New thread for the crazy gang - part 3!

[Beau2020x]

Heyyy girls! Here's our new thread - sorry if I've forgot anyone!

@Katie1109
@Ellsbells112
@Mrslane2019
@BFP2020
@Symptomspotter86
@Ange211
@Mumofboys17

And for the BFPs already who want to keep in touch
@sunflower2019
@quiffy
@fredthespider

*next fw

@Ange211 so sorry about the BFN. Hopefully cramps are implantation associated rather than af x If it is af on its way then be kind to yourself x glad you've got something to look forward to x

@katie1109 my cervix is super low so I'm sure it's AF on her way. I'm ok about it this time round actually. X

@Ange211 if it's any help AT ALL my cervix is always high and only low during ovulation. I can't even feel my cervix it's that high around AF. I swear I am backwards...

@Beau2020x What CD are you now Keep testing as most people will O a different times every month mine varies from CD 15-18 and stress exercise everything is a factor.

@calimommy Welcome

@Sunflower2019 I'm rolling into cycle 14 now and it took 2 years with DD so I think I'm done waiting and stressing about it now.
So happy for you that you an DP have sorted your issues and look forward to all your updates

@Ange211 I also had a BFN in the doctors this morning but I knew anyway she only did one just in case because I got a smear. It's shit still though.

Update on my situation: The doctor didn't do my bloods this morning has she wants me now to have full fertility bloods done on CD 2,3,4 and CD 21 and has referred me to fertility specialist and has advised me to try IUI. So that's my next step as long as everything goes ok with all the tests they do before hand. I'm covered for it through my healthcare so it's worth a try. If they do it and it doesn't work we are going to stop trying then until after our wedding which is late next year.

Also rang about a possible date for my Lap and dye and they told me it could be 3 or 4 months before I even get a date and that's private its absolutely crazy.

@BFP2020 sorry to hear about your BFN ❤️ when did u decided to go to the doctors to get tested? I'm on cycle 13 now and wasn't sure if I was too early to go see a doctor about testing!

@BFP2020 I'm on CD15 now not a sniff of a positive OPK!

So so glad you've moving forward with new tests! This might be the breakthrough you need x

My O seems to vary, last month I had +OPK on CD11, this month it was CD 17

Acht that's rubbish @BFP2020 as if getting a smear isn't bad enough!
I'm glad you are getting some tests done though. hopefully that will be the start of positive progress for you X

@Dreamz00 how old are you are you TTC no 1?

@Beau2020x don't get disheartened it will go positive you can O later some months it just means you will have a longer cycle and especially after a chemical and you do know you are more fertile after a chemical too so fingers crossed for you. x

@Ange211 I actually don't mind them at all I got Swaps done at the gynaecologist a few weeks ago they were 100 times worse. How are you feeling now? x

Just rang and spoke to the fertility nurse who advised that I would need to get the Laparoscopy done before the IUI anyway but their doctor would be able to do next month so way faster and I'm still covered privately so things are def looking up and she said she isn't worried about My OH morphology she said they look at the amount and the mobility more which his is ok.

afternoon guys
so ovulation day today we’ll absolutely rubbish headache and feel so tired like i never felt before just what i need😷
reading all your post do think i should go back to doctor a ask for test i went last month and all i got was you need to lose weight and you had healthy pregnancy before so your have another one come back in 6 months 😳 so we on cycle 11 ttc# 2 our DS is 4 year old

@Mrslane2019 NHS policy is to investigate after 12 months of TTC so I would go back & push for tests. In my experience getting bloods & waiting for referrals & any procedures you may need all takes ages so the sooner you get the ball rolling the better. You won't be eligible for IVF but they might offer you iui.

@BFP2020 I am 30 coming 31 and TTC baby no. 1, I'm just afraid they would turn me away then I would like I'm wasting my doctors time! My DH is also diabetic so not sure if that could be a problem also, ahhh all this unknown!

@mrslane2019 I can't believe they sent you on your way at 11 months!! I'm sorry what difference is one month going to make. How annoying!

