TTC 35+ Thread 2 Cougar And Silver Fox Club

[Loladoodle]

New thread for you ladies. Let’s bring on the Bfps!!

Got af today, booo! Got my expensive vitamins today. I'll not be buying them again if I'm saving up for ivf. So I'll space them out for a few months.

Hope everyone is doing well. I'm a lot happier today, I've made up a schedule which I'm actually sticking to. Wonders will never cease.

Also got a text from that guy yesterday, he lost his phone. After asking for a bit today, he has sent £25 round. lol. Every penny counts. :P

Just finishing up my module 3 studies today and onto the weekend. :)

@selina37 and I thought I was bad for overthinking stuff lol :)

Happy Friday ladies! 😘

Welcome @jazzibelle, and so sorry to hear about your MC! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 for this weekend!!! 😘

@Lynnysong so glad you got some money back! 😃

Seems to be a day for AF unfortunately! 😳 That's her arriving for me, bang on schedule! However, It's a relief that I'm still regular after coil removal! 😃 Deffo some sparkling vino for me tonight! Got a sparkling Sauv Blanc in the fridge now, so very excited to try that! 😃

Well done for holding out @FridaKfangirl 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I'll deffo need to keep my legs up from now on, as always dash to the loo after DTD! 😂

Never been to Amalfi, and would love to! COVID has already cancelled so many hols for me this year!!! Booo!!!!

Has anyone heard of IngeFleur.com?

I've been watching lots of her You Tube videos. She's really easy to listen to and seems to make a lot of sense.

@Lynnysong glad you got a little money back! 🙂

Our all our cycles aligning?! There does seem to be a whole lot of AFs today 🤔🤗

Sorry to hear that @Lynnysong 😢

We can all support each other for the next month then 😊

Oh my I just caught up on the messages and giggling away here. I can only imagine the look on oh face tonight when I sit with my legs in the Air for half an hour after dtd 🤣🤣🤣
I might just do it and not explain why just to see what the reaction is hahaha

And I think I’m in a calmer place just now. Cd7 and decided just to do opk sticks from now so I can have an idea of what my cycle is doing this month. Will be interesting anyway. This ttc thing is really just a lot of waiting around for things to happen!!

Sorry for af arrival @M4v3r1ck @Lynnysong booooo! Also glad you got some money back Lynny but keep that jerk at arms length! More than!

Just poured a nice wine 🍷 happy weekend everyone! Heavy tummy here so I think ovulation will be imminent. May get this dinner cooked and over with ASAP and get down to business 😅

Hi all just catching up

Been painting all day

And now gutted.. No idea why but only 8dpo and took test bfn
But then thought be super super early to show on that

Now sat all upset hoping im still in with a chance x

@Matilda19

Hi all just catching up

Been painting all day

And now gutted.. No idea why but only 8dpo and took test bfn
But then thought be super super early to show on that

Now sat all upset hoping im still in with a chance x

Hey , it's nice to keep busy. You must be excited now how your bedroom is all coming together. Yh 8dpo is super early, so don't be too hard on yourself. What symptoms are you experiencing?

@Matilda19 booo for bfn! It is still really early though and very unlikely you would get a positive that soon. With my daughter I took a frer on 10dpo in the evening and it was negative. Thought it was all over. Waited for dh to go to work the next day and took another just to confirm what I already knew (this was after ivf treatment as well so was pretty devastated) and I got a really clear bfp! I couldn't believe it thought there was no way it would change from the evening to the morning but it did! Hang in there. You have certainly tried really hard this cycle so hope all your efforts will be rewarded!

@Happyhappy37b @lucieloos
Im not sure why i even checked just tjohght maybe would show up.
Mostly tired emotional things hurt more than normal
But now I've thought about it its super early to show up
Going hold off keep positive and test next week xx
Good luck all

@matilda I do this to myself too... it’s way too early and I know I shouldn’t but I do! Try not to worry as would be so unlikely to get a pos this early.

Dtdx2 in the bag... but have since had a few words with dp... can’t decipher whether it’s my ov and the pressure making me irrational or if he is just being annoying... probably me! 😩

Ok honest opinions.. and I mean I will not be insulted because I know what I am like.. I need some honest talk..

This isn’t even a real issue btw but pissed me off so much ... we dtdx2 ... We decided I would lay down for 15 (as discussed earlier) and I felt so irritated he went on his phone and I just lay there watching shit tv. I’m trying to stay rational as he is always more loving, affectionate, caring and open with feelings. But I was just like “are you actually sitting on your group chat while I’m sitting here full of your semen waiting for an egg to get fertilised” (it’s ok... now I’ve typed it I know I’m 🤪) lord help me! Please tell me I’m not the only one feeling so 🥜

I would be pissed off too. 😂

Lol @Loladoodle dh and I lie together for 5 mins or so and then it's back to reality and he's prob on his phone or something. It doesn't bother me really though . I'm prob just as bad think mmm that was nice now what to do next.

So plan was dtd 9,11,12 and 13 this month. We did cd9 last night but then dh surprised me and wanted to go again tonight which isn't exactly the norm for us. It's thrown my well timed plans a little but I'm not complaining. I don't think opk will be positive tomorrow so may take a break and do cd 12 and 13.

😂 God knows, I stay lying down, he goes to the bathroom and then generally falls asleep or gets up (depending on whether it night not morning). I'm more likely to be the one on my phone after tbh 😂

Lol I get annoyed if I am not immediately cuddled until I say it's time to get up no. 😂
It doesn't always work though 🙈

Good work @lucieloos and dh 👏

The whole thing just threw me! Probably because my phone. Was downstairs so I couldn’t use mine! So annoying

Aw my fiance is so affectionate after all the baby dancing he snuggles in till we both fall asleep or go again. I hate the icky ness but needs must xx thanks all il try stay positive

My OH usually gets up and goes to the bathroom and does whatever and leaves me laying there with my legs in the air-I’m the same as @claireb707 and usually play on my phone/check MN 😂😂

@Muda

My OH usually gets up and goes to the bathroom and does whatever and leaves me laying there with my legs in the air-I’m the same as *@claireb707* and usually play on my phone/check MN 😂😂

🖐hi5 sista! 😂😂

@Happyhappy37 I knew I could rely on you 🤣🤣🤣 if you add zen and feel the same then I’m not crazy 🤪 or maybe I am actually rubbing off on you!

I’m starting to relax a bit more.. dp has made a lot of effort since ... and hormones always make me more annoyed than usual so will try my best to not be a witch 🧙‍♀️ Fuck I hate this process! 🙃