🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 4 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi everyone,

Setting up the new thread for us - we have come a long way since January and sadly a few of us are still on the "journey". Let's hope we arent here for much longer. Wishing us all baby dust (although its been so long I am not sure dust will do it for me - maybe will have to up the particle size to "baby sand" )

Ttc ladies:
@Fizzl
@Nuggetlover27
@ELM7
@Ljm0101
@Abi0795
@Babyghirl

And our recent bfps who i know like to check in :)
@Leok83
@scrumdiddly123
@SunnySideUp2020

Ah I'm sorry @Nuggetlover27 it really is crap and I know how you feel with cycles being all over the place 😞 when did you ovulate last month? It's so hard not having a predictable cycle it just makes the whole process feel more tricky. I don't really have any advice other than keep going for now and hopefully you'll ovulate soon. Acupuncture seems to have been doing the trick for me too.

How's everyone else doing? Who's left on this thread now? Feels like it's really dwindling now.

@Fizzl I’m still here. 12 mths since I got the BFP. Never thought I’d be a year down the line with no sign of a rainbow!

@Nuggetlover27 how frustrating for you, so sorry your cycles not behaving!
@Fizzl I’m still lurking and eagerly waiting for you all to get those well deserved BFPs 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
Hope everyone is doing ok, really miss checking in with you all every day!

Hi girls :D

Yep still here! Cd10 and had a bit of ewcm yesterday but none today so guess fertile week is slowly starting for me

@ELM7 same! It has been a year for me as well! Come on rainbow babies, grow grow grow!

@fizzl yep it is a very quiet thread compared to how it was when we couldn't keep up in March haha!

@scrumdiddly123 so sweet of you to stick around 😊😊

I am quite relaxed this month as its been 2 days since we last dtd and I am not forcing ourselves to do it tonight haha! We'll do it tomorrow and get back on the every other day schedule :) I hope DHs SA results come back tomorrow!

Good morning ladies how yous all doing, just checking in hope yous r all close to ovulation, and remember as much as I hated hearing it and give people the eyes when they told me it try to relax its going to happen soon ladies, I'm 5+4 today got the hospital next Thursday can't come quick enough tbh I will be 7 weeks then 🙏🤞🙏🤞. I'm being as positive as I possibly can be not going to lie I have a wobble more than enough lol. But all I can do is hope that peanut is here to stay. And I get past the next 6 weeks 🍀💚🍀💚

@Fizzl @scrumdiddly123 I'm still lurking too - I'm desperate for you girls to get your BFPs!! 🌈 💫 can't believe it's about a year ago we were all getting those positive tests 😔 hope you're all okay 😘

@Babyghirl hi lovely, I don't think we've met/chatted before (I was on this thread Jan - April but now pregnant with my rainbow twins! 🌈) but just want to say congratulations to you. I've read your story and I'm so happy for you! Fingers crossed this one is a sticky bean 🤞🏻 if you want to join us on the pregnancy thread you'd be more than welcome! Everyone on there started their journey on this thread first, all having experienced losses, so we know how anxiety inducing it is to be pregnant again after such a traumatic time. I'll post a link 😊😘

@Babyghirl www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/4005756-catching-up-ttc-after-miscarriage-part-3?pg=6

That's the one ^ hopefully see you there 🌈

@milscookie
Thank you will pop over after 2 losses it's nerve racking tbh will take a wee pop over to the thread nw and a massive congratulations on your pregnancy double happiness I can do with talking to ladies who pregnant after losses keep popping bck on here cause I can't wait to c more bfp from these girls 💚🍀 x

I’m still lurking here too, also wanting to see you all get your positive tests and rainbows! ❤️

I'm also going to be around here until you guys get your BFPs and join us on the other thread!

@Annny27 did you get the SA results today? xx

Morning all.
Thanks for all your messages. I'm now CD23 and reading a big fat zero on the OPKs still :/. Just DTD ever other day and wishing for something to happen. I want my 🌈 !!!!!

@Babyghirl I don't know if not doing the OPKs would make me relax as it would still be on my mind when I am I ov etc 😕 how are you doing? Nearly 6 weeks now aren't you, how exciting. My fingers are all crossed for your scan next week lovely!

@Fizzl last month I ov on CD25/26 so just hoping for the same this month but no signs atm. Are you coming up to ov?

@ELM7 I never thought I would be here a year down the line either ❤️

@Annny27 it's good you're taking a relaxed approach. Hope that works for you 🤞🏻any sign of ov yet?

