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TTC first baby thread 25

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Annny27 · 06/06/2020 21:09

hi ladies,

Setting up a new thread for all of us ttc our first baby!

Will tag all the names I can remember from top of my head (I.e easy to spell haha)

@kiza
@lozzlepop
@orangeloo
@lottiepink
@timswifey
@XjustagirlX
@lizzie198

Graduates:
@whatsthecraic91

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MrsEG · 27/07/2020 06:45

Hello! Thought I would check the conception boards to see how you ladies were all getting on, I remember so many names here. But oh my goodness @ValidUser CONGRATULATIONS!! I am so utterly thrilled for you!! What wonderful news for a Monday morning. So so pleased. Hope you’re doing well!

Annny27 · 27/07/2020 10:19

morning all :D cd9 now and the chore....ummm..... I mean joy of dtd starts 🤣🤣

@kiza mmmm thats tricky I would say you ovulated a few days before your peak readinf by your chart! Thats strange! But perhaps you just had higher readings a few days before ovulation for some reason

@MrsEG hope you and the twins are well 💗💗

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ValidUser · 27/07/2020 20:03

Hello @MrsEG. Thank you! My clinic doesn't do betas, but my gp sent a single one today at 16dp5dt and it was 2967, so very healthy! Impatient for our scan next week. How are you?

MrsEG · 28/07/2020 08:10

@ValidUser such fabulous news! I hope everything looks great next week! How have you been feeling?

@Annny27 thanks lovely the twins are great, 6 months old now! Hope you’re doing well xx

ValidUser · 28/07/2020 08:39

@MrsEG how did I miss that you have twins?!? That's lovely. Boys or girls?

I'm convinced we're having a boy. The husband thinks a girl. I don't care either way, though. Healthy would be great.

I'm feeling sick and tired and it's great! Beta was 2967 yesterday at 16dp5dt and I got a proper dye stealer this morning.

Obsessive? Me? Never!

ValidUser · 28/07/2020 08:40

Duplicating news now. Is it too early to blame baby brain?

LikeTheFruit · 28/07/2020 09:05

Just popping back on to say huge congratulations @ValidUser !! Delighted for you.
How are your sunflowers?
I've often thought about you, queen of early testing!

MrsEG · 28/07/2020 09:14

@ValidUser I do, non-identical boys! I was convinced it was boys too. Everyone kept telling me it would be one of each but I just had a hunch!
So delighted for you, enjoy it all. Xx

Lozzlepop · 28/07/2020 09:31

Morning ladies,

Well.......I said yes to the dress!!!! Absolutely thrilled, it was such an amazing day!

So the consultant called yesterday, after me asking if i should have initial tests done and them saying no they now want to send me for 21 day bloods 🙄 I will be so frustrated if this has been the reason all along!
He's also talked about the possibility of putting me on Clomid- any one have any experience of it?

@MrsEG congrats on the twins thats fantastic news!!

@LikeTheFruit lovely to see you here too, how are things?

LikeTheFruit · 28/07/2020 09:51

@Lozzlepop hello!! Hope you're well and fab news about the dress!! I often check in to see how you're getting on. I wish they'd hurry things up for you a bit.

We're great, Esme is 19 weeks old now. We're on holiday up in Skye (which is where we got married), so nice to get away.

It's a year since I got my BFP seems a lifetime ago.

Hoping you all get your very sticky BFPs soon xxx

Lozzlepop · 28/07/2020 10:32

@LikeTheFruit aww thank you so much ❤️

Esme- what a gorgeous name ❤️big wave from Fife to Skye- enjoy your trip! Xx

Kiza · 28/07/2020 11:31

@Lozzlepop congrats on finding a dress- so exciting! We were never offered Clomid as they said I ovulate so no need but I heard other clinics still do offer it? When are girls D21 bloods?

@MrsEG congrats on the twins! Time has flown since your BFP!
@ValidUser love that you're loving the pregnancy symptoms, I think I'll be the same after waiting so long!

@Annny27 are you trying SMEP again this cycle? Or every other day?

So our IVF clinic said we would receive our appointment letter by now but still no show. Not sure if it's normal to hound them, may wait till end of the week. My chart changed and put O on CD 14 which makes more sense, I think 'surely it has to work this cycle' we had so much sex!! 🥴

Lozzlepop · 28/07/2020 11:36

@Kiza I know I ovulate too but I think he wants me to have a more "normal" cycle so 28 days instead on the 33 that I am just now- we shall wait and see. I have to go on August 12 and 14 which is a pain as I go back to work on the 10th hopefully they can squeeze me in first thing! I would maybe wait a while as I know the post here has been terrible and things have been taking ages to arrive.

ValidUser · 28/07/2020 12:14

@LikeTheFruit lovely to see you and congratulations! Sunflowers never did well, but the week I went on ovarian stimulation two little boys who live on our road came around selling plants and I bought one, which is thriving! I'm also the queen of late testing. Lovely dye stealer again this morning. 😂

@MrsEG aww lovely.

