TTC after miscarriage - March 2020

[TerribleImagination]

Hey everyone 👋🏻

This thread is for anyone TTC or testing in March after a miscarriage.

So sorry if you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

@Hayleylou89 it absolutely killed me. I kept thinking my body was getting better and recovering and then I'd wipe and there'd be more.

I hope you know either way soon and you can begin to move forward x

@ejb86 bless u! Its horrendous isnt it! I just want to know either way cos this limbo is a nightmare x

I was lucky enough to get my BFP this morning ♥️ 11DPO so very early but I'm trying to stay positive that this one will stick around ♥️

Ahhhh congratulations @shhhhs that's an amazing line for 11dpo!

Stay safe and good luck 💗💗💗

Thanks everyone for the positive words, trying to stay positive but just feel a bit bluhhhh!!

@shhhhs I'm so pleased for you, congratulations and I have everything crossed for you that this one is a sticky little bean 😘!!

Xx

@shhhhs that’s fantastic! Congratulations! Wishing you the best over the months ahead!

Thank you ♥️♥️ this thread has been such a lifeline over the last couple of months and I'll be forever grateful for the love and support shown here. I can't wait to see all of you get your BFP's really soon!! 😘

@shhhhs great news, congratulations!

Congrats @shhhhs !! Really nice line for 11 dpo 😍

@shhhhs so same question i ask to everyone 🤓🤓🤓
What are your symptoms???

@Ljm0101 how are you feeling today?

@SunnySideUp2020 I didn't really have many symptoms. The only thing that has stood out is that I just felt so uncomfortable in my tummy, it felt like I was going to come on my period for days, I also got (and still have 😣) really bad skin. The day before testing I had the weirdest strong taste in my mouth for a few minutes which is what made me do the test so earlier, I was trying to hold off for as long as possible! None of these symptoms happened with DS or MC, so every pregnancy really is different right from the very start!

Hey @SunnySideUp2020 still a bit rubbish to be honest and I've woke up with the biggest cold sore 😢😢!! Think I'm just going to have a feeling sorry for myself day 😂!! How are you? Xx

@shhhhs congratulations! That is such a strong line, you must be walking on air. So happy for you, we needed another bfp on here, it seems like it's been a while.

Amazing news, and yes, tell us everything you did this month 😉🌈♥️🎉

@Annny27 are we both on month 5/6 now post miscarriage? Doesn't it seem like last week it happened but also a year ago all at the same time? The way time has ebbed and flowed during these months has been really odd. Either a snail pace or wizzing past before my eyes!

Now here we are in our tww while the country shuts down, could this be our month 🙏 I hope it is for one of us ♥️

@ChampooPapi thank you ♥️♥️ nothing special done really, just used OPK and DTD the daily/every other day around the time the sticks told me too!

Hope the ttw is going ok for you, how many days until you test/AF due?

Hi ladies,
Hope you don't mind me joining, I haven't quite caught up from all the messages yet but wanted to join in.
I recognise a few of your names from previous posts but my story is , I had a missed miscarriage back in November at around 10 weeks (baby measured 5+4) with my first pregnancy.
It took my body a while to recover and I got my first period at the end of December.
We have been TTC since but with no luck. My cycles aren't quite back to what they were, before the MC cycles were around 30/31 days but since I've had around 38 days cycles.
Last month we covered all possible ovulation dates and I still got my period this month (last Monday)

So here's to hoping this month is my month too.
Really hoping for my rainbow baby 🤞🏻

Congratulations @shhhhs that is definitely a strong positive!

I love how many BFP's we've had recently! I noticed the April thread is pretty quiet still at the minute which is a good sign as people seem to be moving to the pregnancy threads.

12dpo BFN

Girls my heads up the wall this is my first cycle following my loss in Feb so i know it can be messed up... Yest at 10dpo i got BFN on FRER few hours later i had a pinky bleed that looked like implantation as i had it last healthy prrgnancy and then it got heavier still only on wiping not my pad but then i thought im out....so today 11dpo nothing on my pad this morning only when wiping and little when peeing so thought id do a cheap asda test i got just in case i seen anything (if it was implantation) ... can anyone see the faintest line on here today? Could it just be chemical or evap cos it was about 40 mins after taking it i checked it again so not hopeful atall tbh more clutching at straws x

@Hayleylou89 can she a shadow of a line but difficult to say?
It’s not pink on the picture and these days evaps seem to be a problem so wouldn’t get my hopes up. (As i did myself last month)

But could be something, maybe try fmu tomorrow???

@Nuggetlover27 hey, you've been through the mangle throughley. Was a nightmare few months. I remember you from a previous thread, it sounds like your onto a good cycle now and you can start looking forward ✨ ♥️🌈

App is saying 9 days post ovulation @shhhhs so we live in hope! Won't be testing if I can sit on my hands, though may cave on Sunday or Monday. This week is a no no for early testing after a flurry of ones o did q few months back, the daily negatives were such a downer & put me in this kind of crazed mental place.

Keeping calm and having a ginormous glass of wine tonight to treat myself for batch cooking my toddlers food and making a birthday cake for the older one. She's 10 tomorrow 🎉

@TerribleImagination how are you doing? Just sending a virtual wave, have you got into your fertile week again yet? It feels like a long old time now doesn't it we've been trying since our miscarriage, I live to see us women who have lost get their big fat positives on here.

Let's keep smashing it and being positive! 💜

Waves enthusiastically @SunnySideUp2020, I can't believe we are inching towards the April thread now! Bloody hell woman 🙄

@Hayleylou89 I am awful at these but I really zoomed and can't see anything i don't think, potential evap. I had a similar thing to you 3 months ago, then two days later full on period arrived.

Also seen others go on to get their bfp so it's just a waiting game now. Really horrible isn't it 😣 I would hold off testing untill the weekend if you can and AF doesn't come in full force, then if your have caught your line will be clearer.