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June Bus - who's on board?

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MrsLBear · 04/05/2020 09:20

Hi ladies 💕

13dpo today and af is imminent as temp dropped to cover line plus a bfn. So who's joining me?
TTC #1
This will be cycle 13 since mmc (Feb 19) but been TTC since June 2018 so a horribly momentous month for me.

Bought some vitamins recommended by it starts with the egg for this month and also male conception tablets for DH. So we shall see 🤞🏼

Lots of luck and baby dust to everyone 🍀🌈💕

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watermelonwizard · 22/05/2020 11:20

🤣 I’m loving this thread this morning!

My OH always said women were ‘worse than men’ for talking about sex, if I read these out he’d be cringing 😂😂😂😂 you gotta be open about these things! And we are all here because we want a baby so the topic is very important 🤣 ps recently treated myself to the moregasm+ bullet from ann summers .. highly recommend! Not that some of you need more tbh 🤣

My opk was negative (expected) I’m only CD7 but 24 days cycle but just off mirena coil so it’s a total mystery when ov will happen!!

Thanks for making me laugh girls

Minster2012 · 22/05/2020 11:26

Ha ha yes @Juno231 I bought a bullet from the may thread & last night Cos I thought I was gonna get a static smile this morning I was well up for up had lovely undies on sent DH upstairs to “warm himself up” & when I got upstairs he’d pulled the wrong plug out underneath tv which took our internet off upstairs & worked himself into an angry frenzy that meant he was TOTALLY not in the mood. I was seething inside, as we’d had a day off too so I really wanted it, I got the bullet & said “fine then I’ll just sort myself out” and that did the trick!! Honestly he’s worse than me 😤🙄

I MUST ovulate soon so I want a weekend of sex 😂

lucyrp · 22/05/2020 11:27

@watermelonwizard I think we are worse! And its worse because it's anonymous so you can say what you want with no judgement!😂the topic is very important! Omg I have the Moregasm + G spot vibrator treated myself to it a while back and it's definitely been worth the money! So much better than any others I have used! I may investigate the bullet to match! 😂🙈 I think most ovulation is a guessing game for most of us anyway!

lucyrp · 22/05/2020 11:30

This is very interesting hearing about everyone's toys I must say 😂😂 what else does everyone else use ??

@Minster2012 I can imagine my OH doing something like thag 🙄😂

kirsty0028 · 22/05/2020 11:51

Hey all! Lolling at these posts this morning 😂

I woke up in the middle of the night again dying with heartburn and nausea (I almost threw up!) and was up from 5 until 8 with it before I fell back to sleep. So strange for me Cos i never get heartburn and I love my sleep and ever have trouble sleeping. Starting to believe it may be a sign! It's so soon but just totally out of the ordinary for me. Can any one shed any light? This is also our first month ever trying so would be crazy if I was. I'm testing on June 1st so we'll see!

How many days before AF Is due do you all plan to test? I will be 4 days before. Not sure if that's too soon though but I have those little cheap strips from amazon aswell as proper clear blues! 😊

notyetamumbuttrying · 22/05/2020 12:09

@lucyrp nah keep to this bus. May bus is slowing now as so many of us jumped over here. It's so refreshing having all the sex chat. When I first joined MN it was during the tww so all the chat was symptom n testing based. I'm loving the FW chat, much more fun! 😁

Mococo1 · 22/05/2020 12:18

@kirsty0028 it sure could be!

Its our first month trying too so I've never experienced with TWW but from what I've read so far everyone analyses any little symptom they have- when I fell pregnant before I realise now I had so many symptoms from about 8spo onwards until I tested but put it down to PMS

I'm due to O (if my cycle is 30days) on the 1st and so I plan on testing from the 14th onwards. Gave DH all my pack of amazon cheapies but 2 so hoping that will make me wait to test and to surprise him if I am pregnant as he thinks I've given them all to him

Baby dust to all of you!

Ashamed to say I'm really lacking in the sex toy game- I have a really old bullet that I barely use, think I am due for a major upgrade! 😂🤣

Juno231 · 22/05/2020 12:20

@kirsty0028 depends on your ICs - check how sensitive they are! Some require so much hcg in your system that you probably need to miss AF first to register a BFP. CB tests are also not very sensitive so if you're testing early I'd suggest getting some FRERs.

