Sausages and j*zz - Sep Bus 17

[Juno231]

June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September BFPs so far:
@catherinettc - Sep 4th
@mrsi2020 - Sep 6th
@KateColx - Sep 21st

Testing dates:
@Missgoldilocks - September 23rd
@franklydear - September 27th
@SarahTTC2020 - September 28th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@galatea - September 29th
@clairey844 - September 29th
@Juno231 - September 30th
@hopeful110 - October 2nd
@mrsbear1122 - October 5th
@2020mission - October 6th
@notyetamumbuttrying - October 6th
@minster2012 - October 12th

Delivery arrived, burgers were eaten and custard donuts cos I fancy them, most of the rest put away, well, only the cold stuff, the rest can wait till tomorrow

@Katao yeah I don't know really, I think I need to wait a few days & see if I feel any different, you know like symptom wise or anything 🤷‍♀️I guess at the minute I want to know if the pain meant anything yesterday, I don't know, I just gotta hope 🤞🏻

@Minster2012 bide your time babes 😉 if you test too early you will have more questions than answers

@Franklydear that was really quick cooking & eating of both burgers AND donuts, I'm suspicious 🤔

We had a lovely peanut chicken soy oven thing, it was meant to look like (1), it looked like (2) when it went in the oven & (3) Friday night smush whenever it came out but it tasted bloody great.

@notyetamumbuttrying ahhhh I see what you mean now! And no as @Katao said in theory transfer day was 5dpo for me so ticking time bomb right here, just like you I guess! Maybe everyone should hide with DHs away from us??

As long as it tastes greats! @Minster2012 😏 your nails are fab btw!!
I've moved over to him now and have thawed out a bit. My vag hurts though, I always get a dull pulling feeling, like an ache on my Vulva. Highly uncomfortable! Might just go to bed now. Night ladies 😴

@Katao I will 🤞🏻😫I cant do anything til my tests arrive so that will be fine. Back end of the week at least! It could be @Vil10's time as well next weekend so 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@notyetamumbuttrying you get a dull ache in your vulva before OH is in it??!!!! And this is after you've thawed?? Or do you need to thaw your vag out?! Oh I need bed toooooooo!!

@BellsB1 I hope you make it to that milestone! No AF tomorrow or Sunday 🤞🏻

@Sausage1990 I am so sorry to read your update; I remember your name from the much earlier threads. Not that it's any consolation but I had a MMC back in Feb that was only discovered at my 12 week scan too so I totally get what you're going through. It's just the shittest of the shit and I wish I could say something more helpful. Sending hugs xxx

@Franklydear God I was getting worried any your burgers there for a minute - I'd be raging at 9pm without dinner!

@NestinginNL don't worry I have to wax my tache regularly and don't belong in any country myself xx

AF showed up this evening weirdly enough and I had a little bit of a cry once I got into bed. Pretty tired of this ttc malarkey now.

@Juno231 sending big hugs to you 🤗🥰it's horrible it's just a big ball of poo when you don't want to see it I'm so sorry. Ps, I would be raging by gone 9pm and no food too 😂so h'angry

@Juno231 big hugs for AF, eat lots of chocolate 💛

I did a 15 mile charity walk in the pissing rain yesterday! So today thinking I'll put my feet up and enjoy a cosy day in.
What's everyone else planning?

@Juno231 so sorry that af turned up, sending you lots of hugs❤️ it's shit isn't it, why can't it ever be easy!!

@SarahTTC2020 oooo a cosy day in when it's raining is perfect!!! Get a good film on and some chocolate in! I'm going out for breakfast this morning with my friend (who's 30 weeks pregnant) then OH is out for his friends head wetting this afternoon so I have the house to myself, thinking of swapping all my winter and summer clothes round then having a chilled day with a brew and full packet of biscuits!!

So I've had another thought about my ovulation, last month I thought I was ovulation as usual around CD16, but because of those northisterone I took I ovulated late at cd22, what if that's the case this time? I know I had ewcm but I'm just worrying and I don't know why😩 I don't want another late cycle and I think because I didn't see a positive opk im thinking what if I'm not ovulating!!

@SarahTTC2020 you def deserve a cosy day in then after yesterday!!

@Vil10 I took all my winter stuff out last week when it was raining and put away summer stuff, I've still got a bit to do but it's a great rainy day job

@Minster2012 isn't it a perfect job for today! I love doing this kinda stuff, I've ordered new winter clothes too and can't wait for them to arrive, just need to order some boots, wanted some dr martens for ages but I have quite big feet and long legs so I think they'd make me look like I have clown feet! According to flo ovulation is today but had negative opks so bd this morning just in case!

Ooooo yay for new clothes @Vil10 especially snuggly ones! I have wayyy too many cashmere jumpers to admit too, I buy these really funky ones in a sample sale to get them cheap when they are stupidly expensive in reality 😬🙈with sequins on and rainbows! I also have 3 pairs of docs (did you see my sequin rainbow ones?) but I get them from a designer outlet so they are cheaper & I can get on kids sizes 😂though my sequins are adults size 4 (but I could have had size 3) try them just be aware you need to break them in. No clown feet 🥰

Oh god ladies you are gonna have to talk me down & keep me from going mad at IVF ladies I'm afraid. I may just have to stop looking as now 3 ladies who had their transfer last week are getting really negative either for no reason or yesterday one posted about having cramps & spotting bleeding at the exact time of what would be implantation saying "that's it I'm out I might just stop my meds it's all negative signs" another one last week literally at the point I am at now (a few days after transfer so like you at 8dpo) was all "I know it's not worked I feel nothing" 🤷‍♀️I'm already thinking of the next cycle.

