TTC after miscarriage - March 2020

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Hey everyone 👋🏻

This thread is for anyone TTC or testing in March after a miscarriage.

So sorry if you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

@Annny27 I got my bfp back on 1st March, very early and it was faint, but there. Got 1-2 weeks on clear blue digi on 3rd. Great.
Did a clear blue digi again on 8th still said 1-2 so started panicking a bit. Lines were darker than first test, but not getting increasingly darker. Did another clear blue digi yesterday, 10th, still said 1-2.
I would be 4+5 today so should have moved up to 2-3. Also line this morning on frer was quite light, lighter than a previous one.

So did another clear blue digi today and got not pregnant.

So was either a chemical and my cycles hadn’t settled back to 29 days and af wasn’t really due on 7th like I though, so af could still just show up, or it’s a very early loss. So either way now just waiting for af/to pass whatever was there.

I’d only phoned the gp this morning to request hcg blood tests because I was worried. Won’t be needing those anymore now.

So sorry lovely:( @moominmiss it does sound like an early loss. Thats heartbreaking a second time :( xxx

@happyasbarry or anyone feel free to comment

Sorry tmi - currently 4dpo- What ur CM like, mines kinda stayed creamy/opaque white but sticky .. dont know what to expect it should be like now but if AF was coming wouldn't it have dried up (so they say) xx

@happyasbarry
Just checked my old posts from sept when i fell pregnant and i got these from 9 dpo onwards so think ill test sunday an hopefully see a faint line atleast 🙏🙏

@Hayleylou89 mine is creamy all the way up till like 13dpo so doesn't mean anything for me. But doesnt mean it isnr a sign for you

Hi @Hayleylou89 snap on CM. I have been scouring the internet and apparently it can't be relied upon but I am adding it to my list of 'symptoms' vivid dreams, cramping, anger and sad spells, things smelling strong, some things tasting odd, creamy CM, seemingly high cervix slanting back (although never checked before) but my breasts feel normal and things and I really think I am making symptoms fit and perhaps imagining some, plus lots are same for PMS. I took a test today at 9dpo and negative and the OPK was totally blank. I got a positive around 12 to 14 days on both previous pregnancies though. Just wish I knew if I did ovulate or not.

@Anny27

I temp and do opks so never really focused on CM too much but fingers crossed - my cervix is still high which is meant to be a good sign too 🤞🏻

@Hayleylou89 By the way symptons for my first successful pregnancy were creamy CM, cramps and irritability and bad skin (which I have now too but that could be down to miscarriage hormones going mad)

@happyasbarry funny u say that as my skin went a bit all over the place with my first and my skin is usually really clear and iv got one sore spot under the skin by my nose and one on my chin but yeah cos our hormones are all over its hard to think its pregnancy symptoms isnt it. Have u checked ur cervix? Mine is really high x

Sounds silly but as I haven't checked cervix height before is it super obvious when it is low?

@Hayleylou89 i think it is high but I have small hands so not being able to reach may not mean anything?

@Happyasbarry
It will feel hard to touch when AF is due and be low and its meant to be soft and squishy, high and closed if its likely u have conceived but tbh iv never felt my cervix coming up to AF, only up to ovulation but im starting to track the changes now every day x

@Hayleylou89 ah thank you. I have 5 days from AF so will keep an eye. I am sending myself mad at the moment.

@happyasbarry tell me about it ... i had the implantation bleed happen at 6dpo which was really early last time unless i conceived a few days sooner than i thought but ill be hoping to hve that sign again in a few days but got to think not every pregnancy is the same but its hard not to compare to last time x

Oh @Moominmiss I'm so sorry! Hope you are ok, what a rough ride that is!

@Moominmiss I’m so sorry to hear this, life is so cruel. Hope you are holding up as well as you can be in this situation. Hugs xx

Awww @Moominmiss I'm so sorry to see you back here 😢!! Big hugs and also lots of positive vibes for this cycle. Xx

@SunnySideUp2020 so glad you're feeling better, and keep thinking positive it only takes once . Xxx

@Moominmiss so sorry to hear 💐

@Moominmiss I’m really sorry for your loss, contact your EPU so they can record it and monitor you xx

Wow this thread has been moving quickly again! I can't keep up 😂

Sorry to see you back here again @Moominmiss I think like a PP has said it might be worth still letting someone know so it's recorded on your medical record for you? It's a very cruel situation to find yourself in though

@Moominmiss so sorry you’re back with us, thinking of you x

@Hayleylou89 3dpo for me and had some brown Cm this morning. No idea what that’s about! Too early for it to be anything meaningful I think. With my last couple of pregnancies my Cm has been white and quite thin before my BFP

@scrumdiddly123

I had slight brown discharge at really early T 4dpo with my last pregnancy but it was after sex and again 6dpo this is what made me quite certain i was pg so id say thats a good sign for u 🤞🏻🤞🏻

So sorry @Moominmiss