@kiza I'm also strangely proud of my symptoms. The human mind is a strange thing.

purplefig · 28/07/2020 12:28

@ValidUser OMG a hugeeee congratulations!! @MrsEG mentioned you were pregnant and I had to pop on and send you allllll my well wishes. I'm absolutely over the moon for you! Twins would be amazing - there's a couple of twin mums on the postnatal thread so you'd be in good company.

ValidUser · 28/07/2020 12:34

Thanks @purplefig. How are you getting on?

purplefig · 28/07/2020 12:47

@ValidUser good thanks! I had a girl and she's somehow 5 months already 🙀 she's a little firecracker and I'm totally in love with her (and a bit tired) 😂

Annny27 · 28/07/2020 13:59

I dont know what possesses my sister to tell me of every celebrity who is having a baby? Honestly every other day ita "oh this persons having a baby" - i just reply with a "cool" haha - Brings me absolutely nothing apart from a tinge of jealousy 🙄🤪

@kiza just dtd every other day - haven't used an opks yet this month and not sure if I will (cd10 atm and started to get watery/ewcm)

@timswifey have you started dtd yet this cycle?

@ValidUser a dye stealer sounds promissing :D

@Lozzlepop oooh how exciting about your dress :D now dont look at a single other dress online or otherwise as you will quesrion the choice haha! Day 21 tests should have been done at the start!!!

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Annny27 · 30/07/2020 12:48

Everyone's a bit quiet on here haha!

Had my fertility appointment yesterday and he said that everything on my recent blood tests looks fine, he says my tubes will be fine becausr obviously we got pregnsnt (will later do hsg if it goes on for much longer)

But he did prescribe progesterone suppositories to help with luteal phase although he said as we have conceived its probably not a progesterone issue but he said it csnt hurt!

@orangeloo you have used the supposrtries havent you?

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Narwhal88 · 30/07/2020 12:57

@Annny27 glad he gave you something to try at least. Has your partner been tested I can't remember if you said? I think I would like progesterone to try as well but doesn't seem much point until we get to ivf.

@Lozzlepop glad you found your dress how exciting for you!

I've been really annoyed the last couple of days. So I phoned radiology again on Tuesday and I really thought they would now be doing HSGs again as I had my ultrasound appointment through for next week. But NOPE! HSGs are now the only procedure they are still not doing! Like why?! They can't give me any timescale on when they might restart. I'm so frustrated and feel like I can't do anything about it. I looked up private HSGs and it doesn't seem like many people do them. So I'd probably have to go somewhere in London, then pay for a consultation and I could need a referral as well. Procedure is about £500 on top. I will have everything else done so I'm hoping we can move forward a bit at our next appointment on 18th August. Not got my husbands 2nd SA results either as they just go to the consultant who is on holiday for a month.

I feel like I'm trying to beat the covid clock as I feel a second wave is coming and it is likely all nhs will close down again!

Larrydavid · 30/07/2020 15:39

@ValidUser just popped on to see how people were getting on - the biggest congratulations to you - you've waited a long time for that bfp! So happy for you!!

Hope everyone else on here is doing well and crossing fingers for more bfps 💛💛💛

Lozzlepop · 30/07/2020 16:21

Hi ladies!

Happy Friday Eve, how are we all?

@Annny27 thank you!!! I just love it, cant stop looking at the pictures of it 😍did you have your progesterone levels checked ofter OV as thats what they are looking at for mine? I was a bit frustrated with the tests I had too as I was like I know theres nothing wrong with my tubes as we can get pregnant 😒

@Narwhal88 thank you so much!! Thats annoying that radiology hasn't opened again, can you ask your consultant to chase it up his end? Mine schedules all of my appointments then sends them to me, Im not sure how it works in your board?

All booked in for my progesterone tests however I think when she calls to speak to me about the results we will need to properly put everything on hold (results dependant) as we will be 9 months out to the wedding then and I have ordered a size 10 dress lol!

Is anyone up to anything nice this weekend?

Kiza · 30/07/2020 18:51

Hey sorry for being so quiet again, work and social life are ramping up a bit so less time to be on my phone!
@Annny27 have you asked your sis not to? I wonder why she thinks you'd want to know? Are you still not using opks this cycle?

@Lozzlepop when do you get to pick your dress up?

@Narwhal88 that's so frustrating for you that they are still not doing them. I think private costs for them are quite pricey from when I looked into it. I'm hoping things don't close down again! Although I work in the NHS and we haven't been told anything about additional planning... but then who knows as information is ever changing.

I managed a bit of sunbathing this afternoon (perks of working from home!) my family are coming to visit on Saturday so going to bake some cupcakes and practice my piping techniques as it's been ages!
6dpo and trying to stay busy! I feel like we must conceive this cycle as I had 5 days worth of sperm in there!!! 🤪

ValidUser · 30/07/2020 20:06

Thanks @Larrydavid. How are you?

6 days to my scan!

Larrydavid · 30/07/2020 22:21

@ValidUser you must be over the moon. I'll check back to see how your scan goes! I'm good thanks. I had a baby girl 11 weeks ago. She's a dreamboat - we're feeling very lucky. Time is flying.