TTC after miscarriage - March 2020

[TerribleImagination]

Hey everyone 👋🏻

This thread is for anyone TTC or testing in March after a miscarriage.

So sorry if you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

I’m so sorry @TerribleImagination
Just think next month is a New Years baby xxx

Sorry lovely @TerribleImagination it really does suck 😭

@terribleimagination

Thinking of u! Get urself some treats and pamper urself and i honestly hope ur ok! Xx I have everything crossed for this cycles for u!! X x

@scrumdiddly123 @happyasbarry

Im cycle day 33 but its my first cycle since my loss on 7th feb... not sure what to think ( my normal cycle is between 35-38 days so if i get to 38 days and still no AF ill be more optimistic than i am now - my app is saying AF is now due CD44!! So i guess i shouldn't test until then really but me being me ill probably test with an frer next week if im feeling symptoms - what do u think when r u both testing? Xx

@scrumdiddly123 @happyasbarry

Sorry so the natural cycles app is telling me to wait until 21st to test 🙈 thats agesss

@Hayleylou89 what CD are you today? This is my first cycle since my loss too so Iv OV’d later than normal. But going from my positive opk AF should be due 21st. I’ll probably start testing at 7dpo if I have any symptoms as I just can’t help myself! Earliest I’ve got a BFP is 10dpo x

Hi ladies I had a mmc at 11 weeks in Jan already have one dd. clear blue advanced have always been brilliant for me but I just posted about this elsewhere but it turns out they can be wrong.
I ovulate on day 14 usually so I was pretty surprised when on day 12 with a new holder there was no flashy face, day 13 ( yesterday) no flashy face so I dug out an old holder ( which clear blue say are fine to use) and tested it with the same urine and got a flashy face. This morning day 14 I tested the same urine with the two holders. New holder gave me the blank circle ⭕️ old holder changed to static smiley. I have all the tell tale signs of ovulation today so I'm pretty sure the old holder is correct.
I'm so glad I checked with the second holder. I'm pretty tired tonight so could easily have not bothered with sex lol

@scrumdiddly123

Im cd 33 today 3 day dpo...I ovulated on CD 20 when i conceived with my girl i lost - so its worked out exactly 10 days later than then.

What are ur usual symptoms iv not had much today or yesterday my boobs still feel heavy from when i was pregnant tbh so its hard to tell if they are changing much as that was the first sign last time as im only average boob size, iv had cramping around ovulation which is normal for me, but def not got any signs of AF.

I got a bfp 10 days before my period was due with my last pregnancy but i kind of new i was pg before testing as i had implantation bleed at 6dpo so kinda hope i see that rather than wait the full 2ww 🙏 x

@scrumdiddly123 so have u had a bleed yet since ur mc ? X

I am a warrior for ttc yes 😊sorry about your AF @TerribleImagination

@DisneyMummySince2010 i am pretty sure i am not pregnant unfortunately... will do another opk tonight as been away all day today but i think it was simply a super lh surge- hopefully a super egg too 😄

Oh @TerribleImagination I am so sorry.

@Hayleylou89 I can't temp as wouldn't be accurate when I'm sharing a bed with and being woken at random times by a toddler!

Still no AF here xx

@Hayleylou89 no I haven’t had a bleed yet since the MC which started on 17th Feb. I’ve had cramping the last couple of days too which I also had last time around ovulation.
With my other pregnancies I’ve had nausea, sore boobs and more CM than usual. I’ve always know by about 7dpo if I’m pregnant so start testing around then and impatiently wait for a bfp! Really hoping it happens quickly again this time! Will be nice to have someone to symptom spot with x

@scrumdiddly123

7 dpo is not to far away, I remember being so far away from AF when i tested and got a faint bfp i was so suprised! So hopefully its like that this time... iv got cheap tests anf one cb and one frer to use so will probably test earlier than i should but why not :) good luck to us all 💖

@TerribleImagination I'm coming to join you on the April thread. Here's to a December baby!

@Hayleylou89 sorry my reply didn't post. I will be testing on Friday. My normal pattern would have me on AF right now as I am CD 33 normally. My app is putting me on CD38 for period to start. No signs of AF currently bar PMS. I am still not sure I ovulated though. Just want my body to work again. Prior to getting pregnant in November I was tracking each month with the aim to start trying in January knowing exactly when I was ovulating but I fell pregnant by accident 6 days before ovulation. It was a very happy accident at the time.

Well AF is done and we've decided to skip this month. Partly so I have a month where I'm not crazy symptom spotting,for both of our sakes. I know I turn ridiculous and I'm not fun to be around. Plus we have a few family birthdays around what would be my due date. Onwards to a 2021 baby 😕
Thats the first time I've thought about the fact our baby won't be born this year.
In the back of my mind I'm still thinking hopefully we will get carried away this weekend and slip up...

@sweetpeaormarigold enjoy your month off! If I wasnt so obsessed I would be inclined to do the same!

Hey @SunnySideUp2020 and @Champoopapi how my cycle buddies?
I'm 6dpo now and I feel like time is moving so slow. I'm due AF on 18/19th (different on flo to premom) so maybe test around then if I don't cave in before. Hope you're both ok. Xx

@Ljm0101 I'm 5DPO and feel your pain with the dragging thing! Although i have managed to not think about it until today, another 9 days feels a long though!

@shhhhs it's the worst I'm ok during the day when I'm busy but as soon as I have 10 mins it's all I can think about . It's nice being able to come on here and speak to people in the same boat as I feel my hubby is probably fed up of me going on about it . Haha. Xx

@Ljm0101 👋 👋

1 day post ovulation. Dtd today but not yesterday...
Almost fully recovered from my stomach flu/food poisoning but not much hope for this cycle given that we only manage to dtd twice in the window 😅

Will be away on holiday until 21st so will test upon return but will follow closely for yours :)

@Ljm0101 I know what you mean! I try to limit going on about it too much in front of DH but it's so hard when it's the only thing I think about most of the time! Not testing early is going to be hard, but I did an embarrassing amount of tests last month so I am not allowing myself to buy anymore this month, I have a couple left in the house that will do if/when I'm late (well that's the plan...)

I’m back 😔😔😔

Utterly devastated that it’s happened again.
But I’ll be joining you all, although probably more in the background, on the April thread.

@moominmiss I am so sorry to see you back lovely :( please only share if you are comfortable but what happened? Xx

Oh @moominmiss I'm so sorry to see you back here 💔💔