@lucyrp don't worry it took my OH 6 years to propose and we didn't get married until 8 years together. Which actually makes me me realise we've been together 11 years and not 12 lol as we got married in 2017?! Oops 😂

OnNaturesCourse · 22/05/2020 12:24

This thread is absolutely brilliant this morning 😂

Minster2012 · 22/05/2020 12:34

Ha ha ha all the sex talk is great for FW, it’s making me hornier! I might send DH some sneaky undie shots later before he comes back from work though it kind of loses it’s shine when we have to wait for DS1 to go to bed 😂

33Carr · 22/05/2020 12:49

This is making for great lunchtime reading! Just sneaked off in work with my shot glass to do an OPK. And I can vouch for the bullets, they're great. I use mine when I get home from work and OH is busy cycling 😂

lucyrp · 22/05/2020 12:56

@notyetamumbuttrying okays I shall stick on here with you guys!😛

@Juno231 I know I'm not holding out any hope I just keep telling myself he's waiting til he can afford a right dazzler😉

@Minster2012 I've been on the Ann summers website already this morning contemplating a few things 😂😂

blodyn91 · 22/05/2020 13:10

@OnNaturesCourse I work with cows, so always compare humans to them, but a day/12 hours before they ovulate they are bloody horny! So can believe humans are too 😂
@Cocoblue22 I came off the pill in April and o my gosh the mood swings I got! Ended up having a breakdown as well. Back to normal so far this month 😄 (think it was you who wrote about the pill, hard to keep up with this chat)

notyetamumbuttrying · 22/05/2020 13:22

Yay @lucyrp! Good shout with the Ann summers, I might have a look too. I'm forever rehashing the same sets but he never seems to notice and asks if it's new lol! Don't u just love men 😆

blodyn91 · 22/05/2020 13:24

oh and I also feel a bit left out, boyfriend not keen on sex toys, how can I change his mind? Says we don't need them 🙄
Think Im about 4 days from ovulation, but not tracking properly. Just have as much sex as possible this weekend 😂 Also excited as Its a bank holiday here so got 3 full days of relaxing 😏

Minster2012 · 22/05/2020 13:29

@blodyn91 don’t change his mind just buy something for yourself & try it out with him too! Or if he’s not interested then don’t worry you just enjoy it!! 😂bloody hell its a bank holiday isn’t it 🤣yay

notyetamumbuttrying · 22/05/2020 13:44

Yes it is @Minster2012 that's why I booked today so I've got a lovely 4 days off now SmileI reckon we'll be able to do it every day straight now!

lucyrp · 22/05/2020 13:50

@notyetamumbuttrying I know mines the same! I have a few pairs of stockings and have to make sure he doesn't rip them so I can re use them 😂😂 have a few sets that I mix and match with. Although one of his faves was wearing a white shirt of his with some red lingerie and some glasses 😂😂

@blodyn91 mine wasn't too keen either to begin with but we have bullets, vibrators, and butt plugs😳 amongst other things 😂

notyetamumbuttrying · 22/05/2020 14:12

That sounds hot! @lucyrp my blokes the same height as me and slimmer so his shirts would just fit me and not look cute at all lol! I like the glasses look though, I'd have to find some clear lens ones online. I've never full on dressed up in an outfit for him, like nurse etc as he's said he's not fussed by any of that but I reckon he would be if I showed up like that. I'm gonna start having a browse now. I feel inspired 😝

lucyrp · 22/05/2020 14:14

@notyetamumbuttrying my OH is the same height as me too so heels are a big no! 😂 thats whag I've got just some clear lens glasses as I don't wear them normally but he does really like them in the bedroom🙈😂 I don't normally do "outfits" as such but like lacy bodysuits or matching bra and thongs with stockings etc !

Skip86 · 22/05/2020 14:21

I feel like @SmileyT started all this sex talk with her outrageous claim to ultra-multi-orgasmus, and then left the building?!! Come back here and explain yourself woman! 🤣🤣

(Btw I'm just joking, I totally believe you and totally envy you)

notyetamumbuttrying · 22/05/2020 14:35

Haha so true @Skip86 she's got to answer for herself lol! @SmileyT 😉
Yeah that's my usual too @lucyrp and works a treat but gonna start mixing it up now that this baby making lark is taking so damn long 😂

Juno231 · 22/05/2020 15:09

@blodyn91 well the vibrators are for your pleasure and not his so i don't see why he has a say in it ! Go for it, they really changed the quality of our horizontal dance 💃

Cocoblue22 · 22/05/2020 15:19

What’s a BD? Not to be confused with a bidet!! X

Georginawalk · 22/05/2020 15:35

Hi lovely’s ....Can I join in too??? It’s CD18 for me today, I’m using the clear blue connected device for the first time, it’s sooooo accurate. Today’s my peak day 😀 Has anyone used it before? We’ve been trying for 5 months, the first 2 were just fun but the last 3 we’ve taken more seriously! My cycles are always different lengths... some 35 days some 43 however we decided at Christmas we wanted to try and said we’d get healthy! Since Xmas I’ve lost a stone on slimming world and the past few cycles have gone from 43 days to 35 woooo!! I also got tested for PCOS due to odd cycle lengths which came back negative!

I hope this is our month!!!!!! Xxx

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