TTC after miscarriage - March 2020

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Hey everyone 👋🏻

This thread is for anyone TTC or testing in March after a miscarriage.

So sorry if you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

Hey Ladies been lurking in the background this month

Lovely to see lots of BFP this month congratulations to you.

Unfortunately March is not my month as AF arrived this morning so will be heading over to the April post.

Will be keeping an eye on here and really hope I see more BFP. Got everything crossed for those still in your TWW. Baby dust to you all xxx

Hey @ELM7 sorry to hear this, that's rubbish. Pretty sure we will rondevoux on the April thread 😔, all the best to you 💜

@ChampooPapi yup... I hope none of us will have to be on the April thread but this month there s not even a single symptom to spot at 8 dpo (not even the slightest inflated boob)
Sad...
Also got results from my colposcopy/cervix biospsy and it’d not good so i have to repeat in June. Was the cherry on top this morning 😕

Let me know if you end up testing Sunday, might join in 🥂

In the nicest possible way @ChampooPapi I really hope not to see you on the April thread. xx

Hi ladies,

Hope you are all okay. Sorry I haven't written so long. I've been struggling with anxiety the past month ... I never thought I'd say something like that in my adult lifetime but here I am.

Amazing news on your BFP @shhhhs 💗💙🌈 So exciting!! Sorry for those of you with AF arrival but I know BFPs are just a matter of time for you all. ❤❤

@Hayleylou89 Hey I know you girl. 💗 I say defo take another test tomorrow morning with FMU because your bleeding does look like implantation bleeding, not a period bleed at all. Dont want to get your hopes up but I've never seen a bleed like that a few days before period is due until it's good news. 🤞🤞

@Nuggetlover27 I remember you from a few months back. How are you doing? Xx

I am still pregnant but so so so so cautious and reluctant to talk about it. My dodgy discharge/bleeding seems to have ceased and I had a scan last Monday at 6w6days and there was two sacs again, one with a heartbeat and an empty one.

Have another one this coming Monday but just feel like it's a full gone conclusion it will be bad news. I know it's bad but my only experience of PG has ended in MC. I have no symptoms apart from cramps at night and I am 8 weeks and 2 days today. Just so shrouded by doubt, these next four days cant be over quick enough.

I am so sorry for not replying to you @Fizzl. You are a lovely friend to check up on me, I just find it so difficult to talk about. ❤❤ How are you? Xx

Wishing everyone a peaceful afternoon with all the madness going on around us xx

Aww heyyyy @StephyRose ... so lovely to see u on here again! so so happy to hear ur PG!!
Mine is def AF i think the test must be an evap so onto next month for us. I pray with every bone in my body u get the best news at ur next scan u deserve it so so much with what uv been through! X

Hey lovely @StephyRose it’s @Michette from (jan and feb threads) i changed my name.

Thanks for giving some news despite the anxiety and happy to hear there was a heartbeat- this is great!
I hope the next scan shows good progression and that for the first time your pregnancy experience will turn out positive in (at least) a healthy baby...

Sending love 💓

@ChampooPapi yes have had a rough couple of weeks but trying to be positive (and het a positive hehe) this month!

@StephyRose I hope that you are feeling better with your anxiety ? I'm sorry to hear you are having such a rubbish time of it ! All my fingers are crossed for a positive outcome for you 😘
I am trying to not think about TTC but I just want it to happen so bad. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong!?

Can't seem to get any results with basal temp or ovulation sticks (done 2 a day my last cycle)

Anyone else wish that life was like The Sims and you could pee on that stick straight after DTD and get an instant result? 😂

@StephyRose good to hear from you! I'm so glad you've popped back to check in with us.

I can only imagine how you must be feeling, especially in these strange times we're currently living in. Totally understandable that you're experiencing anxiety and I guess being cautious is self-preservation in these situations. Try and just take each day as it comes and stay as positive as you can 💛 I wish you all the best for your scan next week.

I'm doing alright thanks. Currently in the tww and 3dpo. Been distracted with everything that's happening at the minute so not really driving myself crazy yet with symptom spotting. But tonight I realised I've had really mild heartburn all day which is really strange as I never really get it. Trying not to read too much into it!

I'm currently wfh as everything this week has been cancelled for me work wise and we're being encouraged to skype/conference call rather than see people face to face. On one hand it's great as I feel somewhat protected and know it's for the greater good but I also feel like cabin fever is setting in already 😬. Anyone else feeling it?

@Fizzl

It comes and goes for me! Depending on what i have planned for the day.
Where i am there is no confinement but not much happening :/

How’s everyone doing??

@SunnySideUp2020 oh you know, just so hungover I feel like I might actually die. Why God why 😣

@champoopapi 😩 when are you testing???

@SunnySideUp2020 definitely not today ! 😅 I'm due af in 2/3 days anyway so I'm going to try and hold out untill I'm late. Highly possible I cave Sunday, I genuinely feel like at this stage I'm out again. That's probably the alcohol talking but right now my brain is saying 'theres zero chance woman!'

I'm also hungover today 😂
Hope everyone is coping ok in these very uncertain times

Been following for a while. I'm 9dpo and did this. The line is going the wrong way so none the wiser lol

@triedandtestedteacher Hi, I am also 9 dpi! I almost did a test this morning but I went to the loo to take away the temptation! Trying to hold out testing until Monday but we'll see... got some cheapies I can waste and a digital one for clarity if needed!!! Good luck

So today also 9DPO and got BFN.. not even the faintest hint of a line..early days but not feeling it’s gonna happen this month. No symptoms.
Given I’d still been spotting up to ovulation I never expected big things anyways so not too bummed. Also doc managed to get me in for a swab before the madness, said it all looks normal and she doubts there’s infection so will be happiest going into next cycle if swab confirms that!

@triedandtestedteacher that’s def a faulty test unfortunately, you’ll have to go again.

@triedandtestedteacher you might want to start your own thread . It's not very good etiquette really to pop up on a thread you have never ever posted on before with a picture of a positive test. But especially on one where people have had miscarriages or still births. Not just insensitive, but as no one knows anything about you or your journey why even bother sharing this with this group at all?

I understand you have had a loss too so of course this is fantastic news for you, and I wish you a healthy and as stress free as possible pregnancy.

Just to make you aware it's possible to do an advanced search on here and all your previous posts come up so it'll be very obvious to people where and for how long you've been posting.

@ChampooPapi it's not positive though is it? It's probably faulty. I was on here before and on the January and February threads. I just name changed to post about the corona virus and what was happening in my school

Positive or faulty what is wrong with people doing this?!

Hi you have no idea who I am and give zero fu#ks about me but here is my maybe positive test

Absolutely no context and no apologies for anyone's experiences or explanation or their own

@ChampooPapi I think you're getting a bit bitter in this process. Try to calm down. As I said, I've been on the January, February and March threads but I name change for privacy. I didn't realise there were hard and fast rules about who can post and who can't or that you have to give chapter and verse about your sob story before you can post a photo of a test

@triedandtestedteacher Why the hell didn't you put that in your post! We've probably chatted and been really rooting for you like we root for every other poster here.

Oh my god what did you expect unless you weren't aware you'd changed your own user name.

And actually I've seen tests like this turn out to be positive so a little context next time would be much appreciated. Oh my god I absolutely blasted you !

@triedandtestedteacher it's not a hard and fast rule it's literally basic politeness.

Everyone knows that the one thing you don't do is go onto a long running thread and post a test picture with zero history of posting on there.

No 'sob story's needed, it's quite obvious. 'hi I posted back in February and I've changed my name...

We have spoken before but I can't remember what my name was leggings or something. Sorry maybe I'm wrong!