TTC after miscarriage - May 2020

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I'm CD1 of cycle 2 TTC #1 so thought I'd start a new thread for anybody in the same situation who didn't get their April BFP.

I had a MMC found on a scan at 9.5weeks after seeing HB at 7 weeks 🙁 I had SMM on the 19th March but no luck in my first month and AF got me today. Normal cycles are 28days so I hope to be testing around the 20th May. This month I will be tracking ovulation using CB connected and trying out Preseed for the first time hoping this helps towards my 🌈 but tonight I'll just be having a G&T 💁🏾‍♀️

@Mommybear05 I'm glad you are feeling better today! At least that part of your cycle is done with.

I'm doing okay today! I had another temp drop this morning so wondering if thats indicative of something and still waiting for my peak but we DTD last night so all good xx

Think I’m day 2/3 DPO. Anyone else ever notice fatigue after ovulation? Last week I was waking every morning at around 5am and up for the day. This week since Sunday I’m in bed earlier and struggling to get out of bed til after 10am. It’s half 11 now and I’m ready to go back to bed 🤣🤣 how is everyone today

@2020wish ugh yes .. dont know if its after ovualtion or just coincidence but I'm struggling to get out of bed 😴 keep snoozing lol xx

@renna where are you in ur cycle again? I’m back in bed 😂 thinking if i take another quick nap and then maybe get up for a walk lol

@2020wish I am 6dpo, CD19. Haha I'm working from home so cant really go to bed unless I take my laptop with me 😂 gonna go for a walk in my lunch too. Hoping it refreshes me . Xx enjoy your nap 😂😁

Hey girls how are we all!

I dont know whether im 1 dpo or not my NC App say tomorrow but the glow app says im 1 dpo today 😏 how do u know? Xxx

I’m not 100%sure myself. I got my peak on the 9th so I thought the 10th would of been ovulation day for me making me 3DPO. But going by the temp drop on my bbt it’s saying 11th was ovulation day making me 2 dpo. But then again I can never temp at the same time every day due to different factors interrupting sleep lol so I dunno how accurate that is

Hey @Hayleylou89 xx I got my first peak reading on the 6th, so the app says I ovulated on the 7th so classed 8th as 1dpo. So I think probably the 2nd day after you got your first peak positive opk reading is 1dpo? If that makes sense xx

@@Hayleylou89 or if you got the dip then the rise in temping you can say the day you got the dip was ovualtion so 1dpo is the day after ? Xx

Which Calc Fleur tablets have people bought there's a few options on amazon and how many are you supposed to take 2 or 4 a day ?
I've just ordered a fertility cup and shown DP the schedule for the month, he's having a lay down with the new wheat bag I bought for his back x

@renna so do you think - dpo today going off this graph? X if so i better take my calc fluor x

@Renna 1dpo*

@Dipsy77 I loved my first go off ferti lily - going to dtd again tonight and try it again x 😀 hopefully the hubbys back gets better soon x

@Mommybear05 fingers crossed everything settles this cycle. I'm fine today picked up my antibiotics so hopefully they kick in soon. I've started to get the urge to test but I really want to hold off until af is late as I'm scared of the disappointment and I also only have one Frer so don't want to waste it. Oh the dilemma ha ha. Xx

@VP91x it is annoying! They’re quite expensive- especially when I’m using them like a crazed person 😂
To those who have replied regarding the clearblue/internet cheapies not matching up, I’ve finally got a strong positive from the internet cheapie 🎉 also how many time DTD is considered too many? 🤔 asking for a friend 😂😂

@Ejb86 UTIs are the worst! Hope you start to feel better soon, It’s so hard to resist temptation testing but I know that feeling.
@Hayleylou89 my NC app is slightly off too. When I get a positive ovulation test and put it in it says Ive ovulated two days later, wondering if it’s to lengthen the window just in case it takes a bit longer?

@dipsy77 I got the attached calc fluor on amazon .
I've been taking 2 a day x

@hayleylou89 yeah deffo babe the dip shows you've ovulated so that's good too that you've got that reassurance that you ovulated:) not gonna lie I've liked not having to take temps every morning but it's also nice to see you've deffo ovulated. If I'm not lucky this month I may temp next month to make sure again I am ovulating, even though dont think that's a problem tbh as got the dip last month. Orrr get an ava so that can do it all for me lol.

@dipsy77 and @hayleylou89 let me know how you get on with calc fluor as I've been feeling rough last couple days and was wondering if it is that ... I feel headachey and sicky and just over all groggy . Oh and windy like the gurlges that come up to your throat constantly 🙄🤔 xx

@2020wish I’m shattered today and am 3dpo (got lh peak midday sat, by 4pm it had fallen already, and Sunday it was back down at barely visible again!! (I use ic opks) am in the tww but refusing to allow myself to symptom spot..I don’t want to get my hopes up, I thought I’d timed it right last cycle but AF got me..so now I’m tryibg to be really chill about it sll 🤞🏻

@Sallyjo27 I know yeah same here, I ordered another pack of 10 last night on Amazon that got here today because I had one stick left. I'd only bought 10 thinking it would be enough for this month as I had a couple left from my 20 pack but here we are haha x

@Sallyjo27 I think your message was meant for me, thank you I hate them. I told myself at the start of my tww that I would hold off as well ha ha. If I'm not pregnant I hope this uti doesn't muck up my cycle. Hope you are doing OK? Xx

@Sallyjo27 yay that you also got your peak on ICs! 😂😂 Depends how much energy you have.

My ICs are so underwhelming still, these are from the last two or three days. Have you ever seen something so frustrating!? Xx

Ladies, shall I start a new thread? Conscious that we are almost at 1000posts xx

@HE88 yes sorry! Ovulation gone to my head 😂
I was told cranberry tablets are very good for UTIs but not sure if they would affect your cycle? Yes thank you, lockdown driving me crazy but was in work today so don’t feel so bad.
@vp91x haha well that’s up to DH 😂😂 oh that’s is frustrating! What CD are you on? What day do you usually ovulate on? A new thread would be fab x

@Dipsy77 I ordered the same as @Renna

Anyone else taking the calc flour and so tired? I dunno if it’s that what’s causing it but I’ve been so tired from 1dpo so unlike me

Dunno what’s going on lol @VP91x mine where like that for ages and well past the time frame I usually ovulated but then boom on sat after noon at 4pm I got my peak from nothing that morning. Just keep testing few times a day x

@VP91x yes go for it new thread