Just done an OPK and still as negative as they come CD15 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

HOWEVER this girl bloats. So now I get a good idea of what approx 16 week pregnant me will look like 😂😂😂 (blurred areas out as there are outing photos of me and OH)

@BFP2020 I feel ok just pms'y cramps. They're too painful & persistent to be anything else. Just eating all the carbs & waiting on AF. How you doing?

@Beau2020x ahh I hate bloat! I think you're going to have a late ovulation this month?

Af finishing up for me, was super painful yesterday. Got on the phone to the doctors today to ask about the process for sperm analysis sounds like they have to refer him for it which is so long, I thought he could do it then and there!! Also the woman pissed me off by telling me he might not be seen as he hasn't been put on the system yet 😐 we registered him last week Thursday and they said they tried to ring him to say they didn't have the bloody surname of his next of kin and that's why he isn't on yet!! When we went and signed him up the woman looked at the papers so that isn't out fault!! I was fuming, I was like if you know he has an appointment for then just put him on the fucking system she tried to say to cancel it!! I obviously was having none of it! God like I haven't waited long enough you stupid old hag just so your bloody work mate!!! Plus I know how easy it is since I used to work in a doctor surgery!! Huffffffff I have to ring in the morning and see if she's done it!! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

@BFP2020 glad it is looking up for you! Everything is so slow here. Cant imagine having to wait for public. My doctor told me I would be 18 to 24 months waiting to see the consultant if I went public! And that was just initial appointment!
@ellsbells112 I hate inefficiency! Just do your job!!
Seems to be a few in FW for Valentines! Falling nicely! Let's hope for some love babies!

@Ellsbells112 eurgh honestly was she a receptionist as well? One of them stupid gatekeepers.

No idea what's going on work my ovulation. I've had bad pains the last 3 days and veryyyy light EWCM. Maybe I just missed my surge and it happened like in a few hours?? I am testing twice a day

@Beau2020x I don't want to be pissed off tomorrow lol so I hope it's been done! Maybe you missed it and had a quick surge, I'd say dtd every 2 days just in case? And keep doing the opks to see if you get a positive later on?

Ahh my best friend just messaged me telling me she is 99 percent sure she's pregnant and she doesn't want it. Now, that's her business and I will stick by her no matter what she chooses its her life, but damn it cuts deep knowing how long I've been trying and she has one mistake and boom. Damn. I kind of feel like it's a bit insensitive too knowing I've been trying for ages, at least tell me when you're 100 percent sure and need support, not when you haven't tested yet. Maybe I'm being over sensitive but I can't help it 😭 it's put me in a mood 😣 you know what I mean though?

@Ellsbells112 I get you hun x it’s difficult when those close to us get what we want, especially when they get pregnant my “accident” x I’m sure you’ll going to be supportive whatever she decides, but allow yourself to be upset and angry about it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Jealousy is human nature x
@Beau2020x still no positive opk? What CD are you on now? x I would just DTD every other day and continue using opks as @Ellsbells112 said x
CD10 today for me and entering FW either today or tomorrow x I think we’ll DTD today, Friday and then for couple of days when I get a positive opks which is likely to be on Sunday and ovulation Monday x

@Ellsbells112 ouch...yeah I totally get what you mean. If she knew how long you had been trying for I would 100% wait until she knew she was pregnant and she definitely knew she didn't want to keep it. But hey listen, I'm pro choice and all that - good on you for being strong and supporting here despite what you are going through 💕

@Katie1109 wooo exciting FW times ahead! What day do you usually get a positive OPK on?

Just realised this switched to a new thread. Hope everyone is doing good. My partner is back on Friday and I'm hoping for a later ovulation this month. My OPK is very close to a smiley face. Do you think if I get a smiley tomorrow I'm still in for a chance if we DTD on Friday?

@Ellsbells112 i had to do this with my best friend couple of month ago she even want me to go with her to hospital and i had go stay her house after but and end of the day that was her choice i was there to support her but inside i was in piece and heart broken

it like some people see 🍆 and get pregnant 🙄it all sent to try us and when we get BFP we appreciate more that what hoping anyway