TTC after miscarriage - March 2020

[TerribleImagination]

Hey everyone 👋🏻

This thread is for anyone TTC or testing in March after a miscarriage.

So sorry if you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

@shhhhs i know its just even hard to predict anything when ur bodys not in its normal flow though is it ... my cycles before my pregnancy loss were 35-38 ... i lost my girl on 7th feb and havnt had a period yet though and think i ovulated this weekend on cd 29 according to my opks but just hope they are not false reading and i think my cervix was open for what i could tell 🤞🏻 lets hope we are in this month as id love to have another 2020 baby and make this year as good as it always should have been 💖 iv def got tender boobs and had little cramps today so hoping its all signs for the better and not AF 🙏

It is 6.15pm on the day that AF has arrived on the past 2 cycles, and she's still a no show. I've been expecting to find her every time I've been to the loo today. She's showed before work the past 2 cycles.

Don't want to get too excited. I guess the good news, if AF does arrive, would be that my cycles seem to be lengthening.

@ejb86
Do u not have a test u can take ? X

@hayleylou89 just reread your first post, I can't even imagine how horrendous a loss at 22 weeks would be, just heartbreaking. Can't wait to see you get you BFP and 2020 baby ♥️

@Ejb86 good news about the longer cycle, when will you preg test?

@Hayleylou89 @shhhhs I've tested when I got home. BFN, but I'm only 7dpo. X

@Ejb86 hopefully get that BFP next week then 🤞

@shhhs @Ejb86

Yeah its been tough but as much as shes always my first little girl, focusing on making her a sibling is helping me cope as thats all i want for us 🤞🏻 i conceived right away last time so hope its the same for this one too, i got my bfp well before my period was due it was over a week before my period was even due dont know how common that is but i already just knew inwas pregnant aswell as i had implantation spotting too x

@Hayleylou89 I have a little boy, but lost my twin girls at 16 weeks in September. I completely get what you mean about making them another sibling. That's exactly how I feel. I can think of nothing else.

Hey @sSunnySideUp2020 sorry just catching up, so glad you're feeling a bit better and that you got to Dtd. Keeping everything crossed for you that's it will be your month. I'm in the 2WW now so I'm just trying to keep myself busy. Xx

Today is my twins' due date. They were going to be born at 34 weeks, so they'd have already arrived, but today is their official due date.

AF hasn't shown yet. Can't help but think it would be lovely for this to be the cycle that we get our rainbow conception. Going to try another test this morning once I can peel myself from under LB

@Hayleylou89 that would be amazing. I am pretty sure I am out this month though. I really hope this month works for you. I am still testing OPKs are you? X

@Ejb86 thinking of you today and praying that you get your rainbow at the end of this awful storm. Everything crossed for you xx

Thanks @Ljm0101 no sign of a line, but only 8dpo. I'll just keep praying that AF doesn't arrive. Dread going to the loo and seeing red.

@Ejb86 I know how you feel, lots of positive thoughts. Easier said than done but try and do things to occupy yourself to keep you busy. Xx

AF due today and I tested this morning, cos I couldn’t cope with a day of hoping and then seeing my period... BFN 😢 So just waiting for it to arrive now. This sucks 💔

@terribleimagination sorry lovely:(

Thinking of you and your twins today @Ejb86 xx

@TerribleImagination that's crap, I'm sorry 😢 xx

@Ejb86 thinking of you today, I’m sure it’s gonna be a really tough day for you. Hopefully you get a line soon. xx

@TerribleImagination sorry It’s a BFN😟xx

@happyasbarry

Yeahs still opking just to make sure LH is getting less and my app has confirmed ovulation for sat meaning im 3 dpo today according to that my temp was 36.82 this morning so thats heading in the right direction too are u temping still?

@ejb86
Hope ur ok lovely, fingers crossed u get ur bfp soon whats ur temps like at the min?

@TerribleImagination although there no bfp AF hasnt arriived when u expected it so ur not out until it arrives .. think positive 😘

@Ejb86 thinking of you today and keeping keeping fingers crossed for your rainbow x

@TerribleImagination sorry it’s a BFN
I’m the same, due AF tomorrow, the waiting and checking is awful but I don’t have any tests at the moment. I think if no sign of AF by tomorrow afternoon I’ll buy one on the way home from work.

Thanks lovelies 😘

@Ejb86 Sending love to you today lovey ❤️ Crossing everything for your BFP this month! 🤞🏻🌈

@Hayleylou89 that is ace news you have confirmed ovulation! I have never temped before. I am going to start temping though as this month has been made worse by not knowing when ovulation happened. I have been so angry and sad this past couple of days but I think it is more from worry about TTC then any symptoms or maybe PMS. CM does kinda follow the pattern of ovulation though but I never have that much to go by. When will you test?

@Hayleylou89 you’re similar to me, I got a positive opk on Saturday so should be 2dpo today. I’m not convinced I did ovulate though as usually have loads of EWCM for a couple of days and this time I had it for literally half a day! So not holding out much hope for
This cycle! AF due 21st for me x

AF has just shown up 😭 TTC absolutely sucks

Started an April thread, the 4th of these I’ll have been on now since the MC 😢

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3844298-TTC-after-miscarriage-April-2020?watched=1

In the nicest possible way, I really hope none of you have to join me on there ❤️