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TTC after ectopic pregnancy

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Mumlili9 · 25/02/2020 03:22

Hello I'm hoping to chat with other ladies ttc after ectopic pregnancy with tubal removal. I recently had an ectopic pregnancy and lost my left tube. I don't know anyone who has been through this so I've no one to talk to about this. I would love this tread to become a kind of support group where we can support each other on the scary journey of ttc.

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Mumlili9 · 22/12/2020 01:33

Hello ladies sorry I've been MIA . Im still not pregnant and still haven't had any HSG test done (THANKS COVID). Tonight marks 12 months since I was last pregnant not really sure what that means or why I'm even tell you this either.

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that90sgirl · 22/12/2020 18:25

@Mumlili9 awh I'm sorry to hear that your having a hard time falling pregnant again. Before my ectopic I was trying for 18 months so I know the anxiety/pressure that TTC can cause. Have you been referred to fertility?

Ivybutterfly · 22/12/2020 18:45

@Mumlili9 hey, sorry to hear that. They should refer you to a fertility clinic. It took me a while to get pregnant. I think they say 85% of women who have ectopics get pregnant within 2 years. Good luck. Xxxx

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Mumlili9 · 22/12/2020 19:12

@that90sgirl @Ivybutterfly hi been there done that. My amh is low and I'm 40 this year so the odds are against me. I've so far loss 9 babies and my tube my hope is wearing very thin.

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MrsB2019x · 22/12/2020 19:55

Sorry to hear you’re having a tough time @Mumlili9 💙

that90sgirl · 22/12/2020 20:04

@Mumlili9 9 losses, I can't imagine how difficult that has been. Hopefully you can get your HSG done soon and find out the next steps. Sending hugs!!

yesitcould · 23/12/2020 11:46

Has anyone experienced twinges in theIt tubeless side. I've just had AF but I had this when I was pregnant a few months ago ( second ectopic) so now I'm worrying

Kate105 · 23/12/2020 18:45

I haven’t felt specific twinges on my tubeless side @yesitcould but I’ve had quite a few twinges in my scar sites the last day or two. AF still due Christmas Day or Boxing Day depending on my apps so really trying to not get over excited at the end of the TWW... Head says it’s not this month so don’t be disappointed but my heart can’t stop a little bit of “what if” dwelling in the background and making me crazy! 😫

Hope you’re ok @Mumlili9 so sorry you’re having a time of it xxx

MrsB2019x · 23/12/2020 23:03

@Kate105 A Christmas Day BFP would be amazing 😍

Kate105 · 26/12/2020 11:42

Hope everyone had a lovely Christmas! I am in absolute limbo here- AF due yesterday, no sign, but BFN on a Boots early test. Argh! Symptom spotting like a madwoman but that’s not telling me much- nothing conclusive either way. So who knows!

BasalGanglia · 26/12/2020 15:09

@Kate105 fingers crossed AF stays away and you get your BFP! I'm 8dpo and have got one tingly boob atm so I'm on board with symptom spotting!

Kate105 · 27/12/2020 08:39

I’m out! AF arrived with a bang this morning... Onwards and upwards!

MrsB2019x · 27/12/2020 09:51

Sorry to hear that @Kate105 💙

littleeggcup · 30/12/2020 22:46

Evening ladies. I hope all is well. I have my
next scan tomorrow; ten days since my last one. I should be 6wk 3. I'm so nervous I can't sleep. Trying to be positive but it's so hard! X

Hlump1980 · 30/12/2020 23:50

@littleeggcup
All the best for tomorrow. Could you try and listen one of those sleep stories on YouTube to help with nerves ? Sorry not much help I know x

MrsB2019x · 31/12/2020 00:09

Best of luck @littleeggcup 💙 my next one is on Monday at 7+5, I’m shitting a brick too!

Sammyclaire22 · 31/12/2020 00:16

Good luck for your scans guys! Fc for you both.

Finally getting around to packing my hospital bag and getting the baby stuff ready, I can't believe how quickly this pregnancy has gone. Doesn't seem more than a month when I was wondering if my dd was my one lucky shot and if I'd ever conceive again! What a crazy year x

MrsB2019x · 31/12/2020 00:41

How exciting @Sammyclaire22!! 🥰🥰

littleeggcup · 31/12/2020 10:26

All done! Measuring correctly from my ovulation date too 6wk 2. Crown to rump is only 2.6mm!! So tiny xxx

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Ivybutterfly · 01/01/2021 12:03

@littleeggcup wonderful news!

@Sammyclaire22 wow. It does seem quick now. Have a good birth. Very exciting xx

NigellasMicrowave · 01/01/2021 12:10

Happy new year everyone. Fingers crossed it’s a better year for all.

Sammyclaire22 · 01/01/2021 15:09

Congrats @littleeggcup, lively news for the new year.
Happy New year everyone, hope its a good one for us all xx

MrsB2019x · 01/01/2021 16:07

@littleeggcup How adorable! Bet you are so much more relieved now

Happy New Year to you all 😘

Ivybutterfly · 02/01/2021 13:05

Happy New Year. Here is to a baby boom. 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

littleeggcup · 04/01/2021 12:34

Unfortunately I started to bleed this morning and now having brown discharge and bad cramps. Honestly can't believe it. Epu won't see me so I booked a private scan for 7.15 this evening

Currently in bed with a hot water bottle

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