Crazy gang part..errr f*ck who knows anymore!

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Hey @Danni2019 @Mumofboys17 @LAnna20 @lv1987 @katie1109

I don't know if I missed anyone sorry!! Please tag others of you notice any missing xx

I got my peak two days late today is cd17 but I got it thank god along with a lot of ewcm today. Didn't manage to dtd last night I fell asleep and my OH didn't wake me up grrrrrr but we dtd from cd13 to cd15 and will dtd twice tonight! Hope that does it!!

@Ange211 so sorry to hear your going through this. Spotting can happen in early pregnancy and go on to be fine but I understand thinking the worst. I'm sending you lots of virtual hugs. ❤

@Danni2020 it’s getting heavier & more painful now. It’s over 😭

Oh @Ange211 I'm so sorry to hear this 😢 sending my love 💓

@Boo2020 thanks x

@Ange211 I'm so sorry to hear this. I have everything crossed for you x

@Ange211 so sorry my love x

Big hugs @Ange211 - I'm so sorry, how are you doing?

@LAnna20 @Danni2020 thanks girls
@Fredthespider I’m actually ok - obviously very disappointed but I’ll be fine.
I’m not sure whether just to move on or keep trying. DS2 is 4 & a half now and we’ve been trying since I stopped BF him at 18 months. My husband was absolutely gutted this time round and I’m not sure I can bear constantly letting him down :(

Hey ladies, been absent for a while just trying not to think about it so much as it's really getting me down.

Well I'm on CD37 and just had a peak (god knows what going on but I was due AF this weekend (well tomorrow actually) I'm so confused as I've never ovulated this late ...x

@Boo2020 could it be that you could be pregnant as I've read a lot of people get a positive OPK before a BFP if you are due your af this weekend could be? Fingers crossed that's the case x

@Danni2020 I've just took a test and it was negative..I will do another in the morning but I've got zero symptoms!

Yes I can vouch for that! I had a positive ovulation before my last pregnancy (miscarried at 10 weeks though) x

@Boo2020 did you test again? Would a super long cycle be normal for you? My only other suggestion would have been that you are already pregnant - 🤞

@Ange211 so sorry I'm only just getting back to you! I've just found out my younger sister is pregnant, and although I am over the moon and excited for her (this will be her second child, she as a DD who's 5) its really got me down 😔 (she only come offf the pill couple of months ago)..i feel so horrible by the way I'm feeling, if I wasn't trying myself I know I would be running across her house now celebrating..

Anyway, I didn't do a test because i felt if the last test was negative (14dpo ) then I am not but I do think it was ovulation (2 days peak and now gone back down) we only DTD on the day of ovulation so I've not got much hope! And with this absolutely ridiculous long cycle I don't think this month is going happen! 3dpo now so we will see..

PS I'm just drowning my sorrows with prosecco as we speak..

How are you doing?? Xx

@Boo2020 I honestly know exactly how you feel - my sis in law announced a surprise pregnancy 2 Christmas’s ago about a month after I’d miscarried. I just felt so resentful & frankly jealous and then Guilty for feeling that way. I almost pulled out of visiting for Christmas Day as it got me down so much.
I think if you dtd on or very near o day you’ve as much chance as any 🤞

How is everyone? Anything to report? I’m in fw so that’s always fun 😍

Hello everyone just checking in too @Ange211 hope you enjoyed your fw. I had my scan and got tubes checked and all is healthy. Which is a good thing but now back to square one. We have decided to give it 6 more months and if nothing happens we are going to try IVF. So at least I have a time frame in my head now. My af has shown up yesterday but it is very heavy and painful which I haven't had in ages and taking as a good sign as I go in to my first cycle after my tubes have had a little clean out. Keeping my fingers crossed 🤞 x

@Danni2020 that’s good news that everything is well. I hope your tube “flush” brings you some good luck 🤞
I’m into my tww with nothing of interest to report other than I did really really enjoy fw 😍 at least if we didn’t make a baby we had fun 😉

@Danni2020 everything was good! And now at least you have a goal in mind but fingers crossed you won't need to go down that route!

@ange211 well CD51 & according to my peak I'm now 13dpo for me 🙈..I honestly feel like I'm going backwards all the time, but what do you think of my chart 🤔? I mean what the hell is going on because I've took a test yesterday (on a cheaper) and it was negative..I have also done a LH test about an hour ago...

Sorry forgot to attach..

And this was my LH an hour ago..

@Boo2020 honestly I have no clue unless you are actually pregnant & the cheapie just hasn’t picked it up yet? Normally I’d suggest visiting your GP for bloods but that’s going To be very difficult to coordinate if you don’t have a “standard” cycle. Hmm I’m stumped. Sorry that’s less than useful.

@Ange211e either 😔...ahh well I will just wait until next week and if AF still not her will get a FRER..

Thanks for getting back to me xx

Me either*

@Boo2020 I don't have much advice either but cycle day 51 wow! Well done you for keeping your spirits up. I have regular cycles and find this so tough I can't even imagine what it's like for you going through this. Definitely sending virtual hugs right now!! I really hope your af stays away for you and if 13dpo then doing a cheap test at 12dpo may not be positive yet. It seems strange to have a lh surge again so late on in your cycle. I've done then before around the same time 13dpo before af was due and stark white! Really not sure what is going on. Anyway to speak to your gp about how to regulate your cycles again. I know when I had my miscarriage it took nearly 5 months for my cycles to return and the doctor suggested going on the pill again to regulate them which seemed crazy when your trying but I was willing to try anything luckily my cycles returned before I had to so was lucky but it has been found to work or does clomid not help with this too? Hopefully your positive lh surge means a positive for you and a frer might put your mind at ease as it would surely show up now at 13dpo. Keep us posted x

@Boo2020 the deep recesses of my brain tells me you can get a blood test for irregular periods. They test for gonadotropin which stimulates ovulation. Irregular periods by definition being if you have one more regularly than every 21 days or less often than every 35 - that’s definitely you!
Assuming of course you’re not already bfp which I 💯 hope you are 🤞🤞🤞