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9dpo and cramping ttc driving myself mad hoping this is baby number 2 on the way

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Nls90x · 24/07/2020 19:20

Hi everyone,

As above 9 days dpo and experiencing cramps. Stupidly bought 20 one step tests online and have been secretly testing every morning for two days.

Recently had a chemical I have a 19 month old and we are ready for bundle of joy number 2 .

Is it normal to be this crazy and hiding testing so you don’t look like a mad woman lol

For all those trying I wish you all baby dust in the world :) :) :) I just needed to get it out there Grin x

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Nls90x · 26/07/2020 10:38

@Kitkatb0808 this is our week! Fingers crossed for us both! ❤️ xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 26/07/2020 10:49

@Nls90x

I don’t have a good feeling myself this time I don’t know why .....
rollercoaster 🎢 but I am with you fingers crossed 🤞......xxxx

sindylouwho · 26/07/2020 12:05

Another test... bfn. Which I expected. I'm due this Friday or Saturday.

Nls90x · 26/07/2020 12:07

@sindylouwho
@Kitkatb0808

Yeah I'm not too hopeful either :( xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 26/07/2020 15:47

@Nls90x
@sindylouwho
@Curiosity101

Just checking you ladies are all ok!! Xxx

Nls90x · 26/07/2020 15:58

@Kitkatb0808 I'm ok thanks how are you? Kinda feel crampy I think AF may come tomorrow x

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Kitkatb0808 · 26/07/2020 16:01

@Nls90x
Fed up to be honest headaches too hot just can’t stop my mind ticking this is not good!! Hey on the bright side we all may have good news soon!! If not we can keep each other going until we do!! Xxx

Curiosity101 · 26/07/2020 16:04

@Kitkatb0808 I'm good thanks. Not TTC just yet, I need to finish my maternity leave before we can consider TTC.

I am considering buying some OPKs for the next few months whilst we're not trying though. I had my implant removed just over a month ago so we're on barrier methods of contraception at the moment. It'd be nice to know when I've ovulated so we don't need to worry for the rest of the month. We can only do that once we're NTNP though, cause I really can't risk conceiving before I finish my maternity leave.

How're you?

sindylouwho · 26/07/2020 16:04

I've been really got this past week. Normally freezing! Hope that's a sign! Partner reckons I'll be pregnant. I can't see it myself. My skin has really broken out which is what normally happens.

Nls90x · 26/07/2020 16:08

@Kitkatb0808 Yeah I feel really down today going to run myself a bath. I had really bad headaches a few days ago I just feel like my body knows what's coming. That's quite right we will have to find each other in a thread somewhere or keep this one going ❤️ it's nice to have people with you along the way I have my OH he wants a baby but doesn't want to know when I'm ovulating etc doesn't want the deed to become a chore so I have to work everything out myself and pretend it's spur of the moment lol xx

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Nls90x · 26/07/2020 16:09

@sindylouwho same actually I'm such a whinge for being cold and this week I've been saying how hot I am and opening windows hopefully that could be a sign xx

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Curiosity101 · 26/07/2020 16:52

[quote Nls90x]@Kitkatb0808 Yeah I feel really down today going to run myself a bath. I had really bad headaches a few days ago I just feel like my body knows what's coming. That's quite right we will have to find each other in a thread somewhere or keep this one going ❤️ it's nice to have people with you along the way I have my OH he wants a baby but doesn't want to know when I'm ovulating etc doesn't want the deed to become a chore so I have to work everything out myself and pretend it's spur of the moment lol xx [/quote]
My DH is the same. I agreed with him that when we are TTC I won't track anything. We'll aim to DTD every other day and so by chance we'll almost certainly DTD either the day of or the day before ovulation without any real effort or tracking.

sindylouwho · 26/07/2020 17:39

Let's keep this thread going. We all seem to be in the same position

Nls90x · 26/07/2020 19:21

@sindylouwho yeah we seem to be the same dates :) fingers crossed for your test tomorrow xx

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sindylouwho · 26/07/2020 20:10

@Nls90x and to you! Let me know how you get on

Kitkatb0808 · 27/07/2020 06:13

@Nls90*@sindylouwho@Nls90*x

sindylouwho · 27/07/2020 07:57

BFN ladies. I'm either 9 or 10dpo. I think I'm
10 though

Kitkatb0808 · 27/07/2020 08:54

BFN please someone have good news!!! Xxxx

dano99 · 27/07/2020 09:19

@sindylouwho same here :( dpo9 also I was expecting atleast a squinter but nope solid bfn

Nls90x · 27/07/2020 09:35

@Kitkatb0808 @sindylouwho
BFN here also 😩

I'm either 11 - 12 DPO not looking good xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 27/07/2020 09:48

@Nls90x
@sindylouwho
@Curiosity101
@dano99

SHIT!!!! Always tomorrow 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😞😞

Nls90x · 27/07/2020 10:28

It's not over until AF comes I suppose 🤞🏽 xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 27/07/2020 17:15

Evening lovelies!!!
So today’s episode concluded me naked legs akimbo of the walk in shower screen with flash floor liquid up my ass!!!!
Fuck my life trying to stay sane here so clean clean clean ....
Other half went to shop brilliant time to get in shower to clean it before I shower I like to soak it in Flash
Got naked started the clean heard someone come in my door freaked out did some impressive moves and that is all I remember!!!
He forgot his fg mask 😷
Cheers boris
Ouch!!!
Thought it may make our so far week a bit funnier for you lot !!! 😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️🤧xxx

Think I may need to wee on a stick see if I have any luck yet!!!!! Xx

Nls90x · 27/07/2020 17:25

@Kitkatb0808 Hahahaa that made me smile god knows what he must of been thinking when he came back in 😂😂 are you ok? Haven't hurt anything?

I feel you with keeping busy I've walked to the shops , took little one to the park , two loads of washing , just about to put DD in bath and then I'll be stalking on here probably.

I kept to my word I've also ordered another 20 sticks to pee on 🤦🏽‍♀️ xx

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Kitkatb0808 · 27/07/2020 17:33

@Nls90x
His exact words were if I were a lesser man I would have thought you were having an affair the moaning and screaming!!
Until he had to peel me off the bathroom floor like a beached whale 🐳
I think he held in a laugh!! The bastard!!! Xx