TTC 35+ Thread 2 Cougar And Silver Fox Club

[Loladoodle]

New thread for you ladies. Let’s bring on the Bfps!!

Looks like I'm off the BFP list. Started bleeding last night and it's continuing this morning with clots and cramping. On a tiny positive it looks like it's taking care of itself this time, rather than having to go through waiting and not knowing either way with previous missed miscarriages.

@Loladoodle that would piss me off too, especially as you discussed it. My husband would definitely do that. He wouldn't realise or think anything of it though. I think we're completely rational and they're the crazy ones!

Oh @kwastell I'm so sorry lovely x

So sorry @kwastell, be kind to yourself. x

@kwastell

Looks like I'm off the BFP list. Started bleeding last night and it's continuing this morning with clots and cramping. On a tiny positive it looks like it's taking care of itself this time, rather than having to go through waiting and not knowing either way with previous missed miscarriages.

Oh hun. Am sooo sorry this is happening to you again😔😔 Sending you a massive virtual hug

I'm so sorry @kwastell Sending lots of love to you xxx

@kwastell oh no! I’m so sorry 😢 I wish I could say something that would make you feel better 😔 we are here for you though to vent, talk, support x

@kwastell oh no I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending lots of love your way. Look after yourself x

@kwastell that's awful, so sorry you're going through this. Lots of hugs and love for you xx

@kwastell I'm so, so sorry. Sending hugs. Xxx

@kwastell so sorry to hear this- i went through the same last month and it’s devastating x

Aww so sorry to hear that xx

Thanks so much everyone ❤️

@kwastell I'm so sorry, lovely! Sending lots of love and virtual hugs your way!

@kwastell I’m sorry my love! Life can be so shit! Sorry to hear this and take the positives - you can get pregnant naturally and as you say you don’t have to suffer with a late mc!

I’m still waiting for AF - CD37 and no signs of the witch coming at all! :-(

@kwastell so sorry you're going through this, life is so unfair. I hope you're able to take some time to look after yourself.

Hello (tentative hello!)

This is my first mumsnet post so hello everyone. I'm 36 and TTC (getting there with the acronyms) with 41 year old partner. We've been trying for 3 months only, though after a life time of being told you'll get pregnant if you're not careful I presumed it would happen instantly. I'm a bit over weight so I'm worried I'm not doing myself any favours.

Anyway, nice to hear from similar ladies. I'll keep reading all the updates.

@Ready2020 welcome!!! I only joined here a week or so ago and everyone has been so lovely and helpful. It’s a great place!! Good luck with your ttc journey. This is my 3rd cycle trying too 🤞

Welcome @Ready2020! You’ll find everyone is a supportive bunch here, us ‘golden ovaries’!

Morning all, how is everyone! @Chlo2701@M4v3r1ck... I seem to consistently a day or 2 behind you... CD27 and looks like AF may be on her way. I don’t feel ‘period-y’ at all but (TMI Warning) there’s just a tinge of brown when I wipe... bah!

At least this may mean my cycle is kicking back in, it’ll be my first natural AF since I was 17!

@M4v3r1ck managed to not tag you properly in the above! ^

Welcome @Ready2020 you joined a great group!

How is everyone doing? I’m losing it as I’m on CD38 and still no sign of AF! Started to piss me off now as I want to begin treatment 😔

On a lighter note is next weeks weather looks amazing so will plan some nice 122 time with DH. Also starting my keto and workout diet!!!

Morning all- and welcome to @Ready2020 this is a great group, enough posts to keep the chat going but no so many that you're lost within an hour! 😁
I'm now in TWW (or less as AF was early last month). About 3-4DPO and madly symptom spotting. Itchy nipples anyone? 😂 also mood seems better which hopefully means body is more sorted with progesterone production. Actually feeling quite calm this cycle, so far.... hoping to get to next weekend without testing. 🙈🤞🏻
I'm a 'legs up against wall' after DTD person- but i don't know how much is scientific. I did read an old theory that drs had wondered if the female orgasm was designed to keep us more chill and thus stay laid down after sex to increase chance of success! 😂🤷🏻‍♀️ DH usually falls asleep which doesn't bother me as get to catch up on MN!

Morning all, and welcome newbies!

AF finished here so I'm drinking grapefruit juice every day to ovulation (apparently good for ewcm). And had my FSH test so waiting on the result of that. Got positive feelings for the month. 🤞🏻

Welcome @Ready2020 ! It's annoying isn't it, you're led to believe that just looking at a man will get you pregnant and then you start trying...

This is a great group full of strong and supportive women. I love the golden ovaries thing, it sounds like a glamorous award 🤣

I love the golden ovaries 😂😂

I’m on cd9, checked opk sticks last couple days just out of interest. V faint line only. I’m assuming prob won’t see anything for a few more days. Had a chat to oh last week about properly trying this month as I don’t think we actually dtd at fertile period last 2 months. Last couple days he’s been wanting to twice a day plus 😳. Hoping don’t burn out before peak time haha