TTC after miscarriage - March 2020

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Hey everyone 👋🏻

This thread is for anyone TTC or testing in March after a miscarriage.

So sorry if you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

@Anny27 Haha YES! I’d forgotten about that! At the time you don’t question it, until you get older and go, errrr nope, she’d have to wait a bit longer than a few hours 🤣

@Moominmiss mine are 10, 8 and 5! How similar! It feels like forever ago! I’m 30 now and also worried that’s it my age that’s the issue (though I know 30 isn’t old!)

Hello everyone

I will be trying to conceive in March 2020. I am currently on cycle day 3. I am hopeful for this month as i have multiple ovulation sticks which i have not used before! I am 33 and trying for my 2nd baby. This will be month 4 of TTC. Vitamins wise i am taking folic acid and vital DHA. I thought i would join for support and to support others. Good luck to everything TTC in March xx

@Moominmiss I don't do ov tests (too much pressure on my partner and it stresses me out too!) but my cycle is regular as clockwork and I ov day 15 most often which is today, or anywhere between day 12 and day 18 much less usually. We've had a bit of a crappy month and only dtd day 10 and day 13, we'll try again tonight, but I feel like we messed up this month. Anyway looks like I'll be expecting af roughly when you are - fingers crossed for both of us xxx

I just did a post but thought I’d ask here...

Anyone has thyroid problems?

@michette not that I know of, sorry to not be of help xx

7dpo and just had a nosebleed.....which I have never had in my life apart from when I was pregnant. Either a symptom or a cruel coincidence haha

@Anny27 your nose bleed could be! My earliest symptom with my 3 children was a blocked nose and when I cleared it it would be blocked with dried blood and stuff 🤮

I'm back for another month of ttc, AF arrived yesterday, 2 days late!
Glad I didn't waste my frer!

Wondering if I can jump in with you ladies. I had a mc at 5wk5d, lost the bean on 25th Jan but the bleeding and rest didnt come away until 28th so am currently CD29. My BFP was a complete shock, I'm 41, be 42 in a few weeks and I have pcos so really didnt think I'd be able to conceive again, I have a DD (6) and tried for 3 years to conceive with her, I lost my husband almost 4 years ago but met up with my first love again and weve been together now a year and a half.

Dont think its going to be good news this month though as by now my boobs would be killing me and this time absolutely nothing, I have some cramping and am a bit moody so reckon AF not far away, really dont think I've ovulated this month tbh but we always live in hope dont we!

@Anny27 I don't want to dampen your hopes and I'm crossing my fingers for you, but I only started getting nosebleeds whilst pregnant too - however I kept getting them in my first few cycles since mc... xx

@MOGMOGMOG85 I needed to hear that tbh before I got too carried away!! Isnt is weird how nosebleeds can start in pregnancy! So strange

@Moominmiss all these yeara I thought nausea was the only symptom but people get such random ones haha

Hows everyone else doing?

Welcome @kkr168 to the march chat. Sorry af got you

And welcome @gizmo167

@Michette no experience of thyroid I’m afraid. Do you think it might be an issue?

@kkr168 sorry you’re joining us here, hopefully this thread will have as many bfps as Feb seems to be getting!

@Anny27 I’m 7dpo today and already losing the run of myself with the symptoms. Awful breakout on my chin which I don’t usually get but which could obviously be from anything. Still googling early pregnancy + spots 🙄

@sparkl tww buddies!!! Haha my search history is always ridiculous this time of month 🤣🤣🤣🤣

How is everybody getting on?

Cycle day 4 and still bleeding here so not much happening

When not in tww madly symptom spotting i google away all the possible disease i could have that could affect my fertility
And also worrying i am too old (31 soon) and will never have a baby 😕

Not the greatest time tbh......

@Sparkl i dont know i have to repeat blood test in 4 weeks to know....

@Anny27
how are you doing? Testing soon??

@DisneyMummySince2010 what about yourself?

Had MMC 4 weeks ago and ttc as soon as Iv had a cycle so can I join ?

Aww @Michette I think we all worry it will never happen but try to stay positive! I always think a period is a good sign that something is working! When I go months without one due to PCOS then I start to worry!!

I’m about 9/10 dpo based on my opk and CM but no sign of AF, I usually start to spot from 9dpo but nothing yet! My boobs are so sore and my nipples are red/purple around them, all new In the last week. Sorry I know TMI!!! But I did a CB today and it was BFN so I’m not sure!

@disneymummysince2010 hey lovely - I am 9dpo :) not having much symptoms really - will see if I get any spotting on saturday as that usually happens around 12dpo. I aim to test on sunday the earliest (13dpo) what about you?

@Michette let's hope you ovulate earlier this month! My late ovulation this month made everything drag!!

@bb077 welcome lovely

@DisneyMummySince2010 it’s still early ! At least you can feel some symptoms :)

@anny27 yeah honestly the CD20 ovulation was too much...

And hoping for a bfp for both of you ladies this weekend xx would be amazing! I feel like February was a lucky month on the thread so far!

CD20 and still no ovulation for me!! 😣😣 I'm not exactly sure when my normal ovulation day is but I'm sure it hasn't been this late before. It's so disheartening having negative OPK each day.

Hi @Anny27

I’m think I’m going to test again in the morning. I have loads of cheapies and one more CB digital. I keep tracking my ovulation too just in case it was a false surge, this can happen when you have PCOS. You can have multiple surges across a cycle, how annoying!!!

When are you going to test?

Thank you @Michette ❤️

I had my follow up scan yesterday which confirmed I’ve had a complete miscarriage. Bleeding has stopped now after 9 long days so I’m looking forward to getting my normal cycle back so we can start trying again! Hoping I’ll ovulate before my first AF but we shall see.
How are you @DisneyMummySince2010?

Hi @bb077 I’m in a similar position but just going to throw myself back into TTC without waiting. Good luck and hope you’re feeling ok after your MMC x