all day whereas weds he's at nursery so I can be miserable all day if I want to (I could Friday as well but DH leaves earlier on Friday whereas weds he's around a bit longer in the morning)

I just want an inkling what's going on but part of me doesn't as well. Torture.

[Minster2012]

I've just myself some new Pants to make me feel better as the progesterone is wrecking my others bloody horrible leaking stuff 😂🤣

[Katao]

Aw @Minster2012 howcan we cheer you up? Nice pants! I was just looking at my big granny pants this morning hoping I'm not pulling them on at the weekend for af 🤞
Re testing l think you need to go with the day that works best for you. DH will still be with you to test on Wednesday and that works for you so sounds good. I get what he is saying about more certainty testing laterbut you haveto live in your body second guessing everything for those days so I think you get the final say 😉

[notyetamumbuttrying]

@Katao with a year of thinking there's a chance I need to give my brain a break and come to terms with the low low chances until things are sorted. Thanks for your optimism tho! 😁 good luck for Friday! Will you test before?

@Minster2012 cute pants! Hope you're doing ok despite the nasty progesterone wrecking your life! It's so horrible isn't it. I must produce loads of the stuff looking at how bad I get every month. Sucks to be a woman sometimes!

[Katao]

@notyetamumbuttrying I get where you are coming from. It's hard to keep banging your head off a brick wall isn't it! (I'll still keep sending positive vibes your way though 😘)
Well Wednesday is 11dpo so anything from then on is fair game really. I'm a bit tired of the compulsive early testing though. When af inevitably turns up all you have is a bin full of wasted test 🤦‍♀️ the urge to poas just always wins though 😂

[Minster2012]

I'm just trying to take my mind off it but totally failing 😂😩I'm all over the granny pants anyway but nice ones like that! Am having to wear liners for the progesterone but kinda feeling wet too?? But I guess that's just the gentle flowing ebb of the progesterone coming out 😂🤣now there's a nice picture for you on a Monday lunch 😆 urgh

@Katao stay strong til weds & I will update you when my little parcel arrives!

[2alreadywantanother]

100% @minster2012 if only u get a bfp that's a winner month. Fingers and toes crossed for u.

Brazil nuts? When do we eat them. Got some today. Must get ass juice too.

Gona test tomorrow see if its negative. Fingers crossed it is. Will be weird seeing bfp 😥

Had a hot date with DH yest. Was lovely. I know these things effect people differently but this has def pulled us closer together. (Which I didnt think was possible) hes just keeps reminding me we are blessed with what we do have, and that he would be lost if anything happened me. His main worry is me and that I'm ok 🥰
We got drunk and ate some pizza. And it was just what I needed. Cant wait to get back shagging 🙈🙈

[BellsB1]

@Minster2012 love the pants, sorry the progesterone is being so crappy! Test whenever you feel comfortable testing, but also keep in mind that it might be too early as well. I can't say much as I cracked out the tests at 7dpo this month ✌ we need @franklydear and that level head of hers 😂

@notyetamumbuttrying sometimes it's good to give yourself a break, TTC is so full on that you lose time for anything else. Another thing they don't warn you in school!

I thought I couldn't test until Wed because the FRER wasn't getting here until tomorrow. OH just casually dropped into conversation that it's arriving today and now I think I'm gonna puke 🤣

@Katao I have a bin full of wasted tests at the moment, I'm glad it's bin collection day on Wednesday so I can pretend they didn't happen and tomorrow/Wednesday is my first test of the month..

[Vil10]

@2alreadywantanother so glad you and OH are doing well, sounds like a lovely night you had, and what a hun saying those things to you, probably just what you needed to hear!

@Minster2012 loving the elephant knickers😂

So a post with a bit TMI coming up, so obviously people on here may know about me not knowing whether I've ovulated already or whether I'm coming up to ov this weekend, so I had the ewcm last week whilst on holiday, and been very wet still, yesterday it was more watery, but today there's a lot, like I was at the gym and felt a bit seep through and when I stood up there was a tiny thin line of wet on the bench that had obv come through my knickers and leggings!!! Went to the toilet and it was watery but had dried crusty on my knickers (hate that word sorry🤢) got home gone to the toilet and it's like a milky colour in my knickers so thought I'd have a rummage, and feels very wet up there but felt sticky in my fingers, but when I wiped there was a tiny bit of stretchy light white CM on the paper, boobs feel sore to touch and a few really prominent veins have appeared around my nipples! Very confused!!

[notyetamumbuttrying]

Aw that's very sweet, thank you @Katao yeah the urge is real isn't it 😂

@BellsB1 I just feel so sorry for myself today lol, due on so I go a bit loco. 🤪 two of my friends are due this month and it's just the constant reminder that we aren't, and we have a struggle to get there. I know it'll happen one way or another, it's just gutting that it can't be on our terms. I'll get over myself once my period starts so perhaps I'll leave you guys to chat about upbeat things until my pity party is over.
Ooh so you'll test tomorrow then right? That's exciting!! Best of luck.

[Minster2012]

@Vil10 ooooooo I'm sooooo hopeful for you!! In a bizarre way I think that's great 😂🤣you are just a fun slippery mess this month!

@2alreadywantanother date night sounds perfect I think and yes, of course you are good as you are, but it doesn't stop you yearning for another or hurting over your loss lovely. A couple of Brazil nuts a day are meant to aid implantation after ovulation. Meant to of course!

@BellsB1 ooooo the treat is arriving you say??? Are you gonna do it tonight or wait??

[Juno231]

@vil10 wow I'm impressed with how hydrated you must be lol! Sounds like milk/watery CM typical of TWW? Just maybe more of it than usual. Maybe it's the beach cabana juices finally making a reappearance....

@notyetamumbuttrying this whole place is a pity party lol, please carry on moaning. I got a 1 year olds bday to go to this month and have to think about a baby present for my friend who's due soon. You know, the one that started TTC after me... sigh.

@2alreadywantanother that sounds so so lovely!

[BellsB1]

@Minster2012 @notyetamumbuttrying I'm not sure yet, probably wait until tomorrow. Although I just went to the bathroom had had some spotting when I wiped (sorry!), but definitely not a lot my heart dropped a bit. I need to remind myself that either is a positive after my previous cycles. I'm going to see if it develops into full blown AF or disappears (although temp was 37.91 this morning and cervix is still high). God knows what is going on 😂

@notyetamumbuttrying we're here for the highs, the lows and everything in between!! I'm definitely guilty of the green eyed monster when I see announcements/people with babies or babies arriving ❤❤

[Minster2012]

Awwww @Juno231 that's tough, sending hugs your way, I love your thinking about @Vil10 though, it's all that alcohol sweating out of every crevice (ha that word 😂) 😆

@notyetamumbuttrying don't you go anywhere

@BellsB1 it's spotting cos you've been poking around up ya foof girl