I actually said to the lady who had the spotting "most of us TTC WANT to see spotting at that point! It's a positive sign, out your big girl pants on & think positive & if you stop your meds that little embryo who has nestled in will be lost to an AF for no reason"

The other one I tried to get her to be positive & guess what she's just find a test )' it's a faint line.
Honestly throw us a bone here. 🤦🏼‍♀️

@SarahTTC2020 a rest day today sounds lovely. Get your feet up and snuggle in for the rain! Well done on your charity walk

@Minster2012 thanks! It's 10dpo morning and no sign of her yet, but I had really weird cramps last night so I think she's coming. Going to keep my legs crossed today and try get through my first double digit day 😂🤞 I love love those boots!😍

@Juno231, so sorry AF turned up, the bitch!

@NestinginNL @Juno231 I'm also a regular Tash wafer 😂

I leapt out of bed this morning for FMU, before I could get the urge to POAS. I really wish I didn't have any in the house so it wasn't so easy. They've always been BFN anyway, and even though I don't mind as I know it's too early I just feel stupid... 7dpo this month when I first tested 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Juno231 sorry that the bloody bitch turned up! Don't blame you for having a little cry, it's better out than in. Hope you've woken up this morning feeling abit better. Like everyone else says, today is a clean slate & new cycle, turn the negative thinking into positive thinking & you're one day closer to ovulation now. I know I've said it a few times but I fell on my 15th cycle, & I really think it was the Coq10 tablets & the DHA ones I took. They say give them 3 months to get in your system & I fell on my 3rd month of taking them (even though it ended in a loss at 5wks) it could just be coincidence but something in my gut is telling me it wasn't coincidence & it was these tablets!
@Minster2012 really hope that pain you got the other day is a good sign🤞🏻 I thought that @lucyrp had been quiet, I didn't realise she was taking a break from here, I'm missing her comments!
@Vil10 just keep shagging every other day my love!🙈 when is AF supposed to be due? I'll join you in the big feet long legs club🙋‍♀️ you saying about Doc Martins, I was thinking exactly the same last night, might get out my Timberlands & wear with skinny jeans but worried my feet would look to big🙉
@Minster2012 it must be hard looking at those ivf threads if they're all negative on there! That's not what you want to see!! Stay away & stick with us! You don't need negativity in your life right now!
Have a good wknd everyone, I think I might have a few drinks tonight as feeling at a loose end as no idea what's going on in my cycle 🤦‍♀️

@Minster2012 haha 😂 your msg last night! So the thawing out was in regards to my raging pms, my aching vag is the feeling I get when I'm due on. It's like a dull pulling feeling, hard to describe but that's what it's like sometimes. Means I'm in for a painful period next week 😣
Ooh nice boots!
Eek to those early testers! I'd wait a few more days so that you don't have to worry about faint lines etc.
@Juno231 sorry to hear honey! Do you have nice things planned this weekend to take your mind off it?
I'm helping my mate move in to her new flat today, in this shitty weather 😫

@notyetamumbuttrying for my early testing I justify it in my head as 'technically I'm only 2 days before my missed period' at 7dpo, even though I know it's impossible to get a positive 😂

@Minster2012, definitely don't need any negativity in your life! I can understand the worry from people but you need to look after yourself and do what's best for you too as well ❤

@Minster2012 @Juno231 delivery was meant for 7, come 8.30, we are Europeans after all, dinner is always pretty late, but yesterday took the mickey!
Sorry about af @Juno231, I am also tired of the ttc malarkey, so took a break from everything but shagging, let’s see what happens
@minter here for you, girl, no negativity allowed
@Vil10 you rock your boots girl, I used to wear army boots, military issued, in my teens and twenties, I am only 5 ft2 and size 5/6 so not even long legs 👀
@notyetamumbuttrying I get the same ache on af, but not every time before... or maybe just be in denial if I am hopeful
We started our own bonkfest, once in the middle of the night and again in the morning, trying to keep quiet as ds was awake, daredevils we are, I don’t think we fooled our parents when we were teens, maybe we got better at it😳

Ha ha ha @BellsB1 "jumping out of bed to pee!" That's great no AF though I've got everything crossed 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻she stays away & you can test and get a result tomorrow

@notyetamumbuttrying ahhh I see, I have a dull aching vulva too. DH says it's a dull ache coz it's not had his dick since Monday 🙄 ....it's yearning. I said I VERY much doubt that's the case. I'm hoping it doesn't mean bad things for either of us but you could act on your vag's yearning & invite your FH from the other side of the sofa! Once you e helped your mate move of course!

@Chlo2701 I think timberlands and skinny's are perfect for October. Don't worry about your feet. My DH is 6'6" and has size 12/13 feet & yet wears skinny jeans & pointy shoes! Don't worry what other ppl think.

I am so pleased I have you lovely ladies
I'm sure @lucyrp will be keeping an eye on proceedings and knows we all love her & miss her

@Minster2012 I know I'll be restrained on the POAS front if I've already got rid of FMU 😂 It's when I lie in bed over thinking it that I'm like oh, I'll just use one and see... then it's stark white and I'm annoyed I wasted one.

DH is trying to get some attention isn't he 😂😂 what a way with words he has!

I love skinny jeans, although I definitely don't fit in mine since lockdown. I have small feet for my height though 😂

@BellsB1 ahh bless you lol! Have you spoken to the docs about your short LP?
@Franklydear it hurts, but not quite enough for painkillers but I did cave last night and took one before bed. It hurts today as well but not as bad. I'm hoping with being distracted all day, the pains ease up. Yay to bonkfest 2020 for you as well!! I will try my best to jump mine when I get bk @Minster2012! Your Dh cracks me up, wish mine was more like that. I'm sure it's fine for you, I know mine means period imminent though. I'm ok with it.