🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 4 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi everyone,

Setting up the new thread for us - we have come a long way since January and sadly a few of us are still on the "journey". Let's hope we arent here for much longer. Wishing us all baby dust (although its been so long I am not sure dust will do it for me - maybe will have to up the particle size to "baby sand" )

Ttc ladies:
@Fizzl
@Nuggetlover27
@ELM7
@Ljm0101
@Abi0795
@Babyghirl

And our recent bfps who i know like to check in :)
@Leok83
@scrumdiddly123
@SunnySideUp2020

Ah congratulations @ELM7 that's amazing news! I also agree, your puppy is adorable! Be warned though, the smell of my dog is making my stomach turn at the minute and I can't stand to be near her even tho she's still completely loved and adored 😂

Haha @Annny27 I was just going to say you know what you need to do! The puppy has clearly worked their magic somehow. It's worth a shot plus you get a squishy puppy!

@Babyghirl loving the decorations! We put ours up last weekend 😳 we just thought why not it makes the house more cosy and we love the build up to Christmas. The only pain is how many lights we have to switch off at night now 😂 we go a bit ott with decs and have trees and lights and wreaths and garlands all over the house and it's a nightmare to turn them all on and off!

Ahhhh @ELM7 what amazing amazing news!! Crossing everything for your little bean! It’s bloody terrifying in those early days, but just keep telling yourself that this is a different pregnancy and the odds are on your side ❤️ Sending you lots of love! Try and enjoy that BFP as much as possible 😍

@fizzl
I knw its gorg all light up but a pain turning it all off lol, how's bean doing I woke up to my period so 29 days after miscarriage bleeding started so bck to a 29 day cycle which I'm happy about I will know where I am nw just to start baby dancing again lol hoping 4th time lucky x

Was thinking and in fact you could say I’d done something different. I started to take these mid Oct (so about halfway through my last cycle before this one) and also got DH taking them too.

Was something I saw on Luisa Zissman blog (who was on the apprentice) www.luisazissman.co.uk/?p=647

The female ones you are meant to take 2 a day but I only ever took one a day as always forgot to take the second one. No idea if it’s made a difference or not.

Morning 🥰 broke my no opk rule 🤣 did one yesterday and it was positive and today it is too - I usually get 2 days of positives do will probably ovulate overnight.

@Babyghirl decorations are looking lovely! I really like the colour scheme in the living room- I am a sucker for yellow!
Mine aren't up yet, my cat loves to destroy Christmas trees so I try not put it up till about the 10th as I cant handle trying to protect it for more than a few weeks haha

@ELM7 if we don't conceive imight look into this vitamins then to give an extra boost 🎉 yep the doctors will probs want to see you anyway and you will be very well looked after! How common is a double uterus?

@sunnysideup2020 I felt the same when we got married. Not much changed except now I can push a little more in arguments 🤣🤣

@fizzl my husband does want another car do maybe a kitten will do the same trick to my uterus as a puppy to for @ELM7 haha

Another cat not another car @fizzl*

@Annny27
Thank you needs done again but I dare tell the oh that I want it done again 😂😂😂😂😂 my dad a painter and Decorater so not to bad, I c your coming in to your tww get at it lol and good luck this cycle I'm on cd2 but not going to keep track off anything just going with the flow and waiting on my app coming in 💚🍀

@Annny27 according to Dr google about 1 in 2000 woman have a double uterus. But it’s something I don’t know a huge amount about as it was only discovered when I had the scan last time which confirmed the MMC so the focus was dealing with the MC.

Go for it add a kitten to the family - really hope this TWW Brings your 🌈

@ELM7
Have you got a double uterus I was told I have a heart shape uterus and have read it can cause miscarriages if the egg in plants in a certain place so going to say to my fertility specialist when I get an app with him again as I knw they can op to fix it x

I have had the worst night with horrible tooth pain 😭 going to have to see the emergency dentist but also doubly gutting that we won't be having sex today so we missed ovulation day and the day after ovulation. But I dont want to tell my child that they were conceived whilst mum was dialling the emergency dentist and in agony haha 🤣

@Babyghirl haha! Yep I want to redercorate our bedroom....its been 4 years so I am.grtting itchy just to spruce a few things in there up

@ELM7 if you sre at a hospita where students learn then you may be seeing a lot of them if its rare haha! You will rest ways knowing you will get the best care

@Annny27
If you had sex leading up to ovulation you should be covered it only takes one so don't worry bot that, I was thinking blush pink for my bedroom but I may leave it awhile because we r only in the house over a year so not long done 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 🍀💚

@Annny27
Hope you get the tooth sorted out nothing worse than a sore tooth pain is awful. X

Hi Ladies hope you are all doing well. Iv been AWOL this month trying not to think about the usual stuff. AF due today snd I have a horrendous migraine so she’ll show up later today or tomorrow no doubt.

