TTC 35+ Thread 2 Cougar And Silver Fox Club

[Loladoodle]

New thread for you ladies. Let’s bring on the Bfps!!

@Loladoodle Of course I will test as soon as i can! Not waiting for af 🤪 I am totally new to this, and I've spent last 3 days symptoms checking, but I've realised there is no such a thing. Hard to resist and not to read all that. My chances are slim, we are quite casual at this stage, and I haven't even managed to give up all my caffeine yet- which seems to be crucial! I will be better prepared for the next cycle. hahaha, so much advice everywhere! This thread is the best thing I have found so far, full of humour and realistic expectations. So I just stick around here from now on. Lets hope we both have bfp soon 😉

Honestly this thread makes me feel better. Google can be so spiteful against our paranoia and actually talking to real life women in the same situation and hearing your positive stories is so uplifting. Welcome to the newbies!

It’s crazy aswell how relatable your stories are particularly about the men in our lives trying to be the other 50 percent. I thought it was just me having issues!

Morning all and welcome to new additions! 6DPO ish here and symptom spotting like mad. Admit I actually POAS (FRER) but quite obviously a BFN at this stage 🙈 Might have a go at the weekend.

I have totally gone crazy and symptom checking my bogeys 😂😂

Also anyone that has had an early miscarriage how quickly did your normal cycle resume?

@lastditchattempt20 love it! Totally living my poas dream through you as I’m only 2dpo 🙃 I had a very small brown spot cm this morning barely visible not sure what that’s about maybe from ovulation 🤷‍♀️ Let’s pretend it’s from something really positive going on in there 😅

@YellaHella yes this is the best and funniest thread on mn.... maybe a tad bias about that 👸

@Muda a couple of months from what I can recall then got pg again on 3rd month after

@Muda me too! 🙈

@lastditchattempt20 Yay for a POAS fun!

I'm CD5 and period has finished so considering starting opks due to my obsession. I'm reaaally hoping to ovulate this month. Just found out my mate is 12 weeks pregnant, she caught naturally after having her son with IVF, so excited for her and actually not feeling jealous because she's just so blooming lovely and she wanted it so much.

Hello my lovely Golden Ovaries,

Apologies for the radio silence lately. My AF this month was horrendous, and really knocked me for six, and I wanted to have some time off the obsession with the TTC, TWW etc. but I have been catching up. Exciting that some of you are getting so far along the DPO time now. come on BFPs. To those who have got BFNs - and AFs. shake it off. give a pep talk to blanch, rose, Dorothy and Sophia, and lets go again!

CD7 for me, and going to try the SMEP, so just limbering up my old bones to start DTD every other day for the next 2 weeks as of tomorrow.. I have my OPKs ready to go.

@Loladoodle did you not get a period for a couple of months or was it just not your normal period?

@lastditchattempt20 glad I’m not the only one!!

@muda no period was still testing positive on pregnancy test for about 4-5 weeks after d&c 😫 Was so frustrating. Took ages for hormone levels to drop again. But bfp not too long after that. Must have reset something!

Hello lovely ladies, welcome to all the new ladies. 😄

Hello @Happy how are you?

@Loladoodle I am fine thanks. Took my lil one to the park earlier. He's fast asleep now and am chilling on the sofa.
How are you doing? 🙂

Hi all struggling this month 12dpo and bfn im gutted xx

@Matilda19 really sorry to hear that. Definitely not for the lack of trying!

So after my wobble last night we did manage to dtd one more time. So if i ov'd today which is cd14 we dtd cd9,10,12,13 and I'm not even going to mention tonight. That's completely up to him if he wants to bring it up and do it. I think we've covered enough though. Never been so glad to enter the 2ww. Not sure how sustainable it will be to do this every month.

👏 @lucieloos good work!! 👍 welcome to the 2ww 🤪

@Matilda19 ah sorry about the bfn still could be early though! You def gave it 💯 %

@Happyhappy37 ah that’s nice. I’ve been working most of the day. Going to get more done tomorrow including housework so that I can chill Thursday as the weathers to be nice then 🌞

@Matilda19 sorry about your BFN, however you are not out until AF shows. Not everyone gets BFP before AF. 🤞🏾🤞🏾
I am also 13dpo today too.

Sending you all lots of positive energy 🙏🏽

@lucieloos nice one 👌🏾. You did your very best. 🤞🏾 Crossed for you.

Joke of the day for you all

Soooo last night me and Mr was DTD and Mr decided to change position, in the process he fucking knocked himself out. Man he banged his head in the wall (really hard too) girls instead of me checking if he was ok , I checked if his dick was still hard, fucking hell it wasn't 😂😂😂
Mate I know it ain't funny but shitttt his dick is very important to me. 😂😂😂🙈🙈🙈
He was not laughing, man was pissed off.
Hahaha 🙈😂🙈
I will go and hang my head in shame now. I'm a horrible girlfriend

Spent Most of today dealing with a leak in bedroom ceiling and a sick dog 🤦🏻‍♀️. CD11 and still nothing on opk sticks but cm increasing so 🤞 getting nearer

@Happyhappy37 that made me laugh 😂

@Happyhappy37 and who said romance was dead 🤣🤣🤣

Thanks all im hoping to get bfp but not sure i so thought this was the month not sure why just a odd feeling. But untill af comes il keep hopeful
Good luck all.
Xx we defo couldnt dtd anymore if we tried im wondering if i havent properly ovulated after being on implant so long. I tried to check with ovulation sticks but not sure what the peak level needs to be for sign of ovulation x