Morning :) cd12 and slight ewcm so maybe ovulation in a week or so :)

Girls this might be TMI (it is haha) but we has amazing sex last night that didn't feel ttc focused atall :D sounds so silly but its been so regimented and mechanic for months so I was really happy 😊

@Leok83 no, he called his GP and the clinic today and they haven't got the results through yet. The clinic are calling him back later to let him know when they'll be sending them to the GP as they aren't actually allowed to give out the results directly!

@Nuggetlover27 I'm about as relaxed as a tightly wound spring most of the time haha! So slightly more relaxed than usual is still not relaxed for most people haha!

Sorry that the opks aren't positive yet :( :(

@TerribleImagination @MilsCookie @scrumdiddly123 can't wait untill we can join you all and this thread is officially all bfp ladies :D

@Babyghirl have you had any symptoms yet? And yes the internal scan will be nothing to worry about. I had about 5 throughout my last pregnancy. And none of them caused my to bleed :)

@nuggetlover27
Going 6 weeks on Thursday feel like the last 2weeks have dragged in tbh but I knw it has nt lol just wish the nxt 6 weeks would fly in my swab results came back and I have strep b 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
@Annny27 tiredness is real 😂😂😂😂 feel sick on and off constipated on and off to breasts sore to but it does come ago more sore during the nite and in the morning but seems to be with me alday today glad you enjoyed last nite and everything else was off your mind that's wat way I was last month now you have spotted ewcm just go with the flow now and don't make it feel like a chore and hopefully it will happen girl 💚🍀

Just checking in girls anyone close to ovulation or coming to end off there cycle. We need another bfp from this thread girls could do with a early pregnancy friend lol.

Hello :D i had a letter this morning from the nhs fertility clinic and I have a telephone consultation on Monday so I imagine that will be evaluation of what tests I will need as well!

@Babyghirl I will volunteer to be your early pregnancy friend 😂 I am about to ovulate in a few days I reckon :) oh constipation doesn't sound fun!

@Annny27
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 You will be joining me soon do you know last year when I feel pregnant I had just got word from the fertility clinic my doc said that happens a lot. We relax a lot when we know the fertility clinic is in r reach. My first app was bloods an internal scan to check my womb and a swab for any stis lol I was not long after my second loss when I went to them. Did your dp get his results yet. 🍀💚

As promised

We are having a baby girl 💗💗💗

Aww congratulations @SunnySideUp2020 !!!! So so happy for you! 💖💖

Ah hello lurkers 👋🏼 it's nice to know you're still here rooting for us!

@Nuggetlover27 im on cd14 and normally (hopefully) ovulate between cd17-19 so a few days off. No signs of ovulation yet. Was hoping my acupuncture session yesterday might have kicked started things a bit early but doesn't seem so yet!

@Annny27 ah that's good news about your appointment! They got the ball rolling quickly for you didn't they?

Glad everything is going well for you so far @Babyghirl - everything crossed for you for your scan next week

@SunnySideUp2020 that's really lovely news! You must be thrilled and very excited!

I feel the same as @Annny27 in that I'd be pleased with either a boy or girl at this point now. I think somewhere deep down I always liked the idea of a girl but I also just see us with boys for some reason so either way I'd be happy.

I'm so anxious today girls I'm telling myself nt if it happens again it's when it happens again 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I already have it in my head that I think I would bck home with my folks for my husband to be to find a woman that can do what she meant to do the struggle is real hate feeling something so magical is hunting me from I wake to I go to bed 😢😢😢😢😢

Well that was short lived ladies looks like I will be joining yous again girls started cramping and brown blood last nite 3rd loss I'm broke 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Oh my goodness @Babyghirl I will be devastated for you if this is the case. Can you call the EPU and get seen sooner to confirm? Cramps and brown blood aren't always a bad sign, it could be little baby burrowing deeper. I am pretty sure 50% of the pregnant girls have had brown blood plus cramps! Keep hoping!

@SunnySideUp2020 a little girl :D that's Amazing 💗💗💗 little girls are bundles of joy 🥰🥰

@fizzl yes they are pretty quick! I am very lucky although I imagine that whilst the initial appointment is quick, any investigations may have a waiting time but I hope that isn't the case 🤞🤞 I am cd14 and no positive opk yet but probably coming soon!

@Nuggetlover27 have you tried anything to bring ovulation sooner in any cycles? There's something called soy isoflavines or something along those lines that a few other girls i have talked to have used

@Annny27 did you get your DH results back??.

@Babyghirl brown blood is very common in early pregnancy.
Don't assume it's over just yet.
Give it some time it might just be implantation bleeding. Lots of ladies on the pregnancy thread had light bleeding early on and all was well.
Will have everything crossed for you z

@SunnySideUp2020 no! They SA clinic said it can take a week to send to the GP which would be today and then can take some time for the GP to call....... I want them to get back to us before Monday which is my fertility appointment day!