@ELM7 congratulations brilliant news

@Babyghirl how are you doing?

@27DONFIN
I'm doing OK bck to work in two weeks so just taking it easy just over my first period from the loss bang on 29 days from the miscarriage bleeding started so bck on the ttc wagon 😂😂😂😂 waiting on my fertility specialist app which they said will be January sometime, but I was told by the midwife on my scan I have a heart shape uterus don't know if it's just a bit of one or bad so will mention that at my app cause egg could be implanting on the dip where there Is no blood supply and can cause rm,
How r you getting on hopefully the which stays away for u for the next nine months 🙏🤞🍀💚

@Babyghirl Everything is a wait for us isn’t it I hope December flys in for you.

Feeling rotten today can’t shift my migraine luckily was a half day to try sleep it off. I was due yesterday/today refusing to test unless I’m really late. I’m sure she’ll turn up tomorrow x

@27DONFIN
Spend r younger years believing you can get pregnant so easy due to sex education, but how wrong where they it's turning out to be the biggest wait for us ladies, hoping your sore head disappears for you nothing worse. Hoping it flying in to and hopefully get some along waited answers and hopefully 4th time lucky. I know a few girls that r pregnant and let's just say where drink and drugs every weekend and there having healthy pregnancys and here's us makes you so angry. Xx

How’s the tooth ache @Annny27hope you were able to get in to see a dentist. x

Evening :)

@Babyghirl ooh I do love blush pink and white/grey! I am loving mustard and navy at the moment too

@27DONFIN I was just thinking of you this morning! Glad to see you are okay. I will be crossing my fingers that your AF stays away!

@ELM7 they've put some medicine in the tooth so hopefully that does the trick! Still aching a bit so I have taken an ibuprofen and now instantly regretting it as I am 1dpo and in my anxious mind that means I have ruined chances for implantation this month 🙈🙈🙈

Have you had any symptoms or are you lucky at rhe moment?

Ahh hope what they’ve done helps and tooth ache goes. I would say dont stress about the ibuprofen but hey we stress about every step of TTC and the TWW. I’m sure it won’t make any impact though.

Mild symptoms of tender boobs and am exhausted (although some of that might be connected to puppy). Keep feeling a bit sicky but don’t know if that’s just in my head as I didn’t really have symptoms last time so trying to convince myself that symptoms will mean it’s a sticky bean.

@Annny27
My mate done the navy and its gorg I love fresh paint and wall paper would do it every 6 months if I could 😂😂😂😂😂 x

Hi ladies.

Sorry I've been quiet lately. Nothing to update here, think I'm around 4DPO. This TWW is dragging! Haha. No symptoms (not surprising)

@ELM7 your new puppy is adorable! And omg congratulations on you BFP!! So deserved 😘

@Babyghirl your Christmas decs look gorgeous well done! Glad AF arrived for you and you seem to be back to a regular cycle already

@Annny27 hope your tooth is feeling better! DH called his dr Friday and they told him the results from the SA were there and the dr would call him today (hate when they say things like that) so we've been anxious all weekend. Today his dr called and told him that his sperm is misshaped 😕 apparently it's the most common problem but nothing they can do other than "keep doing what we are doing" I have to go for a swab at some point and then we can be recommended to fertility specialists. It's disheartening even though the dr said he can still conceive naturally it will just take longer (like we don't already know! Over a year later! 🙄) I think I will wait until after Xmas to book in my swab because the last time was so painful. I'm hoping so hard it happens naturally for us 😔

@Nuggetlover27 your DP has the same issue that mine has - low morphology (shape). Its frustrating because like you, we conceived really quickly last time so I know some of them work 🤣 we have been told to try again for a few months and then in February we have another fertility appointment where they may recommend ivf I suppose!

Sorry your results weren't amazing but atleast the morphology and count were okay 🙌

@ELM7 I would be the same! Wanting to feel very sick - goodness ttc and miscarriages make us crazy dont they haha!

@Babyghirl are you looking forward to going back to work?

Motility and count were okay*

@nuggetlover27
Glad my cycle has went bck to a normal cycle just hope it stays that way lol. We r just building r Dec's up as we r only here a year but if dp had his way it would be like the North Pole lol x
@Annny27
I am looking forward to it my best mate works with me has done for 18 years even thou she 20 years older than me she missing me to and can't wait to I get bck x

@Annny27 sorry your results weren’t as you hoped

Af arrived last night feeling very numb about it this month. As yet no tears no breakdown. Usually it’s before she turns up thst happens so my OH will be delighted if I manage not to lol

How’s everyone feeling about Christmas? Is it just me that since ttc that hates it? Feel it’s a another milestone of it’s not happening. X