9dpo and cramping ttc driving myself mad hoping this is baby number 2 on the way

[Nls90x]

Hi everyone,

As above 9 days dpo and experiencing cramps. Stupidly bought 20 one step tests online and have been secretly testing every morning for two days.

Recently had a chemical I have a 19 month old and we are ready for bundle of joy number 2 .

Is it normal to be this crazy and hiding testing so you don’t look like a mad woman lol

For all those trying I wish you all baby dust in the world :) :) :) I just needed to get it out there x

@Mrschips07 that's good to see thank you for posting that so there's some hope for me yet x

@TJ17 That definitely makes sense then. You probably ovulated 6 days late and would probably have had a 34 day cycle if it hadn't been for conceiving. Our bodies like to throw curve balls occasionally 😄

Morning ladies!!!!! Xxxx

Morning! Caved and did a frer- stark white. 11 dpi here so now feel like it’s not my month!
I have a really full feeling in my uterus 🤣 can’t describe it any other way. No idea if that’s good or bad!

I also had a BFN I'm now 14/15 DPO

Not related but I've been feeling very warm so I've been taking my temp at one point I was 35.9!! Lol it's been like this for 3 days now how weird x

First day I feel af I think no test today!!
Will just see what happens.......
Looking forward to the next lot of posts your all keeping my sanity so thanks!!!! Xx

BFN for me too this morning 🤦🏼‍♀️
I thought I saw a line... then I didn’t.... then I did.... then I didn’t haha my mind is well and truly playing tricks on me. I’ve had cramps the past few days and now started with a dull ache in my lower left back. 11DPO for me today too.

@Nls90x that's a cool temp! Are you sure?

I'm 9dpo today, thought I saw the faint shadow of a line on an IC but wonder if I'm convincing myself. Feel nauseous and very tired, got a constant ache in my uterus and tons of cm

@Mrschips07 it's a digital thermometer I used it on my head it must just be cold 😂

Well it's sounding good for you! I usually have a short cycle was due AF yesterday but I did have a chemical last month so maybe it's messed my days up xx

Hi guys, hope it would be okay if I joined this thread as I have been following it and I really hope that you guys get your BFP. This is my first month ttc ever, got my Mirena coil out earlier this month and had what could potentially have been my AF a few days later which would put my ovulation date as today (if I am even ovulating at all yet!!). Don’t really want to use OPK or temping yet as have agreed with my partner to just “see how it goes” for the first few months but obviously I’m already obsessed haha! Been crazily overanalysing every symptom wondering if maybe I could have ovulated earlier or just as it got taken out etc driving myself mad. Have told myself I am not to test until it’s been at least 4 weeks since I last bled.

@Gep2831 hi! I’m a fellow Mirena coil removal person 🤣 got mine out on 2nd but had no bled whatsoever yet so actually for me it’s been really handy to do temp and opks this month so at least I think I ovulated according to them. I’m a bit in the dark otherwise so it’s good you had a withdrawal bleed (it was probably a withdrawal bleed as that’s what should happen a few days after having it removed).
That said I’ve not told my DH I’m doing temps and opks so he’s nicely in the dark! We’re 38 though so no time to lose really

@LaceyMermaid hi! Been trying so hard to stay off the internet because I have heard so many horror stories about ttc after mirena but then on this site I have found a lot of people who have had a BFP before getting a single AF after removal so good luck let’s see what happens!

Fingers crossed for us both!

HELP
is there a line? Isn’t there a line? Is it a shadow line? Am I going mad? AF due tomorrow and been cramping bad the past few days.

@clkx looks like a v faint line to me, the dye is dark so hard to tell if there's colour. Is it pink?

Hi @Mrschips07 ye it’s pink I’ve just done another clear blue and it’s a positive!!! Ahhhhhhhhh

Ah congrats @clkx that’s brilliant!

@Nls90x

Out of the game 😰😰

Hope all you ladies are well today congrats @clkx xx

@Kitkatb0808 aww I'm sorry next month is our month!

I've had another BFN I'm now 15/16 DPO not even a faint have got thrush also so I'm in a bad mood! Also hating myself and everything which usually is a sign AF is coming very soon.

@clkx congratulations on your BFP ❤️ x

Thankyou so much everyone.
I’m still on the fence 🤣 there’s definitely a line on both of them but every faint. AF due tomorrow so I’m going to leave it a few days and then test again Monday just to make sure!
You lot have been such a great support over the past few days!!xx

@clkx keep us updated 😃 xx

Hi everyone how are you all?

I didn't test today I've had enough 😂 just going to wait for AF.

Anyone doing anything good this weekend? Hope it's a great one for you xx

I tested but actually think I ovulated 7 days later than I thought now 🤷🏼‍♀️ So thought I was 13dpo but now someone has looked at my temps for me I think I’m actually 7dpo. So bfn for me today obvs! Will wait now until next weekend and see what happens!

@Nls90x don't blame you, that's where I'm currently at with testing. Going to hold off and just see what happens. I feel like I have every symptom going but maybe I'm just being hopeful.

How many dpo today and how long til AF?

@Mrschips07 I'm 16/17 dpo and two days late for AF but I think my cycle has messed up after the chemical which means I would of ovulated later.

It's not my month this month but hopefully I can work out my ovulation date better this month

Good luck to you ❤️

@LaceyMermaid hopefully your BFP comes soon! I'll keep my fingers crossed xx