New thread for the crazy gang - part 4!

[Mumofboys17]

Hope you don't mind - I'm taking ownership this time ladies 💁🏼‍♀️ old thread was filling up 😉😘 here we go again!!

@Ange211
@Beau20
@Danni2019
@Missgoldilocks
@Katie1109
@Fredthespider
@Langpants
@BFP2020
@WaitingOnThePositive

Plus our BFP's @Sunflower2019 @Quiffy

Apologies if I missed anyone!! ❤️❤️

That seemed really odd out of context... 4 year old interrupted me. I meant struggling to hold it for the 4 hours CB recommend before peeing on an OPK 😂😂 It was still flashy, anti climax!

@LV1987 hope you get a solid soon! Are you still dtd every other day? I say that because some women ovulate really quickly once they get their solid smiley so best to keep. Dtd asuch as possible x

We managed it morning of my first flashy (Sunday) but not again since 🙄 he's been a bit down this week so I haven't wanted to pressure him. Our boys go back to their mums house soon, and I think that's playing on his mind a lot 💔 hopefully we'll fit a couple in so the month is not a total write off x

@lv1987 definitely try!! Seduce him 😁😉 if the opks aren't really doing much good for you maybe start temping? Or checking your cervix? Because I've done it for how many months now I can tell when I'm ovulating by the position and softness

Haha I'm not the most seductive 😂 I did brush and braid my hair today though, which he complimented, so maybe he's up for it! 😂🤔
This is my first month OPKs, so I will stick with it at least for the reminder of this cycle. I check my cervix, but it is naturally quite high so I do find it difficult to work out as I can rarely find it...until the day before AF and then BOOM! There she is!!
Symptom wise though, I am starting to see a few symptoms... Eating everything in sight, insomnia and dirty dreams mainly 😅

@LV1987 😂😂🤞🤞

@katie1109 yep I'm early, about 4-5dpo, still quite constipated and getting cramps today but that can be normal for me x

@missgoldilocks it worked, I got the D! Still flashy smiley this morning, so that's day six... Tick tock, tick tock.

@Sunflower2019 Wow that's gone so quick!! Ooh I reckon boy!! Not sure about the nub shape but I'm going by head shape 😂 x

@LV1987 see what I mean!! Hopefully it's just gearing up, what CD are you now? You tend to have longer cycles don't you? X

Well I'm 8dpo today and.. you guessed it.. ZERO symptoms! deffo reckon I'm out this month I can just feel it 😂 or maybe I'm just a pessimistic bitch, but seriously who can blame me?!

@Mumofboys17 I hope so... I'm CD17, last cycle I think I ovulated around CD23, and had a lot of the symptoms I'm having now so I think it's going to happen soon. I only have 7 sticks left though, so I'm thinking I might just order another pack today just in case!

Some genius decided that a sleepover in the living room with the kids tonight was a good idea, so sods law I'll get a solid tonight 😂😂

@Mumofboys17 Aww it's so annoying isn't it!! I'm right behind you at 5dpo obviously bit early for me to have symptoms but 😭 I'm so sick of not feeling pregnant ffs

@Beau20 how are you?

@lv1987 woohoo you go girl!

I saw this post on Facebook and thought all you ladies could relate

@katie1109 I'm keeping everything crossed for you this month as it's definitely looking so promising for you very exciting I hope Monday comes round very quickly for you and you get that amazing BFP!

@Missgoldilocks those words from that Facebook page really hit home this morning I definitely think unless you have been through it you have no idea. I know from conceiving my little boy during my second cycle I just had no idea of this struggle and I think we are all amazingly strong women and we will all get that BFP that we all so deserve! Xx

@Danni2019 yes same! What still baffles me is I know for 4 years I never got pregnant (I was young in a long term relationship and most of the time not using contraception) this was as a teenager then out of no where I got pregnant and didn't even realise! So I always wonder why it took 4 years and then I fell so easily after that first time (I was 18 and my mum pressured me into that termination) I fell again after that very quickly since I regretted my situation and had my son in 2 cycles... Its just crazy and I think God, please don't make me wait 4 years 😩 I know I should feel blessed to have my son and of course I am but I can't wait to have a baby with my now partner ❤️we literally have everything to give to the child while I struggled so much with my son, I was young, I had no income and my partner was abusive. Its just sods law really 😔
Hopefully we all get some good news very soon xxx

Morning ladies x no changes here, no symptoms at all x boobs and nips just a bit sore now x I’ve done an opk and it was blazing positive but still not testing until Monday unless my OH will want to test on Sunday x
I think I’m almost convinced now I’m pregnant but still not getting excited x don’t give up ladies, if this little bean sticks it took us 10-11 months x

@katie1109 good luck 🤗❤️❤️ can't wait to hear xx

BTW girls, I started temping vaginally lol its a bit weird but the different in my temps is unreal!! I went from 36 daily to 36.8 daily! That's a whole. 8 different

@Katie1109 good luck 🤞🤞

@missgoldilocks thank you for sharing that, I think we all have to sit back at times and remember it will be OK. I've never even had a scare, not even in my more irresponsible days, so I always have this nagging doubt that it won't happen for me. But if it doesn't, I will be OK - it'll hurt sure, but I will get through it, we all will ❤️

@lv1987 I've had a couple situations, the girls on here know already 🤦‍♀️ I guess that's why I'm scared I've messed myself up. I think we all have that same feeling of what if it doesn't happen when it takes a while no matter if we have before or not. I think the worst fear for humans is the unknown! ❤️

@Missgoldilocks you’re not alone hun x I had a termination at the age of 17 x seriously there is no evidence that it affects future fertility x

@katie1109 thanks chick, how are you feeling? Xx

Also, my resting heart rate has dropped by 1 beat today I'm 5dpo lol I'm like nooo does that mean I'm out already 🤦‍♀️😂

@Missgoldilocks I’m ok, starting to feel some cramps, very much like af unfortunately, so we’ll see x

@katie1109 oh I hope it's not!! Hopefully it's general cramps. When I found I was pregnant before I continued to cramp for the first few weeks xx

Oh my gosh girls what have I missed?! @Katie1109 am I right in thinking I should be over the moon for you?! Omgggggggfg 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

AF arrived for me (of course!) on to cycle 10...

Sorry I've been a bit vacant, work has been mad busy and I took wedneday onwards off to wind down. I have however not stopped and been garden DIYing all week.

Morning all, hope everyone's doing OK?
9dpo today for me. Caved and did my lady FRER because I'm impatient and no surprise was a BFN. Zero symptoms, normally only have a 10-11 day LP so imagine AF will come in the next few days for me.

Could really do with some positive news from one of you now to lighten my mood! X

Last not lady FRER 🙄

@Mumofboys17 I've just walked in on the boys play fighting. The small one just pinned the big one, and trumped on him while telling "TAKE THAT!!" Made me smile 😂😂

Seventh day of flashing smiley for me, starting to accept that I'm not going to get a peak now, boo!